I know I'm not. I mean I'm not the prettiest girl, but I know I'm not ugly. He said I looked like a fat, ugly T-Rex. It was someone who hacked on to my friends account and now I'm freaking balling about it beacuse I'm so pathetic. It sucks, please help me.
I'm starting to think I might really be ugly and now I'm feeling like total crap. I just kind of want some things to do to make me feel happy again...
Here's a picture of me.
I'm the one in the middle. /:
http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u290/nickel4000/?action=view¤t=l_7a85774d2fd64009e72dbc77d66bd9db.jpg
2007-11-18 10:47:39 · 13 answers · asked by Bri M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you're not ugly at all.
2007-11-18 11:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by 12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw your picture. It was a very NICE picture.This one person is BLIND that said those things that are hurting you now. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you must never allow what others say to bother you so much. All of us want and hope to be well thought of,but the real world is cruel and mean spirited.Learn this now you are so young and have so much to be thankful for.Did you know that many young famous models looked no different than you at a young age?But grew up to be RICH and Beautiful,read some of the stories of famous models and actors of what they were like at your age. Trust me,what matters most is the beauty that is inside you and if you are TRULY beautiful it will come out. I am a man and I will tell you what I find most attractive about a woman.A woman that has this Quality is just so SEXY to me. Ready?
CONFIDENCE.....so HOT is any woman that has it. Now ,,how do you get confidence? You are loved by God,your family,and your real friends,right? Can they all be WRONG about you? We love the good and nice loving people, right?People like you,now stop crying and know you are Loved and be Confident(SEXY) LOL and girl have some Fun!!!
2007-11-18 11:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are very pretty and I think you know that.
You are obviously not fat, so that was a stupid thing for him to say for a start, you are not ugly AT ALL, not even close, you are a very pretty young thing with a beautiful smile, attractive eyes, nice features and gorgeous fair skin, and you bear no resemblance to a T-Rex, so that's just another stupid thing he said which says a lot more about him than it does about you.
You know what your problem is? Paying a blind bit of attention to this idiot! Surely you are brighter than that? He's an idiot! Why would you factor his remark into anything you think about yourself? I am worried that your self-esteem is so fragile that you could even spend any time at all reflecting on his ridiculous remarks and letting them seep into your own mind and your own feelings about yourself. Please don't give him another thought. I think you can see from all the responses you've had today that his opinion isn't worth your energy. And it's not his real opinion anyway;he couldn't think that if he has seen what you look like, as we have. It's just a pathetic comment he made deliberately designed to distress you and cause you to doubt yourself. Don't give into it.
You know you're beautiful. All the best to you!
2007-11-18 11:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ugly at all and with age you will get even more beautiful :). The person who said that was being a troll, they where just doing what a hacker would do-they would have said that to anyone, even jessica alba lol. So don't take it personally, they were just trying to be obnoxious. Don't give anyone, expecially over the internet, any type of control to make you feel like crap you are too beautiful for that!
2007-11-18 11:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you are far from ugly, you are beautiful. Don't listen to that ignorance. who ever said that was either just a dirt bag trying to be funny, or someone trying to hurt you. don't listen to people like that. They don't even know you, how could they possibly know if your an ugly person. Physical beauty is only skin deep, character is what makes a person truly beautiful. Cheer up, you are a very pretty girl, someone was probably jealous. Don't ever let someone get you down like that, you are pretty, and probably a great person as well.
2007-11-18 11:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words are the worst weapons that a person can use. Sometimes you can't just suck it up because you are talking what people say to heart. That's when we have to learn to be stronger. Everyone has opinions. They also will, but its up to you how you are going to take it. Life is to short to worry about petty crap from ignorant folks. They are all around us everyday. We call them cynical. Always trying to find the worst in everything and everyone. Its a complex they have and not you. Beauty comes from deep within and radiates outward.....
2007-11-18 10:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Believe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw, sweetie, this guy sounds like a total jerk. There r only two reasons for this guy saying this. A: he has such low self confidence that he has to rag on someone else or B: he thinks ur pretty and he's bein immature about it.
2007-11-18 10:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is a low life creep who probably has absolutely no life besides hurting people who have a life. You can't let this loser's harsh words get to you because it would mean he won. If it helps I think you are a very pretty girl and no creep can change that!
2007-11-18 10:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't listen to stuff like that. In a lifetime there will be so many things to worry about you won't be able to keep track of them all....but this will never be one of them. When people throw barbs like that they do so to try to hurt you. When you give in and take what they say to heart, you reward them for their mean-spiritedness with exactly what they want. Don't. I know "ugly" when I see it, and you're not it. Have a nice day.
2007-11-18 10:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let those poopyheads be mean! Just pretend it didn't happen! Just relax and tell yourself, "I am not ugly! I am very pretty" The guy that said that is a jerkasaurus.
2007-11-18 10:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...sweety, don't listen... who ever he was, he is clearly unimportant! He does not matter in your sphere of existance... do you understand? He doesn't exist in your world... you've gotta decide who matters and who doesn't... you know? Don't listen to ingrates who would lie to you... they do that just to make you feel bad... They put you down, to maek themselves feel better... and its pathetic that they have to do that to such a sweet girl like yourself... don't listen to liars! ♥
2007-11-18 10:53:28 · answer #11 · answered by Just Moni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋