Ok after a drunken argument that went way overboard my so called friend offered me a fight i accepted his offer and stood outside my other mate held me back while another one of my mates held him back eventually i broke free and went to grab my so called friends throat when i did that he twisted my arm and it really hurt so i punched him in the face then punched him again for the fact he offered a fight then he winded me up saying call that punches so i punched him again,Now he wont talk to me ever again & he has been saying to my other circle of friends and people if i was a true friend i wouldn't of hit him(But hello he's the one offered me a fight and i was blind drunk and being provoked and im not one for taking **** off anyone and he knows this),I do feel guilty for hitting him but come on he is the one said lets step outside and he twisted my arm and it really hurt i did have a right to hit back didnt i?So was i right or was i wrong what would you guys/girls of done?
2007-11-16 10:50:23 · 6 answers · asked by Ulsterlad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
haha no you werent wrong, he was wrong too for calling you out
2007-11-16 11:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize. In the first place I don't punch my friends, and I try not to have deep conversations while I'm drinking. So, basically you were wrong, although there was some questionable behavior on your friend's part, too. Do you even remember what you guys were fighting about? He'll probably forgive you, but in the future don't physically assault your friends...otherwise no one has your back when other people jump in.
2007-11-16 19:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were both wrong, and should both apologize. There was no need to fight - you could have simply walked away.
True friends wouldn't have offered or agreed to fight; it doesn't matter who reached for who first or who touched the other first.
Tell him you're sorry things got so out of hand that night, and that you both made mistakes you regret. Both of you should agree to never get that drunk again, since you clearly can't control yourselves.
2007-11-16 18:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to him about it. just tell him that he was the one that provoked it and he really started it. plus if he twisted your arm first then its pretty much self defense he could of taken your arm out of the socket or dislocated your shoulder. its pretty much his fault. But if your really do miss him as a friend then i would most defiantly talk to him even though it may sound corny.
2007-11-16 19:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Marcie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 60 and never been in a fight.
2007-11-24 14:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that you both made a mistake and he is trying to justify his reaction. let it go.
2007-11-16 18:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋