well this started off when i had a conversation with my other friend and she said you wanna come over? and i said ill have to ask my mum and my other friend butted in and said does your mum ever let you over to peoples houses and i said yeah im not a 10 year old kid. and she said how come you havent been over mine and i said i dont know and she kept complaining how i could go to my other friends house but not hers and i said well complain to my mum then? and she said no and i said fine but why you complaining at me and she said that my mum was racist to all english people and i said she is not! and then my friend said well you've been to shays house and she's asian and you've never been to any of ours and i said ef off . (my mum has an asian accent and my friend was pretending to be my mum and kept being really rude!
2007-11-19 19:00:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and my question is why is she doing this to me? what has she got against my mum? my mum doesnt hate her? so then next i said if my mum heard that she'd kick your **** in 5 seconds . so we got into a fight! but sometimes my friend is reallt nice and usually we never get into fights like this but my other friends will always be on my side
2007-11-19 19:02:11 · update #1
There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.
2007-11-19 19:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do u want to go from here? do u want to continue ur friendship with this girl or do u want to go ur own way? if u wanted to stay friends, apologize for anything you might've said to hurt her feelings or put her down in that conversation. Then tell her that you don't want this to come between you and that u not going to her house or anyone elses doesn't have to do with ur mom. and tell her how u feel when she says those mean things and how they offend u. if u dont want to be friends with her, stay away and dont talk to her until she apologizes to u
2007-11-20 03:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just seems like your friend's insecure and kind of a b-itch.
2007-11-20 03:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by dude_in_disguise2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋