Ok this is how it goes. Lets say groups A and B will go to place C. I'm in group A. I have no friends in group A, an outcast you can call it. I have more friends in Group B. I can switch to group B easily, but the problem is when I go there, the people in group A would most likely think even lower of me. Taking that action would worsten my situation in group A. But I have more friends in group B and i would enjoy more there. So what should I do? should I stay in group A and remain as I am without friends and not enjoy, or should I switch to group B and enjoy but taking the risk of worstening the situation in A? Please help me choose. I really like to go to B but I'm afraid of the events that will follow when I eventually return to group A. Note: I can only switch to B temporarily. I will eventually go back to A.
2007-11-19 20:39:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like to me that if Group B is the place where you are most happiest, are engaged in more activity and more social with, then you shouldn't go back to Group A at all. Life is too short to worry about what others think about you. Because in reality everybody has two cents to add in about everything anyone does.
I would leave group A, you said they already think low of you and if you hang with Group A, they'll think even lower.
2007-11-19 20:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nique T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about groups -- be yourself and let whomever is smart enough to appreciate you for you be in your "group". Why would you want to be in a group in which you have no friends? If they are not your friends, why would you care if they thought less of you because you went to Group B where you do have friends?
Why would you think you could only switch to B Group "temporarily" --- who says? why?
be yourself!
2007-11-20 04:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Benito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*cluck cluck cluck*
THAT'S for not standing up for yourself!
You go to group B and have FUN. Invite individuals from group A to casually see what group B is about and maybe "convert" some A's to B's.. ya know? All and all life is too short to be worried about what people think. Listen to the chick a couple people up from me. Best advice I've seen so far. Good luck!
2007-11-20 05:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by typonymph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your friend in group B to join you with all of your friends in group A so that you all have a great time.
2007-11-20 04:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by autumn n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so worried about a group of people who are NOT your friends? I would run to group B and enjoy their company
2007-11-20 05:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain in group u r in and dont change ,u will get good friends there also as they mind ur transfering of groups if u really care
2007-11-20 04:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by khawarayubm m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you stay in Group A and make new friends !
2007-11-20 04:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start your own group!!!!..call it group "L"...we all know what L stands for...good luck .."L"
2007-11-20 05:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by puffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋