Recently, I've received news that I'm able to shift class. But I've been best friends with Chris. I've just met her this year and we're very close. She couldn't move because of the results of her finals. Another close friend, Shar is going together with me. We've been friends for a long time, unlike Chris. Please advice, thanks.
2007-11-17 00:38:07 · 19 answers · asked by Shirley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks for the advice. Hopefully she'll understand :-)
2007-11-17 01:07:44 · update #1
Go for it. Tell Chris how sorry you are and how much you'll miss her company, but this oppourtunity is something big for you that you have to go for. Hopefully she'll understand, just promise her you'll still be tight, call her everyday, IM, communicate. Hope this helps!
2007-11-17 00:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by kendralie1123 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is one situation where you need to think about you. The opportunity to learn in a way that is more on par with your skill level is one you need to take. As you will find out in the future, there are times when you should think about your own well-being and try to cushion the blow for others, instead of not take it because of them. It is just a class in school and your friend Chris will be fine. She is a big girl and if you really get along well, you can find other time to socialize. But staying behind because of her could have some nasty consequences in the future (like if you are not friends for much longer and you become resentful of not moving). So please, move classes and make an effort to keep Chris in the loop, it will be okay for everyone involved.
2007-11-17 00:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jules, E, and Liam :) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Studying in a college, I'm 200 miles far off from my best friend right now. She cried at first, we know we just have to move on. But somehow, my other friends here and back there are so amazed by our strong friendship I still keep contacting her nowadays.
When I first knew her, she wasn't in my class either. So different we are the completion of each other. And since I knew her[and since i was in a better class] we studied together. SO different class won't kill your friendship, maybe got it even stronger than you'll think.
Tc
2007-11-17 01:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by middle of mind 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You Should not turn down the chance to move to a better class:
1) you may meeting new people in this class, and you could miss the opprotunity of finding a new friend
2) Your education is important, the better the class, the more you'll learn
3) If you stay, you are doing an injustice to your friend Chris...
Why?
Because you are robbing her of motivation to try harder.
2007-11-17 00:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by StopPanda 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-24 09:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to the better class. It will help affect your future in school in a positive way. You can see Chris after school if your true friends like I think you are. The better class can open up many better learning opportunities so you should take it.
2007-11-17 00:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by In hiding 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you shound move up to the higher class, and talk to chris at break, lunch and after school, an i mean a class is not that long, (but sometimes it feels like it) and think of the long run and i you shound keep in contact with chris anywhay if your truly friends!
2007-11-17 00:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by adamt363 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the better class, your friend should be happy for you and just because you don't see each other in class doesn't mean you won't ever talk again
2007-11-17 01:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah throughout life u will come across situations where u will have to loose touch with ur friends and choose ur career.
Mind it I said loose touch and not loose friends. And we always have to stick to career first rule. Trust me if she had this opportunity she would definately shift class.
You guys can still b good friends.
2007-11-17 00:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move up. You can still be friends with Chris, but you owe it to yourself to get the best education possible.
2007-11-17 00:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Beau R 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋