Friends - November 2007

you know when you feel like you cant talk to anyone because like each person links to the person you have fallen out with...what do you do...who do you talk to?

2007-11-15 09:21:00 · 4 answers · asked by no name 3

i)the victim


i)others

2007-11-15 09:20:06 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2

I'm 13. My best friend Kerstin is 17. She does drugs. She has since she was 12. She drinks and smokes as well. Her dad doesnt give a **** about her. He beats her and the rest of her family. They've called the police over 20 times but the police do nothing. Her mother doesnt care what Kerstin does. She knows Kerstin does drugs and does them with her. Kerstin's parents are divorced though.

Kerstin lives in Florida while i live in indiana. Her friends that she hangs out with there, most do drugs as well and have since they were 12 too. Kerstin has bone marrow disease and its really bad. She also has cancer. She will die. Its definate that she will. I've known her for a year and have grown close to her. She's like a big sister to me.

I dont do drugs. Yes, I used to but I quite after I saw what they did to Kerstin. She has turned me against them forever. I want to help her stop drugs. She doesnt want to. She likes getting high and does it frequently.

2007-11-15 08:58:57 · 34 answers · asked by Buble.Pop.Electric 2

your 2 best friends don't like each other and they don''t talk to each other

2007-11-15 08:45:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok...there's this friend of mine...he's my ex, but we're still really close. well, i have no idea what to get him for his b-day. He likes to hunt, play video games, and he barely has any electronics...
I would get him a mp3 player or something...but i believe his girlfriend is getting him one. and i would get him some hunting gear...but he's still in boys scouts (he's turning 16) and so he has anything and everything when it comes to that. and idk what kind of video games he is into. so ya...i'm stuck in a bind...so if ya could help me, that would be great.

2007-11-15 08:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi,

my friend is making a movie for his film class in college. from what i have seen of the movie, i honestly do not like it.

I will reserve my judgement until i see the final product. but incase i do not like it, and he asks what i thought of it, what should i say?

i want to be a good friend and say "yes", but at the same time i want to be honest with myself, and i think he is old enough to handle the fact someone did not like his movie.


So, should i
A- Say i liked it no matter what
B- Say i don't like it
C-Give my honest opinion if he asks "what did you honestly think?"

2007-11-15 07:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by arodhater 3

Well I stepped on a hoe and the handle flew up and hit my nose and broke it. I am about as dingy as they come and son of a gun that thing hurts.

2007-11-15 06:56:40 · 4 answers · asked by seaturtle36 6

2007-11-15 06:42:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

are ppl on Y getting really rude and need to calm down a bit
please tell me cuz ppl r so rude to me
why
idk

2007-11-15 06:37:43 · 3 answers · asked by Channels M 2

A friend of mine just mey a guy on myspace. she invited him to come meet her. I was invited to come, she probly asked me to go b/c i am trying to get over my x, but the guy wants to do stuff. I am afraid that this guy might try to hurt my friend or me . How do i talk my friend out of it? I tried once but she got mad at me!!

And dont leave rood answers, it wont help me any if u do.

2007-11-15 06:35:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I go to pebblebrook and I hate it! I don't have any true friends! I really want some friends. I'm not weird and I'm not a freak just a regular girl! I bet some people are just going to say mean stuff but oh well! Just get over yourself! But yeah even weird people have friends! Why can't I find the right ones?

2007-11-15 06:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find im nervous/awkward round my male friend if he comes into my office or i go to his office i get nervous in my tummy. I dont know how to act as im not used to it and its out of my zone as ive never had a guy friend before and not good round guys i am 24. I hate it i also seem to develop crushes on every guy i meet and wish this would stop happening as its ruining my life. Every time he talks to me i start blushing or feel myself going red

2007-11-15 05:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by josephine123446 1

I am a blessing to his life. He is my guy friend

2007-11-15 05:16:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's his best friend's sister who talks the most but she starts the trash talking and everyone goes along with it but when she sees me, she acts all nice (like a typical hypocrite).

2007-11-15 04:40:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had to end a five-year friendship last year. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and a very good friend, but she was just too critical of me before, during, and after the wedding. At one point, she called me a "know it all ninth grader" (probably the cruelest comment). I decided the friendship just wasn't working, but sometimes I feel guilty for not trying to make up. I haven't spoken to her in over a year.

What do you think? Are some friendships better off ended, or is every conflict resolvable? Should I feel guilty for cutting off such a close friend?

2007-11-15 04:37:42 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-15 03:47:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My former BFF( best friend forever? ... has gone around to people spreading lies about me and has taken all my old friends off me, she evil!!... how do i get back at her? i dont deserve this at all, Why are girls so bitchy?Thanks

2007-11-15 02:31:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok,my friend cannot sing,he cant,but like all people who think they can sing,he thinks hes amazing

i havent accually said,"YOU CANT SING"because thats horrible,ive said things like,you are quite differnt from other singers,anyhoo

the thing is that,hes gonna sing in assembly,he offered,and i dont know,sit and let him face reality or try my best to say you cant sing,or even if i do,we might fall out and might think im hating

2007-11-15 01:04:35 · 7 answers · asked by tryedirin 2

2007-11-15 01:04:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he falled in love with me but i could never love him back that way... i just wanted him to be my friend..i felt good while i was with him,i used to tell him everything that happened to me and he did the same...he was my best friend but now he doesnt want to talk anymore with me...i guess maybe because it hurts him while he sees me with someone else(by the way i have a boyfriend now)...i dont know why things went this way?? what should i do??how can i forget him??because i know that we ll never be friends anymore...it hurts me when i see him and i have to turn my head by the other side...:(( help me...

2007-11-15 00:06:31 · 6 answers · asked by she... 1

hai... i need ur opinions my friends...

2007-11-14 22:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by shirople 1

2007-11-14 22:22:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says hed never leave his wife or kids until the kids were 16 which i fully understand !i think he feels the same way . When we are together its like every thing else is invisible !He changed my life so much . And helped me get through some really tough stuff . I cant help how i feel and i am trying to ignore it but it is hurting so much please help this is so hard

2007-11-14 22:10:45 · 3 answers · asked by Sazza 2

My friend who I care about just told me she is crying because she doesn't know how to use MS excel and the assessment is due tomorrow. To be honest I think its her fault a little since she left it to the last minute but what should I say to comfort her. I was thinking something like you feeling better now and I'll help you tomorrow if you still need help ? I just don't wanna say anything selfish because I've been told that I sometimes do....

2007-11-14 22:01:32 · 9 answers · asked by Joe B 1

My lovely friend died months ago.. Her husband has become bitter and angry. He does not see friends from our circle at all.
I wonder if I ought to step in and help or just leave him be.. ....
Any thoughts?

2007-11-14 21:47:42 · 4 answers · asked by Jen 3

2007-11-14 19:57:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband slept with one of my close friends 6 years ago. He just told me a few days ago during a heart to heart talk that lasted until early morning .... until that moment....
we were together for 6 years, we had just moved back to his home town across america. We were in our early 20's partying n hanging out, my friend (we'll call her D) had a pretty rough home life and stayed over a bit. I went to work while the 2 stayed passed out at home (so I thought) kickin it what not right? I didn't feel threatened ya know she was, not to be rude, but not very attractive. Anyways she stayed heavily in our lives for about 3 years. we all talked openly sexually so I thought, yah know bustin balls and sharing stories n stuff. My husband is totally into horror movies n gore n cool **** like that where as I wasn't too exposed to it growing up so a conversation about horror movies n gorey **** was like a foreign language to me , directors, scenes, story lines, whatever...... she was into it I enjoyed seeing my husband talk about something he honestly was totally into. It was ****** cool!! But I started to feel it, I started to feel like I was the fifth wheel, I told him, I told him, he knew I was jealous of their connection. I started to resent her I knew it I felt it but I trusted him. I just thought I was being selfish for feeling this way. He said it happened 3 times, over a period of about a 2 months. He said there was not cuddling, no crazy sex missionary and lame, right of course what I want to hear right? Well anyway he said she broke it off came over one day (didn't **** him , so he says) and said we cant do this anymore and she didnt want to ruin "our" mine and my boyfriends 6 year love...... as if that wasnt already ****** at this point right? He said he was angry with her but I guess we all continued to hang out and party after that. this was in 2001. we moved 2002 and married in 2003 life was going beside all the constant partying n drinking, we were very happy, so I thought. We moved again outta state back to the west coast , we stopped drinking n partying, I went to college and moved on to be a Mental health couselor. I have learned so much being in the mental health field. Why we do what we do, our behaviors, our triggers, our issues and how to deal with them. Butr when My husband threw this one out there all my training flew out thew window I feel lost and shook, my heart is heavy and Im not sure what the **** to do or say I want to respect that he was finally honest , but at what cost. I cant imagine spending my life any other way but I thought he has always been honest and to say you dont want to **** other people or are not attracted to other people would be lying to yourself. You just should have enough sense not to dip it in, right? Hes a guy I know that but seriously the pain I can physically feel right now in my heart doesn't feel like it was worth it. I know what an aching heart really is. I sent her a text message and said we need to talk Im sure she has been thinking about it all night. Im not sure what to say. or do I need some words of wisdom. WTF man WTF?

2007-11-14 18:57:04 · 11 answers · asked by lady_thickness78 1

there was a one week trip we are going in our school so i decided to go but none of my friend go. so when we get there we are told to be in four, beacuse we are going to be four in a room. so i dont see anyboby to go with none of my friends go so has i was looking around i see a group of three girls, and i decide to sleep in their room, so that when the problem start two of those girls started to steel my things i report them and i say i want to change my room because they have steel alot of my things, so there was a black big bag in the toilet and i think the bag is a dustin bin so i use to shup my dirty things there, like pad,but i didnt know when we are about to leave the place she now cheak the bag and found all this things, i was surprise to know the bag was the bag she put her dirty clothes, she pour all those things in the floor and ask who put it there i say is not me, before i can say anything she showed it to all her friend , so when we get to school she spread the news.

2007-11-14 17:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by tooth picks 2

It seems as if I am the only person without a "best friend". I have friends of course but they all already have a best friend. I have seen people who are in their 30s with friends they have had since they were 8-9 years old and that seems like such a good thing. In this crazy world, long term best friends provide an "anchor" that we often don't have anymore. So here are my questions--

1. Do you have no best friend?
2. Does it bother you?

I think it may have something to do with being female. I have seen guys maintain friendships from childhood to middle age but that seems less likely to occur with women (at least the people I know). Anyone know why?

2007-11-14 16:28:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i invited this really nice girl in a wheelchair to my birthday party. she's a good friend, and i wanted to invite her because she can be included and have as much fun as everyone else. but, im turning 13 and ppl around my age tend to be very judging. i am not judging, but i don't want people to think i'm a freak because i invited someone with a disability. so how can we all have fun, but still accept each other? i just think the whole world would be awesome if we all just accepted each other.

2007-11-14 16:20:08 · 31 answers · asked by manlove_to_the_rescue 3