Friends - November 2007

me and my friend were driving to a club...she was driving and were i live theres this things called fast track on the freeway. you have to buy a membership for it, if you go on it and your not a memeber you will get a ticket..well we are driving on the freeway and she wasnt paying attention and we got stuck on the fast track..once your on it you cant get off so we had to use it and now a couple of months later she got the ticket...so should i have to help pay it? or should she since she was driving and not paying attention..i just quite my job and cant afford that much so i dont think its fair to have me pay for her mistake but i dont want to loose a friendship over not helping her...advice?

2007-11-20 03:09:52 · 4 answers · asked by *Lovely 2* 2

What do you believe it takes to be a good friend? What does friendship mean to you? Are you what you think a good friend should be?

2007-11-20 03:06:24 · 7 answers · asked by mentalchallenge 3

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtdiuQbyEkZ1b55RFjKYMKPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071119171327AApJLDQ

I love my friend to bits but I dont know if she deserves that title.

2007-11-20 03:05:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has been known to steal from peoples houses so I feel really uncofortable with her being in my house. I also have 3 young children so I have enough on my hands. She comes for about 3 hours every day so it is getting a bit much and she always come when my husband is at work. Me and my husband have been trying to think of a nice way to tell her to stop coming round. Can anyone please help me!! Thank you x

2007-11-20 03:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by Katrina E 2

2007-11-19 23:57:55 · 21 answers · asked by DONNA 2

Well At school yesterday my friend was sick, and at lunch he was all over this girl that is his friend, but that doesn't make it right in my book. She was in his lap, and he was flirting, well I decided to pull him aside and talk to him. Then I had my other friend talk to the girl and the guy. After that we went and talked the rest of our group. And he walked over and we started yelling my friend yelling at him and then I did 2. I was just trying to keep her from getting her hurt. So when I got home there was a myspace message saying " Good job for ruining my life". and we started talking and she hates. She said "He broke up with me because of YOU!!!"


I prayed to God because I honestly didn't know what to do

I've had problems with this group before, Right now I feel like they aren't good friends, and I should just cut my loses, and move on. This is what I think God is trying to tell me.

2007-11-19 23:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 23:44:22 · 21 answers · asked by Dr. Susil 3

Hi I'm Nick from New Jersey. Im going with my class for a field trip. But the problem is, I dont have friends there. Another class is going for a field trip next month. If I cannot attend the field trip with my class this month, then I will have to attend next month with another class. I have friends there in the next class which is scheduled next month. I want to attend to the next class but the problem is my classmates might think that I dont want to be part of the class, they may think of me as an outcast and if that happens, I would have a harder time making friends in my class. So what should I do? Should I attend with my class this month? or attend the next month with me enjoying but taking the risk of worstening my situation in my class? Please help me decide...

2007-11-19 23:36:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

and that you look fine

2007-11-19 23:21:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

At school (I'm in 8th grade) nobody hangs around with me. I am always alone, nobody ever comes up to talk to me and even if I come up to talk to anybody they just answer so shortly that I feel snubbed. This girl in my class HATES me because (in her own words) I'm so childish, when I am like one of the serious people in my class. That is not a reason to hate anybody, is it? Because they are childish? I'm so lonely, and I've been in this school for three years, and not one friend in those three long years. I'm getting fed up. I got really upset in fourth grade, once, when my.........;-( ........ my best friend died. She was the sweetest friend ever. And I had only her as a friend, and I vowed to myself that I would make more friends so that my grief and sorrow and loneliness would diminish. But nobody's giving me a chance. What should I do to make friends with the people I really want to have as friends?

Please help me. I'm so confused!!

2007-11-19 22:58:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im finding it hard at the mo and find im think 24/7 over little things and getting down. I see every guy who talks to me as a potential bf even my male friends the feelings go away after a while but my current friend im finding hard as i everytime i see him my heart jumps a beat and its driving me nuts . The thing is ive never fancied him before and i think its just cause hes paying me some attention

2007-11-19 22:56:28 · 3 answers · asked by pansydansy123 1

2007-11-19 22:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by pandurang j 3

what is that annoys you the most of your boyfriend's deeds..... and what is that deed that makes you love him a lot..

2007-11-19 21:52:25 · 3 answers · asked by stephenschitra 1

as you probably looked at my other questions, there is this boy who has helped me and been there 4 me when ever i needed to talk, he is a good mate and thats all really.......well......as a gift i think i should give him something to say thankyou...but i dont want him to think ' oh my god...what a crazy person' or i dont what him to think anything wrong about me....should i leave it and carry on the way things are?

2007-11-19 21:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by 1234 1

I went to an ex boyfriend's dad's funeral last week and even though it is ten years on I must admit he was still attractive. While we were sat chatting, (his girlfriend was there as well), his girlfriend went off to speak to some people and he started asking me about my past (not boyfriends just about my past which he already knew about anyway). He then started smoothing his hair and then when she came back he stopped doing this and then when I was talking about someone who had recently had an affair (a friend of mine) he went quiet and said he had to go outside for a cigarette and then his girlfriend decided to go with him.

I know they have had their problems in the past when he was but surely his sitting casually back with legs open etc when she was away didn't indicate flirting (he certainly wasn't leaning towards me) and did I hit a nerve when talking about an affair.

2007-11-19 21:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by Kate P 2

Why do some people think that they can say things to another person that are hurtful and think that they will just take it? Especially if that other person is meant to be a friend. Why would you want to say hurtful things to a friend. Im talking about a friend of mines who this happened to. That person just kept quiet after but was very upset by the other persons comments. I told that person to speak up for themselves and let the person know that what was said was not nice. Who agrees with me?

2007-11-19 21:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by **** 7

i loved my best friend since 2 years..... she too loved me and didnt expressed and now when i proposed her she is not accepting and telling that she want to be a best friend always..... i cant live without her i need her whole life.... please me how to make her understand my feelings.....

2007-11-19 21:41:19 · 3 answers · asked by stephenschitra 1

Ok this is how it goes. Lets say groups A and B will go to place C. I'm in group A. I have no friends in group A, an outcast you can call it. I have more friends in Group B. I can switch to group B easily, but the problem is when I go there, the people in group A would most likely think even lower of me. Taking that action would worsten my situation in group A. But I have more friends in group B and i would enjoy more there. So what should I do? should I stay in group A and remain as I am without friends and not enjoy, or should I switch to group B and enjoy but taking the risk of worstening the situation in A? Please help me choose. I really like to go to B but I'm afraid of the events that will follow when I eventually return to group A. Note: I can only switch to B temporarily. I will eventually go back to A.

2007-11-19 20:39:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 19:13:05 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah R 1

well this started off when i had a conversation with my other friend and she said you wanna come over? and i said ill have to ask my mum and my other friend butted in and said does your mum ever let you over to peoples houses and i said yeah im not a 10 year old kid. and she said how come you havent been over mine and i said i dont know and she kept complaining how i could go to my other friends house but not hers and i said well complain to my mum then? and she said no and i said fine but why you complaining at me and she said that my mum was racist to all english people and i said she is not! and then my friend said well you've been to shays house and she's asian and you've never been to any of ours and i said ef off . (my mum has an asian accent and my friend was pretending to be my mum and kept being really rude!

2007-11-19 19:00:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this one guy who used to be my friend, but I realized he was kind of a jerk. I try not to hang around him or talk to him, but unfortunately, he's friends with some of my best friends, and I end up hanging around him a lot. Things have been kind of awkward between us for a while, and it creates a tense, uncomfortable atmosphere when we hang out. One of my friends kept on asking me when I was just going to be friends w/ him again ( I got mad because of all the stupid stuff he does, like ignoring me and trying to make me look stupid in front of other people, inviting people to my house w/o asking me, etc.). The friend that asked me to reconcile w/ him is a good friend of mine, and I like him a lot (not in the weird way). But he keeps trying to bring us together, and I have no interest in being his friend. Whenever I hang out w/ that friend and others, he almost always insists on inviting the other friend, and it just makes things more awkward. Thanks for your help.

2007-11-19 18:51:20 · 3 answers · asked by dude_in_disguise2004 4

I used to like this boy and he liked me too but then I thought he liked this other girl and he wouldnt admit it (even though 2 of his best friends confirmed it) and he still wont. And its even worse now. I said a few hurtful things but only something like "I hate you" and "I hope you die with ___" coz i was so upset. At the time he was in another country (I msn'd and emailed him) and now hes back at school and giving me a hard time. He says all these hurtful things to me like "Oh look what the cat brought in" and he said "I hope you die with ____ oh wait you couldn't even get ANYONE!" and one of his friends (which i thought was alright was laughing too yet he still talks to me, which i find so horrible since he really doesnt care that his friends hurting me) and I shouldnt had said those things but eveyrone says stuff when their angry. Im afraid of going to school now (even though it only started yesterday) but its so bad I cant tell anyone to help stop it!

2007-11-19 18:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 17:30:40 · 1 answers · asked by dokken3kiss 2

I had this 'friend' who wasn't really a friend, more of an emotionally abusive albatross, I knew her from jr high/high school, we lost touch and ran into eachother years later and rekindled our friendship, sort of. I had bad experiences with her in high school, and so I was reserved when we started being friends again, but was okay with it because it had been a long time, and people can change...
Or not! She started in on her making fun of me, passive agressive jabs at me, poking fun at my then boyfriend, other friends, occupation, field of study, etc. I bit my lip, then one day after an especially bad time with her I let it all out, told her how I felt about her behavior, about everything. I have never done that before, it was like all of my resentment toward her, even back from high school, came out. At first I was really glad, it felt really good, but now I regret it. I certainly don't want to be friends, but I wish I had not blown up. Anyone else? Should I feel bad?

2007-11-19 17:07:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so emotionaly hurt I'm feel really bad right now I feel like nobody loves or want to be bothered whith me not even my family as a Child and for a long time I have always been spoild well at least by my dad now my dad won't even talk to me half the time it is so sad I feel I've lost my mother also not do my siblings seem to care I have health issues so I need some family and friend love but I'm not getting it I feel like crying right now and I have no friends because I was a major B!%@$ when I was young and lost all my friend I've made my bed now I have to lye in it but my family should at least still be there for me it hurts I am 30 could this mean I just need to grow up but I would love to have friends I'm so lonely

2007-11-19 16:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by Tanisha 2

Recently i hv gone out of my way to help one acquintance, only to find out that she was a mean person who treated her staff in an inhumanely manner. I was really surprised cos she was ever so smiling and cheerful outwardly. She was 9 months pregnant and her baby was due anytime. Yet in her condition, she cld treat others so mean. I really failed to understand. She is young and very successful in business. I also found out that she was cheating her staff, customers and the authorities in making more money. I really felt disturbed to know that some people cld put a front. She has asked me to help her again and I cldnt say no to her cos of her condition.

2007-11-19 16:30:57 · 5 answers · asked by Sal SR 4

somthing happened to my best friend
and she cried with me for liek three hours abotu it
and showed me the cuts on her wrist and
im really realllyyy worried about her

she knows im here for her,
and she realated it to me being hurt by a man a whiel back

but, it kills me to think that she had to go through somthign like what i did. its making me all depressed over again, but i HAVE to be there for her
she was the only on there for me.
and i knwo it hurts her, but it hurts me so much also
she doesnt want to talk abotu it or tell me what happened though
and i think the only way i could help her is if i knew

i knwo this is alot, but any sugestions?
i just love her and shes my best friend
and im really scared abotu her

(shes gettign help , idk if its enough though)

thank you so much!

btw, meds arent goung to happen she wont take them
thanks though!!

2007-11-19 15:48:21 · 12 answers · asked by L 2

cause i didnt listen to my parents and i hung out with my friends all weekend. I also am not allowed to hang out with two of my bff's, Matt and Brandon, for the rest of my life cause they r a bad influence plzz anwser my ?? i really want to hang out with them

2007-11-19 14:50:31 · 19 answers · asked by Breee<3 2

I've always been pretty good at making friends, but recently it seems like once someone really gets to know me they stop liking me and think i'm annoying. Its really starting to crush my self-esteem.

What can a male freshman in highschool do to avoid being annoying?

2007-11-19 13:28:29 · 24 answers · asked by Dillon 2

okay so I have a crush on a guy and vise versa. But he drinks and smokes. It doesn't bother me much but should I tell him I love him no matter what even if he is 21 and I'm 15 going on 16?

2007-11-19 13:24:07 · 7 answers · asked by jade dragon 1