This world is full of lies - I just realised 1 thing, this world is full of lies, that I cannot trust anyone,?

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not my father, not my mother, not my brother, and not even my friends!!!

I cannot even tell anyone the details of it otherwise it’ll jeopardise the whole situation.

Why???

Why???

Why it has given me this in return?

I have always pondered, what is the point of riding the ups and downs of life, yes we go through stage by stage in life to advance to the next level, what is the point then, when towards the end everything comes to nil?

Yes we suffer at school, then pass the exams. Then go out to work, then try to adapt to new work life, but if you are not happy, resign, found another job, then get disappointed, because everywhere you go, you encounter the same type of people trying to push away responsibilities, blah blah blah, same types of politics, then you move on to the next job, same thing again.

Life with the love of your life, infatuation, meet their friends, meet their parents, meet their relatives, then bang, break up, meet another person, the whole cycle

Worse if you are married, not that I am now, but holidays is always a pain to juggle what to do, even if you are still single you gotta juggle with what to do during holiday seasons.

Then the friends, betrayal, lies, jealousy, competition, back stabbing, but in front of you they are good friends, why? Why???

People you meet everyday, real estate agent, customer service phone line, your work mates, your friends, and even your family. In front of you is one person, then at the back they say malicious things about you.

Why??

I really don’t see the point of riding the ups and downs of life, when someone close to you, that close to you, you pour your heart out, deep down from your own soul, the same soul that gets hurt time and again, thinking, give people a chance there are still good people out there, yes, but to what extend you can really trust someone 100%?

I am very very hurt, I want to trust, yet this is what I get at the back.

I change peer groups, same thing!!!!

To what extend can I be happy when people around me are full of it?

I also thought I was happy to live the life don't care about other people say think blah blah blah but the reality is, I have to be careful every step of the way to analyse EVERYTHING people say, or do, or think!!!

Isn't that very tiring?? I mean, why is it not easy as, people say yes means yes, say no means no, if something is bothering them, just share it, blah blah blah

I mean, do onto others what you want others to do onto you?

How much reciprocal can people do in return?

I am very very hurt, and yet I have no where to find the answer.

I feel very cheated, with lies, and life. How would life be beautiful when life is full of lies?

I really pour out my heart and soul thinking that this is it, this is great, I can lay the trust on someone!!!

Was I wrong!!!

Answer 1

Welcome to the real world.

Answer 2

Hopefully you realized this and you are still young. I realized it after 40 so I started on a quest for inner peace. F everyone else. Just get strong enough where you reach a point where you stay positive and happy everyday no matter what all the rest of the world does. There are people like you but I would guess out of the 6 billion people on earth it is only .0000000006%

Answer 3

Say to yourself every morning -
-- Today is going to be a great day
-- I can handle more than I think
-- Things don't get better by worrying about them
-- I can be satisfied if I try to do my best
-- There is always something to be happy about
-- I am going to make someone happy today
-- It's not good to be down
-- Life is great make the most of it

BE AN OPTIMIST

Answer 4

i had exactly the same opinion when I was 19. in the past two years however, ive learned that ur life is urs, there is no good or bad in it. ive learned that i want to be who I WANT! not what others want me to be. ive learned that life is both simple and difficult, but I decide on which one to choose! Ive learned that at the bottom line, its only ME who cares for me who cares for what I want who cares for my happiness my personality and my life. take life as it goes, live happily n be proud of yourself. no one can live ur life better than u, so be strong. its got its up n downs but when u are happy with yourself when u have no regrets, u make the ones who care about you happy so in the end it all comes 2 u!

Answer 5

That is life. Yes there is always those people around you and there is nothing that any of us can do to change that. For me being the one to take on the work makes me a better person and I will make it farther in life. What they do is not my problem. There is a point to riding the ups and downs it makes you a stronger and better person the more you go through the more you learn. I agree with you so much. It is so hard to trust people that why they say keep your friends close and your eneimes closer. You don't have to have 20 people you can talk to all you need is 1. Also realationships don't always end. There are a lot of people whom have been together 50+ years. It all depends on you and who you chose as your partner. I am 20 and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are talking about marraige. Like I said it doesn't always have to end. You go through breakups to make you stronger so when you find that right person you appreciate them so much more. Life is just one big cycle and you are lucky to be able to experince it. No our world is millions of miles from perfet but it is our world and each person plays a role and decides it they are going to do something to better this world or make it worse.
Oh and the family thing I understand to. If my father was in front of me on fire I wouldn't spit on him to put out the fire that is how much hate and distrust I have for him. My uncles on both sides of the family and my grandmother on my mother side I have the same feelings toward them. For being 20 I have been through a whole hell of a lot and seen things that no one should ever have to see. Life is hard and it sucks it really does but it is up to you to change that for yourself. You can either dwell on what has happened or what is happening or you can move past it and live a full and happy live. It is possible. I promise. I have been through hell but there is much I wouldn't change because I have become a better person in despite of it. For me I keep a little to myself I don't share everything. It's hard to put your heart out there time after time and you get really tired of it but it really is worth it even though it don't seem like it at the time. So as to why things happen the way they do no one I mean no one can answer just live your life to the fullest and you will get past all the bumps in the road I promise. Its hard a hell but you will and you will be ok. I hope in some way I have helped and if you ever want to talk let me know. Thats what I am here for. Good luck.

I am sorry that you have been hurt so much. It wrong and unfair and like I said its hard when you feel like you are stepping on egg shells throught your life because you are worried about hurting someones feeling but sometimes you do have to say the hell with it and stand up for youself and not allow yourself to be walked on. You sound like you are a sweet and careing person and people have taken advantage of that and only you can stop that from happaning. How old are you if you don't mine me asking and are you living on your own. If you are old enough and can handle being on your own that is what you need to do. Take control of your life and surround yourself with people whom are going to respect you and be there for you. Get rid of the ones who wont even if that means family. I have completly cut my father and uncles and my grandmother on my moms side. They have never been there for me and I couldn't trust them at all. Also you have to be very carful whom you call friends because I know I myself have people who are friends and others that are acquantices. You just have to be careful. But again like I said if you need to talk let me know and I will listen and do my best to help.

Answer 6

Hi,

Don't be like that.
There are some people whome u can trust & will be with u in all situations.
I think u had a lot of bitter expericences from others, including from ur family. Dont worry about it.....

Be possitive....

Answer 7

Stay true to yourself, your belief's be the best person you can be and don't worry about things you have NO CONTROL OVER TO CHANGE.
You worry about you and ignore what others think, say, or do. All you need to be concerned with is YOU

Answer 8

We can trust people to a point. We have to to function in life at all. But there is only one who is total trustworthy. That is God. He knows your every thought and your true self. People let us down. We are all human and have lied to one another. But God will never let you down.

Answer 9

Believe nothing you hear and half of what you see.
Handling life needs maturity....you learn as you go along.
No one said it would be easy.

Answer 10

Because people would do not trust u or like completely. Or u migth had affected someone and started disliking u











DAM!!!!

Answer 11

its the suckiness known as reality you have to face it some day and believe me the sooner the better