Friends - November 2007

Say you have a guy friend for a year or so and you go get together one night (after flirting online for a while). Say he wants you to sleep with him and you hold back as you're the slow moving type. Is it possible that he could interpret this as a lack of interest in him on your part? I mean, would he feel rejected by you and a bit hurt/annoyed? (this guy is in his mid 20s).

2007-11-17 02:56:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

...many acquaintances, few friends and only one best friend for
me and she's a handful:D

2007-11-17 02:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

not my father, not my mother, not my brother, and not even my friends!!!

I cannot even tell anyone the details of it otherwise it’ll jeopardise the whole situation.

Why???

Why???

Why it has given me this in return?

I have always pondered, what is the point of riding the ups and downs of life, yes we go through stage by stage in life to advance to the next level, what is the point then, when towards the end everything comes to nil?

Yes we suffer at school, then pass the exams. Then go out to work, then try to adapt to new work life, but if you are not happy, resign, found another job, then get disappointed, because everywhere you go, you encounter the same type of people trying to push away responsibilities, blah blah blah, same types of politics, then you move on to the next job, same thing again.

Life with the love of your life, infatuation, meet their friends, meet their parents, meet their relatives, then bang, break up, meet another person, the whole cycle

2007-11-17 01:11:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, I've received news that I'm able to shift class. But I've been best friends with Chris. I've just met her this year and we're very close. She couldn't move because of the results of her finals. Another close friend, Shar is going together with me. We've been friends for a long time, unlike Chris. Please advice, thanks.

2007-11-17 00:38:07 · 19 answers · asked by Shirley 1

Im nice to my friends and to people who I like but I can be quite short and cold with people Im not that crazy about. I dont like this as it leaves me feeling like im a mean and not very nice person. For example theres this one woman in work who talks non stop. I mean she'll talk about anything and everything. She's very nosey too. I entertained her for a while and talked to her but it became draining and I just didnt wanna talk to her about nonsense any longer. We work together every friday, just me and her and I wont talk to her. Which she has interpreted as me not liking her. I dont dislike her, but her level of talking is off the scale. I feel bad when I come home from work because I feel like ive been mean to her.
How can you be nice to people, I mean everybody, not just the folks who you like and who youre on the same wavelength with? And be genuinely nice too, not just being a fake. I mean I could be fake nice but I think thats the worst of all.
Thanks

2007-11-16 22:15:55 · 18 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1

You should continue.I will come back.Ready?

2007-11-16 21:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is no a question sorry......He is not doing good... I am afraid I may loose my best friend

2007-11-16 20:08:50 · 10 answers · asked by Livefor2day 3

my record was eat 100 grapes in new year party in just one night :)

2007-11-16 18:03:04 · 24 answers · asked by AEIOU? 3

Its like my first year in jr.high school but i missed the first 4 weeks because of a bone infection in my foot. But when i got back people were okey at first but now every one makes fun of me and kid i dont even know make fun of me. They keep asking me why no one likes me i have freinds but they are in different schools or not in my grade. I try to make friends but when i try to get close enough to talk to them they say to get away or they move. in my school all the kids hang out in groups so im always singled out and left sitting alone so sence all my freinds arn't around me im alone in school what can i do.

2007-11-16 17:46:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

All the people that I take up as my friends end up dissapointing me. Do I just pick bad friends?

2007-11-16 17:16:10 · 7 answers · asked by Bebe 2

I'm looking for this kid, his name is Canniggia Deslandes but all the clues that I've had so far have led me to dead ends. I would hire a private investigator but I can't afford that, I'm only 16.

I went to the place he once lived but his family no longer lives there, so I tried looking up his parents name online to find his current address but the ones that turned up were old addresses. I tried reverse phone search to track him down but that didn't work. His phone is no longer in service either. His parents names aren't listed anywhere in phone books.

I tried all the online social networks but that didn't help either, I found people who once knew him, even his ex-girlfriend. However he doesn't go to her school anymore. She didn't have any clue where he went or his contact info. Neither did the people who knew him.

So do you have any suggestions as to how to track this kid down?

If you think you know this kid (Canniggia Deslandes) please reply!!!

I need to find him!!!

2007-11-16 16:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

closer I miss her so much. She was in a coma for a couple weeks after the accident and I got to go see her and now I regret it kinda because my last image of her is when she was in the ICU and very hurt. I made a memorial website for her please visit it and sign her guestbook the address is http://alison-miller.virtual-memorials.com/ I was just wondering if you have any ideas abouy how I can remember her on her Birthday, or if you have been through this and know how I feel. Thanks in advance

2007-11-16 16:50:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP! Girls! How do I convince a girl I'm not a player?
HELP! Girls! How do I convince a girl I'm not a player?
Women seem to think I'm a player. Not to be cocky but I workout alot, very buff, always had girls like me even when I wasn't buff, drive a convertible Porsche, dress like an ace, sport the rolex and custom shoes. Very social. Make mint money like 200k a year. So they all think I'm a player and not good long term. I like this one girl how do I convince her that all that 'game' as she says isn't a game for her!

I mean thing of YOURSELF, what would convince you?

2007-11-16 16:26:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 15:14:52 · 12 answers · asked by Queen of Pentacles 3

i've got headaches & problems in my life right now, will anyone be my friend, i feel lost & alone :(

2007-11-16 14:54:09 · 30 answers · asked by Allstar 3

We spoke on the adoption but, I didn't feel she should. we not only can't afford to, she has to girls from a previous relationship and a daughter (1yr) with me. I love her alot, but I dont find it fair to the immediate family. We no longer have time for anything.

2007-11-16 14:47:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents dont do ANYTHING for the Holidays! Nothing! I sit around being loneley watching my neighbors open presents of Christmas morning, how they make a roats turkey and invite friends and family to eat and have fun....we are kind of Jewish, so we do "celebrate" Hannukah, but all we do is light a menorah. Then my parents expect hords of gifts from me, like 200 dollars worth of my babysitting money. I dont have a cell phone, ANY friends because I'm homeschooled, I have to buy my own clothes, computer, bedding, chairs, etc and I'm only 15. I used to use my birthday money, like 40 dollars a year to buy clothes from the salvation army, because my parents didnt want to buy me any clothes, let alone toys. I'm MISERABLE and lonely, and when I tell some people I rarely meet they don't understand because they have GREAT lives and think i;m a freak! And they don't understand how I can;t go to their birthday parties or dances at their schools because my parents thinks that (continues below)

2007-11-16 14:39:59 · 2 answers · asked by -:-vInTaGe PaSsIon-:- 6

The thing is my wife knows that girl and she's 1 of the friend in the group. Will this turn out to be a fight between friends or what?

2007-11-16 14:39:53 · 12 answers · asked by Rungkit V 2

so its friday alone here, because of my so called "best friends"
they basically just left me out. sorry if i sound like i'm complaining but i'm just upset, not only did they lie to my face about hanging out. they had to make up a bad excuse for it. I'm sick of their lies, and espeically one of them only caring about herself. She is my best friend and we have so much fun together, but she knows nothing about me because she is constantly talking about herself. She only does something when it works to her favor, if plans don't work out with us, she'll find someone else to hang out with and not even care or ask about how i feel. Idk what do to? Its so confusing, but thats what high school is about.

2007-11-16 14:38:21 · 28 answers · asked by EmCee 4

me and my bestfriend hardly talk anymore and now she is best friends with someone else...everyday of high school is awkward for me now because i feel lke a loser! i dont have any bestfriends anymore because my other bestfriend has a new bestfriend also....and it makes me sad when i see them having fun and being happy....i havent hung out with anyone in like 2 months!my mom even noticed. i dont like this feeling. i get depressed about it. can you help me please?~!

2007-11-16 14:33:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well my good friend is kinda gothic, but not much. she dresses kinda ark, but not fully goth. her other friends dad dssnt like the way she dresses. he says if she dssnt change, they can b friends ne more. shood she change for her friend or put her foot down and stay the same.

2007-11-16 14:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I asked my friend in August to go to Germany with me in January. He said yes, but didn't have enough money saved up to pay me $525 for the plane ticket. Months later, he still owes me $525, and even more for a car that we rented ($184)! I trusted him with my heart, and now I don't trust him one bit. He told me he has been saving, but I wonder how much. He also voluntarily quit his job because he didn't like it, and got another lower paying one. Plus he just bought himself a new $200 rife for target practice! I'm extremely mad. I don't think he will be able to go with me at all, and I'm not paying for his ticket. How do I make him cough that money up? I want to be nice about it just incase he ends up going with me.

2007-11-16 13:26:07 · 6 answers · asked by Evan 4

My friend came up with the idea of glueing a razor onto a safety pin. and putting it on a chain and wearing a necklace. She wore it to school and someone told on her. The principal called her mom and told her mom that she might be expelled. I just dont know what to do. She never gets in trouble, shes a very kind person, and she never hurt in anyone so why wouldnt he just give her a suspension and a warning? He hasnt confirmed yet that she is expelled. And the bad thing is, is that I know who told on her. I just dont know what to do.

2007-11-16 13:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by callie. 1

2007-11-16 12:58:14 · 3 answers · asked by hppy2b 2

Well, im at my friend ally's house and were kinda bord. any suggestions? ((PS. no law-breaking))

2007-11-16 12:45:20 · 9 answers · asked by Arielle:] 2

my friend is very sick.he needs to get to the hospital right away.i am worried about him.he's having trouble breathing.but he says he'll be okay.i wish he would go to the hospital.they can help him.anyone,if you can say a prayer for my friend?pray that he goes to the hospital.pray that nothing bad happens to him.pray that the doctor will help him see what the problem is.and what can be done to help.i appreciate this so much.i want my friend to get well again.thank you for your prayers,and for your caring.

2007-11-16 12:15:14 · 15 answers · asked by Miss yavatar girl 4

BURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRP! escuse me! ")

2007-11-16 12:11:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

how old were you?
is 13 old for not having your first kiss yet?

2007-11-16 12:10:28 · 8 answers · asked by adl;skjasd iloveyou. 2

When people are driving locally (not on trips w/kids) they have the CD player, Sony playstation, blue tooth, all cell phones, cup holders, laptops, DVD w/movies... Why don't they just stay home?????????????

2007-11-16 11:28:31 · 14 answers · asked by Crazy Tequilla Girl 3

Ok after a drunken argument that went way overboard my so called friend offered me a fight i accepted his offer and stood outside my other mate held me back while another one of my mates held him back eventually i broke free and went to grab my so called friends throat when i did that he twisted my arm and it really hurt so i punched him in the face then punched him again for the fact he offered a fight then he winded me up saying call that punches so i punched him again,Now he wont talk to me ever again & he has been saying to my other circle of friends and people if i was a true friend i wouldn't of hit him(But hello he's the one offered me a fight and i was blind drunk and being provoked and im not one for taking **** off anyone and he knows this),I do feel guilty for hitting him but come on he is the one said lets step outside and he twisted my arm and it really hurt i did have a right to hit back didnt i?So was i right or was i wrong what would you guys/girls of done?

2007-11-16 10:50:23 · 6 answers · asked by Ulsterlad 2