hai... i need ur opinions my friends...
2007-11-14 22:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by shirople 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it is possible that people who dont trust you even though you work hard. the reason is the the feeling of the people.
it is undeniable to say that whether the people hate you or not. it is totally depending on the feeling of the people.
if the people hate you very much, no matter how you work harder or be friendly , he still dislikes you. In economics, utility can explain the phenomena. the utility can show the preference of the people's choices. Higher utility level will be chosen. And hating you even without your help gets higher utility level than being friendly with you.
He would still choose distrusting you.
IN conclusion, there is no method to alleivate the problem.And the only way is bearing the pressure yourself or sharing your feeling to your friends
2007-11-14 23:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by blizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust can be hard to gain from some people. I have trust issues because of all the times people have used me. The higher my expectations of someone the bigger the let down. Keep trying and don't pressure the person. See if you can get them to open up with you a little at a time. Time will help the process. If a friend is a good friend they are worth waiting for.
2007-11-14 22:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just the current state of the world--it's the state of the world. Trust is a big issue for some people and many have been hurt in the past, so they decide to "protect" themselves by not trusting anyone.
It's not about you--that's the thing you need to realize. Some people are just not capable.
2007-11-14 22:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tikva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
working hard by itself wouldn't suffice.Trust has to be built up gradually and requires a proven record over a period of time.Remember the old saying.'trust begets trust'?
2007-11-14 22:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just the current state of the world
2007-11-14 22:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may be because during there infancy, the were not able to develop their trust. its when parents cuddle there infants truss develop. plus, as people grow older, we meet certain people who lied to us. and that's when mistrust develop=) people who doesn't know how to trust other doesn't have trust with their selves as well. they sometime lucks confident that makes them become paranoid sometimes.
2007-11-15 00:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by zhanlili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistrust is a part of human nature. We don't even have full faith [trust] in our Lord jesus Christ. We always have doubts when things go wrong in our lives.
2007-11-14 22:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes distrust comes from jealousy and a need to see you fail.
2007-11-14 22:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is earned, not given just cause you work hard.
2007-11-14 22:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because people are untrusting or have ben lied to in the past or are just so arrogant/cocky
2007-11-14 22:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋