Im kinda struggling with something here and I just wanted your opinions on this one.
We used to hang out with the neighbours a lot. But when hubby got cancer, they all kinda bailed on us. They stopped calling, coming over, saying HI , that kinda stuff. It really hurt so I stopped being friendly as well.
Well, now all of a sudden , they are being friendly to hubby. He was over there today, and I didn’t bother going over to say HI because Im still upset that they bailed on us like that.
Plus, the one wife is a busy body gossiper, so I don’t like sharing personal information about us because she will spread the information all over town. That doesn’t sit well with me.
So my question is ….Do you “love thy neighbour” in this case ?
I feel bad that hubby is over there by himself, and I should be “a good person” and be nice and social, but yet I don’t feel comfortable around this woman because of the gossip.
I feel like if I don’t be friendly ….its makes me a bad person.
2007-11-18
09:26:54
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mullinon
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