do u think i should wait i need ur advice?

Question

i dont know if i should keep my virginity or give it to someone thats special and that i love im only 14 but age doesnt matter to me wat matters is if i am ready and rite now i'm not sure because idk what it will be like can u share some of ur experiences with me plz and tell me wat to do!

Answer 1

don't let any1 pressure you into anything, do it when you're ready, it's not something you want to get rid of, but something to look forward 2. good luck

Answer 2

STAY A VIRGIN TILL AFTER YOU ARE MARRIED!! It will better that way cause if you get married and you have to tell your husband that you have already had sex and he hasn't then it will be awkward. It would be like you having that guy that you had sex with in the bed with you guys. And plus, c'mon you're only 14 and probably a freshman in highschool, right? What if this guy isn't what's best for you and you guys break up afterwards? Guys are really stupid at that age. I bet after you guys do it, he will stop talking to you and probably break things off with you. Just think really hard about this...you could be making the biggest mistake of your life. I know our society protrays sex as being a common nonspecial thing. "hey everyone else is doing, why not me?" That is a false misconception. Sex is a very special and intimate thing between two people and should be saved for when you are mature and older.

Answer 3

First. Respect your virginity.

Second: At 14 years old I know you have many questions and concerns pertaining to relationships.

There is no rush to just give away something that is so personal and special. Chances are, very good that in the future you will not even know where this person is that you want to give your gift of virginity to.

At 14....your young body is exploding with estrogen. In other words you are " feeling your oats " so to speak.

Please wait for that very wonderful guy that later on in your life you call your husband. And remember this for sure. You are not missing anything. Let the other girls give their's away.
Not you. You are a rare diamond and have self respect.

Do not let any guy take your virginity unless you are married to the lucky guy.

Best Wishes ! Hang in there. !

Answer 4

I think you are too young, you need to wait until u are out of high school or grown. You are too young to know what love is right now. If you do it right now it might be something that you will regret and responsibilities that you don't want or can't handle. I also think you kinda answered your own question about not knowing what to do which is no you shouldn't do it. Give yourself plenty of time, and ask the person you are involved with how they feel about you and make sure that they are on the same level as you. I know there is peer pressure maybe involved, don't think about what others say. Only you can decide for yourself and that person. But honestly I don't think you are ready.

Answer 5

loosing your virginity isnt like the beautiful scenes that they show on TV that are all deep and romantic (or nasty deepending on what your watching). It actually hurts pretty bad to loose your virginity and the longer you wait to test out how strong your love really is, the better. If you two are really in love then there should be absolutely no pressure and if he really cares about you then he wont even bring it up. The decision is yours and should only be made if your 100% sure its what you want to do.

Answer 6

Well you too young to be having sex and you should wait until you get married you have to think about std's and pregency not only that young men today will disrespect ayoung lady who easy and they will talk about you. the best thing is to wait you may think you ready but you really ain't and having sex at and early age is alot of responsilblites.

Answer 7

If you are asking for advice then you know you should Not do it. Virginity is something you can't get back. If you can, save yourself for marriage. 14 is to young to have sex anyway. Don't just think you're in love,KNOW you are! You will never be sorry,or worry about pregnancy,or std's.

Answer 8

well i cant say that its alright but i lost it when i was 14 to an 18 year old but i loved him very much and he was leaving for iraq we had been dating for 2 years but we are getting married next year.just reamber that u r taking a risk with this u could end up preganat.and i dont think u r ready for a kid im wasnt

Answer 9

Believe me when I say this, you are way too young. If you are truly in love, then it can wait..period. I was 17 when I first got intimate, well, needless to say, I am an official proof of first time, you can get pregnant cause that is what happened to me.
I ended up going through my pregnancy without the father around, let alone, the father was going around saying this this child was not his, he ended up leaving for 2 1/2 years and left me with our daughter to raise all by myself while he was out becoming a drug addict.
So, with that being said, I hope you decide to wait. And incase you're wondering, I did end up getting a paternity test due to filing for child support and it proved him and everyone else wrong, that this child I was carrying, was in fact his and there was nothing he could do about it.
There is nothing wrong with waiting when it comes to sex, absolutely nothing.

Answer 10

i'm 14 and i think about this alot so i say wait until you're 15 or 16 or til you thinl you can have sex with a guy and he won't go blabbing to his friends. And you don't want to be that slutty girl even if your friends are doing "it". WAIT.

Answer 11

hi well heres my answer if ur only 14 would wait till 16 or older and wait for the right gal for u that u really love its up to u and ur p rather to hold it or not but would wait till that speial time i hope this helps:)