Family - December 2007

2007-12-24 19:03:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its christmas and we are all sittin here opening presents and he walks in and just sits down and acts like he belongs here! let me mention that she just started datin him like a week ago and none of us have met him! and she aint even fully divorced yet from her husband! Am i wrong for feeling this hate for him or do i have a right to be mad cuz i told her that if he didnt leave i was gonna go home and of course she let him stay!! Am i wrong or what? and how do i get rid of him cuz she knows how i feel!??

2007-12-24 19:01:06 · 26 answers · asked by kaykay69_2002 2

My nephew recently got kicked out of his home by his parents because they found out that he robbed a house and is doing drugs. He dropped out of school and he came to me for help. He used to be a good kid and I think he's just hanging out with the wrong crowd and that's why he started getting into trouble. I want to let him stay with me in my apartment but I'm afraid of what he might do to me. So far he's been nice and I really don't think he would hurt me, but sometimes I get scared of him. I really feel sorry for him cause our family has abandoned him. I think he really needs someone right now to help him get straight again. He's been sleeping in his friend's car. What should I do?

2007-12-24 18:56:13 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPY FEET 3

My dad is a great dad, and always does what is the best choice for the family at the time.
But, ever since I was little, sometimes my dad would get really upset over nothing, and throw things. It makes me so angry and upset at him, at how he can lose his temper over nothing, and flip out at me.
Like, today, he freaked out since I didn't hear the phone ringing (I was blow-drying my hair), and he was playing his XBox360. So, he took one of the phones and threw it into my room, smashing it instantly. Then, he started to yell at me.
Everytime something like this happens, I'm upset, but stay positive. I don't want to let his anger get to me, and make me upset either. But, I hate how he can just tug me around like this too.
How can I fix this?

2007-12-24 18:53:52 · 7 answers · asked by Cinders 4

I am 15 years old. I have lived in a town for the last fourteen years of my life. All my friends and family live there. My mom recently made us move four hours away, because of her boyfriend. Is it ok or legal for me to move in with my mammaw? Me and my mom cant get along for five minutes. We always argue and i hate it there. I dont know anyone and i have nobody to talk to. My mom dont realize that i dont like it there. Any advice?please?thank you.

2007-12-24 18:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an older sister, she's high tempered, she bosses around everyday, I do a very tiny thing wrong she kinda swears and gets mad -_-.... If I don't do something for her she do something ( erases my game, she thinks it's her comp.). I can't hit her, but she can hit me, if I hit her my dad will kill me T_T.
I need help T_T

2007-12-24 18:41:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok shes been drinking, and she just stuck her hand into the fishbowl and pulled out my goldfish and ate it. WTF do i do? i was gonna call the cops

2007-12-24 17:59:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13.
My dad just came upstairs and said he had pain in his back, his chest and his shoulders.. he's gone to the hospital now.
But I'm really scared for some reason..
Will he be okay:( I know there's no way you guys can know that.. but what could it be? Something he hate? He only had soup. I know they won't be back till morning.. it's already 1:26AM.. :( Any similar things happen to anyone? I'm seriously so scared..

2007-12-24 17:27:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I almost didn't let them over yesterday, but I was lenient, since it's the holidays. They just figure they can take advantage of me & dog over me. They were whispering about me & laughing & violating my house rules. I'm 24, & they're 34 & 28. They're lucky I let them in & fed them. They know that smacking loud on food triggers off an anxiety attack & a hospital trip. When I put on my earplugs, they started laughing & then lied, saying they were laughing @ something else. Why do people choose ME to pick on? Why can't they find their entertainment & kicks somewhere else? Get your laughs from a comedy show. Don't mentally torture a mentally disabled person. They also stole my music CD's. 1 of them showed up with his girlfriend without letting me know in advance, KNOWING I HATE that girl! I tried to ask for advice on here, but answerers said my brothers are right, & how I deserve to be bullied in MY house. I'd hate to have to be unnecessarily hospitalized for the holidays. I'm very angry.

2007-12-24 17:26:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an electrical engineer, I just started working
Now my cousin ( whom i dislike for many reasons) is studying to become a doctor .
He'll be starting to work , i dn't know after his residency ..

I recenly researched the money he'll be making once he graduates and it's over a 100K-150K

Now i have no problem with him making enough money and enjoying his life , but I do believe that I am much smarter and motivated than him .

Now I am stuck with a degree where I can't get a starting salary of 100 - 150 k .( WHICH I WANT !!!!)


This sucks !!! mann!!
Any constuctive critisisms?

2007-12-24 17:24:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

but she has a drinking problem I think-she drinks beer every day-almost enough to get drunk. What should I do? Any tips, help or advice? Thanks

2007-12-24 17:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

love starvation?

2007-12-24 17:04:16 · 7 answers · asked by Bijou 2

My mom said she was going to bring some people over for tonight...and I'm like okay, Just can they not play Loud music till like 3 in the morning? and shes like okay.

So earlier, I went to go to sleep earliy, like mabey around 9ish...and I wake up to my mother screaming, and loud gutairs and thumping on the ground...I come upstairs and say Uhm what about what I said the other day, and she's like W(Whatever) and shrugs it off like nothing....

>:( ...What should I do? Also, Revenge sounds good.

2007-12-24 16:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 28 male but i'm shy(very).. so at work or whatever i can act like adult but with my parents i can't cause maybe because i was mentally scared as a child being shy and my parents always getting mad cause i was shy and they wanted me to be outgoing talkative but i never was ...so i feel shy t o act like an adult with them.

I know many of yu talkative confident people dont have this but how about other fellow shys?

im even scared to look at my father in the eye

2007-12-24 16:49:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year my mom (wrongly) accused me of taking and losing her digital camer which i did not.. well she kept on insisting that i lost her camera even though i knew i did not. in the end she told me to buy her a new camera and if she ever found her old camera she would give me the camera that i bought for her and my money back.. Well it turns out she DID find her camera but she lost the one i bought her!! To make Shi*t worse she will not give me money back after she wrongly accused me of losing her camera which i didnt!! What do you think i deserve or how to make her give me my money?? Everytime i mention it she gets an annoyed look in her face and always gets out of it.. making me feel like im just annoying. I wouldn't be asking her for my money back if i had a job right now but i got laid off and i have no types of money and i have been wanting a mp3 player since i didnt get a christmas gift :'(

2007-12-24 16:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by ♥PRECIOUS♥ 1

ok heres the thing i have family member that lives with me and all he everdoes is think my hubby is a free cab and eats the food doesnt clean upafter him self has disrespected me by callin me a ***** caus ei dont likehis sluty girlfriend talks **** about me and my man doesnt pay his rent half the time now he has caught herpies from his girl and it is contagise ihave a lil one and i really need to kick him out before she my husand or igets it none the less he is already bringing stolen **** in my house. whichcan get us in truble to but since it is christmas eve and right around theholidays me and my husband cant ring our self to kick him out cause wearent mean people i need advice what should i do

2007-12-24 16:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Alesha M 2

I have an 18 month old baby..me and her dad aren't together. So we made a plan that the baby would spend time with him and his family from Sunday until Christmas day around noonish. (We also spent Christmas eve and day with his family last year.) So this year I obviously wanted my daughter to spend Christmas with me and this side of the family. But his mom has the nerve to call me today and say she wants to keep the baby another 2 days! Is it just me or she being pretty inconsiderate? I obviously want to spend time with my daughter and have her open her gifts from santa.

2007-12-24 16:30:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in 10th standard and my elder sister is in 11th.
Everyday my sister starts an argument with my mom and prevents me from studying.
I can't advice my sister as she is totally out of hand.
My mom can't help it either.
None of my friends stay close by to study in their house.
Please Help!!!!!

2007-12-24 16:23:29 · 8 answers · asked by vighneshbirodkar 1

Ok, I don't live with my Mom and Stepdad. I live in CA with my dad while my mom & stepdad live in IA. I came to visit and I've been seeing him look at a lot of Nude Pictures and Chatting with girls, he always acts like some girl on myspace faking to be her. I talked to one of the girls because I stole the s/n of his computer while he was showing me something and I talked to her and stuff and told her that it was really a 50 year old man an stuff. She gave me all his information and stuff. Email Adress and His Page. Etc. I asked my aunt what to do and she said I should tell my mom. I feel very bad telling my mom this is her 4rd Marriage and she always ends up in the wrong mens hand. I mean he's a great guy just not what he's doing. Also, he got fired as a Social Worker for making others feel uncomfortable and having porno on his phone. My mom knows but he says they made it up. I dont know what to do, I feel very bad having to tell my mom. I dont want her to get hurt.

2007-12-24 16:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by Lilly 4

So I snuck out a couple days ago..and my parents have been dropping hints that they know...but haven't told me straight out. Should I tell them that I did it and it was wrong or what ?? They already are mad at me for something I've previously done..so I need some major help on what to do

2007-12-24 16:01:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

seems that people always flock to me to help them as iam good at calling ppl on the phone, matchmaking etc.
its as if several of my co-workers have forgotten how to dial numbers etc.
i call lawyers, cell phone ppl., landline phone companys, doctors etc etc etc.
i even had to call one womans ex and leave him a message to please consider thier child and pay his child support.
i do have a knack for getting things done but now everytime i turn around iam wanted to call or fix something.
i was asked to be present when one lady went to see a lawyer about divorce.
i help some ppl cut down on their bills by talking to the utilitys companys as i know the best deals.
i love helping ppl but i think its time i let them do their own things.
any of you have this same problem?
oh one lady had me call her loan company and beg them not to take her home!
she gave me all of her info and i was her on the phone.

2007-12-24 15:16:07 · 6 answers · asked by happy in nc 1

They fight so much and my dad constantly walks around the house in a grumpy, sad and dissapointed, whe I say constantlty I mean all the time I am not joking, he often says things like, I wish I didn't live here, you guys are pigs(me my sister my mom and brother) and not about my little twin brothers he always praises them, and how he's been looking for an apartment, and he has recently found one"for when he visits phoniex) and how he wishes he anywhere but here, and many hurtful things and lately I have started feeling so bad and hurt and sometimes like it's my fualt, I have started cutting myself, and have come close to an eating disorder, and so many other things,,,,what can I do? What should I do?

2007-12-24 15:13:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

anybody??

2007-12-24 14:55:20 · 14 answers · asked by Lettuce 3

I am waiting for my children to fall asleep good and I don't dare go near the stash before midnight. (they are sick and coughing so I am afraid they are not good asleep yet)

I am downing coffee and I am so tired. I don't think I will fall asleep, but I was wondering in a funny way if any parents ever forgot to lay the gifts out.

I know this would not be funny in real life, but maybe in a movie, like "oh sh*t, hunny, we forgot the presents" and you see the kids just staring at the presentless tree in their nightgowns. Maybe something with Vince Vaughn in it. And the kids could be hellions and come back like "what the f*ck, wheres our presents?"

I don't know, I could be delirous right now....what do you think?

2007-12-24 14:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He belches, farts, makes fun of the music artists I like and numerous other things that he knows offends me because I've told him it makes me uncomfy. He does this for attention and then grins once I give him a reaction. Isn't that childish? How he enjoys getting my goat is absurd at his age (56), right? What do you think because I'm apparently the only one who thinks so in my family.

Thanks guys.

2007-12-24 13:49:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been caught doing a couple dumb things in the past few months, and their trust for me isnt so great anymore
whats a good way to convince my mom and dad to let me go out?

2007-12-24 13:46:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

things suck at home...both parents are abusive and i cant take it anymore and the other day i kind of broke down in the cps office and told them briefly that my dad had smacked me around and that he had done something sexual to me and i lied for mom i said things were ok with us because the walls were paper thin and i heard her earlier tell about the only incident when i became the abuser but not for long and i just cant be here anymore after mom and i came home from cps she yelled at me about it and smacked me and stabbed my wrist with a fork (no veins hit but it was bleeding) anyways i need to leave this house but most ways of getting out involve her knowing...is there a way i could leave without her knowing???....any ideas??...even maybe some message of hope would be greatly appreciated

2007-12-24 13:41:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents and sister often dance in public and in the car when we're going places. How can I stop them dancing because im really getting p*ssed off by it?

2007-12-24 12:54:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I have been talking to a married man for a month now but we stopped talking for awhile when his wife started suspecting it. I know its wrong so please dont say well what would you do if you were his wife? I KNOW how it feels!! Anyway. I didnt think he would talk to me again but then a few days ago, he started talking to me again and some things happened between us like messing around a little. Well him and his wife are both off work until Jan. 3 or 4th for the holidays and he told me not to text him through the weeks b/c he will be around his wife most likely and he don't want her to find out. Well he told me that he wanted to bang me but to wait a little bit. Ok so he told me not to text him and all that. I know this will be when HE wants to and when HE has the time for me. My question is.... DO YOU THINK HE WILL EVENTUALLY ASK ME TO GO ALL THE WAY W/HIM?? Thats my question.... please tell me what you think and when he will ask me? Thanks!

2007-12-24 12:44:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in NE and the father lives in MO. He wants joint custody but I don't want him to be able to take my child through Iowa down to MO every other weekend or whatever the case may be. My friends have told me that in NE, you cannot give joint custody to a parent who lives outside of the state because they cannot legally take the child across state lines, at least not without the other parents permission. I was just wondering if there is any truth to this or if anyone else has been in a similar situation.

2007-12-24 10:48:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous