I got grounded for a month wat should i do?

Question

cause i didnt listen to my parents and i hung out with my friends all weekend. I also am not allowed to hang out with two of my bff's, Matt and Brandon, for the rest of my life cause they r a bad influence plzz anwser my ?? i really want to hang out with them

i am allowed on the comp i also got exetended on my priod thst i got grounded for cause i left a pencil on my gorund i was not doing anythign bad and my mom is just mad at me i want to hng out with them so bad but eve my teachher says they r a bad influence on me.

i will not behave because i live on ridiculous rules and it is suffocating me

they arent that bad of an influence and we are in 6th grade so they cant drink or smoke pot they r just dumb+ they r skaters

sorry to add alot of details but they are my best friends (well matt is more) and i really wanna hang out w?them, who am i gonna go to the skate park with (of corse i have a girl with me)

Answer 1

Not you can do if you are grounded except maybe try to gain your parents trust back. Don't do anything to mess up while you are grounded and then maybe they will let you off early.

If your parents say you can't hang out with someone you don't really have a choice, unless you wanna risk it and still hang with them and then possibly end up grounded again and this time for longer.

Oh well, when you grow up and pay your own bills and have your own house you can hang with who you want. It won't be that long aways :-).

Answer 2

Your parents arent stupid hon.Quit treating them like they are.If you had a daughter would you want her to hang around punks making a b line for jail?
Not me!
If you had listened to your parents you wouldnt be grounded.Chances are those 2 boys will end up in jail before too long and maybe by the time your 18 you can go visit them in jail.
Your parents knows whats best for you.Do you REALLY believe ALL those people are wrong about you hanging out with troublemakers?
If they say get busted for something when you are with them, it wont matter if you did anything or not, you get to go to jail to hon.I know, it isnt fair, well... life aint fair,annd then you die!
So you better start listening to what they are trying to tell you,otherwise you will end up in a lot of trouble, which is the consequences to NOT listening to them.

Answer 3

Wise old proverb. You will catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Take it like a trooper for a month. If you whine and complain, you're giving your parents every reason to keep you from your friends(vinegar). If you just go about your business, even go out of your way to do chores around the house, your parents will most likely call off the grounding before the month is out(honey). If you keep doing good stuff around the house, they will have no choice but to let you resume relations with your friends. Believe it or not, they just want you to grow up, and if you take the high road, it will show them that you are indeed doing just that.

Answer 4

For your grounded problem I say do things that entertain you that you are still allowed to do to pass the time. As for your best friends if you think they are a bad influence then you should stop seeing them. If you don't think they are a bad influence then you should continue to see them even if it's behind your parent's back, because if they aren't bad as you say they are then you don't have to worry about getting in trouble when you hang out with them.

Answer 5

Well, if they are "bad influences", there might be a reason why you can't hang out with them. If they smoke and drink and hang out with people from the wrong side of the track, I would understand why you are grounded.

If they are indeed "good kids gone bad" and it is actually good for you that you avoid spending time with them, just ask your parents if you can hang out with them, and promise that if anything is bad or different (for worse) that you will leave them alone for a while.

While you're grounded, just email them and stuff. Besides, you can probably talk with them and stuff without spending weekends with them. It's possible.

Answer 6

What you should do is mind your parents and play by their rules if you are under their roof. You should respect your restrictions and use the extra time to study and think about what you can do to regain their trust in you.
What you should do is the opposite of whatever you've been doing that got you grounded. Go out of your way to show respect to your parents. Ask them how you can help out around the house. As I used to tell my son when he begged me to reverse a punishment, "Well if you really want to try and redeem yourself, you need to be so good I can't believe it!"

I need more details to know what the deal is with Matt and Brandon, but again it's not for you to question your parents' judgment. Maybe after the initial grounding period is over and your parents have calmed down, you might be able to work back to a point where you would be allowed to invite them over to spend time with you under teh supervision of your parents so that they can get to know them better. Then perhaps they could regain trust as well and eventually they would allow you to hang with them.

I will never forget how mad I was at my mom & dad for not letting me go on a spring break trip with some of my friends during high school. It was my senior year, and I really thought they should trust me, and of course I told them how unfair they were and how ALL my friends were getting to go, etc., etc. Well, the kids who went all came back with horror stories about some of the stuff that had happened, and I was so glad that my parents had saved me from being involved in that. One of those friends was killed in a freak accident involving alcohol a few years later, after continuing with the same sort of crowd and behaviors as that trip. I don't think I ever went back and thanked my parents for telling me no, but it was obviously the right decision even though I didn't want to hear it at the time. Chances are your parents are just looking out for you in the same way. You probably think they are overreacting, being too protective or old-fashioned, and waaay unfair and uncool. You need to be thankful that they care---the detention centers, jails, and streets are full of messed up kids whose parents let them do whatever they wanted and it didn't end well. (Not to mention the knocked up young girls and teenage mothers and date rape victims and drug addicts.)

Hang in there and make the best of it until you are old enough and mature enough to really make your own decisions. Before you know it you will be grown and out of the house, and maybe even longing for the days when your parents could bear some of the responsibility and help you make decisions. Mine have both passed away now, and I dearly wish that they were still around to try and tell me what to do!

Answer 7

Yea if ur grounded why r u on the computer? but just b really good wile u are grounded then dont get into any trouble for like 4 mounths then aske to hang with GIRL friends but have them hang 2

Answer 8

I've never been grounded. I know you like to do what you want. But you need to realize that your parents DO know what they're talking about. I've been mad at my parents before, but I never disrespected them.

Now what would you rather have: Your bad influence "friends" (friends are NOT friends if they are bad influences), or the trust of your parents???? I mean, crap! Don't you want them to get you a car when you get older???

Answer 9

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Answer 10

behave for your grounding period...then when they let you out, show them that no matter who you are with you are responisble...over time they will let you hang with yor bff's

if they don't, wait till your 18, out of the house, and can do whatever you want with who ever you wnat

Good Luck and Be Careful...