Family - December 2007

Some women say Grown Fathers are useless to their adult daughters when they have an adult daughter being willingly abused and used by their boyfriend
Some women say they plead with their husbands to do what they did when their children were minors, protect them form harm.. They say these were good fathers when the children were growing up but why cant they stop those men from abusing their adult daughters even though the adult daughters
takes the abuse willingly and say they are in love and daddy stay away. They are grown now
Some fathers watch in frustration when they learn its against the law for them to do anything and their younger children and wife pleads with them to do something.
What can these good fathers do but look helplessly at their remaining minor children and say you had better stay good the way im teaching you and taught their adult daughters
I say theirs nothing these good fathers can do but advise and be there to pick up the peices. What do you say ?

2007-12-27 06:44:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 06:42:05 · 18 answers · asked by clifford s 1

Yesterday I stepped on glass. Theer is no more glass actually in my foot its all out. But it really hurst becuase its bruised. How long do you think it will take for the bruise to stop hurting so much becuase im goignot Florida in 2 days and I really have to walk.

and yes i know this is in the wrong section but im trying to get an answer!!!

2007-12-27 06:31:54 · 37 answers · asked by Florida in 2 DAYS! 1

MY SISTER NAME IS AMANDA MARIE CHAMBERLAIN I AM SURE THAT HER LAST NAME IS DIFFERENT SHE IS18 OR 19 HER BIRTHDAY IS APRIL 23RD 1988 OR 1989 SHE WAS ADOPTED BY SOMEONE IN PROVIDENCE RHODE ISLAND SHE HAS BLOND CURLY HAIR LAST TIME I SAW HER! HER MOTHER NAME WAS CHRISTINE SMALL AND HER FATHER NAME WAS JOSEPH G CHAMBERLAIN I WANT TO FIND MY SISTER AND HOPING USING THE INTERNET WILL HELP

2007-12-27 06:31:26 · 4 answers · asked by Nimbus 2

i spent around 200 cad

2007-12-27 06:22:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a teen with a brother that is a todler. he never folows directions or quite frankly does what we want him to do. i cannot hit him or anything like that of course. so what can i do?

2007-12-27 06:22:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family fights bad..at least once a day..i cry myself to sleep almost every night. My father died when I was at a young age. I am fourteen now and my mom has been remarried to a nice man..but she thinks that i hate him because we are always fighting. My mom will stick up for me just a little bit and he will just just jump down her throat about it. And he yells at me about the littlelest things. and I will admit that i usually do yell back..i try not to but it just comes out because i am so frusturated. Some mornings I wake up to my parents fighting so I just stay up in my bed because I know they are either fighting about me or my stepbrother. I try to go up to my room and just cool down but my mom and stepdad dont let me. Please give me advice to stop my family from fighting before they fall apart!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-27 06:10:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother in law has helped me emotionally for 10 years, She was a wonderful kind, loving soul. Now she is bitter mean nasty, hateful and she thinks I am poisioning her food, sleeping with her husband and stealing her money (she hasn't got any...). My father in law still works as a truck driver due to the fact that before her illness (CAA, Cerebreal Amyloid Angiopathy) she ran up 150,000 in credit card debt and morgaged their house. My sister in law is a paraplegic with mental retardation....There are no family members willing to help and I thought I could help out, but it has become so demanding that I do not know who to turn to. An assisted living facility is out, no onewill discuss it. My husband can't see that the problem is as serious as it is (he remained at our home as I was able to leave my job and he isn't able to realistically). Please tell me where to find a support group, I am losing sleep, weight and my mind.....

2007-12-27 05:56:34 · 7 answers · asked by suzieg 3

I fear my parent support is if decide to start a family before the next 3 years. I am i a relationship for 3 years and i so love this guy and i think he is the one for me. We both want to spend the rest of our life to together and have a family of our own. Do you think that my parent would accept me having a family before the next three years. Reason being is that i want to have my family after the next three (3) years, what should i do?

2007-12-27 05:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, well I just turned 14 a couple months ago and my mom may or may not get me a cell phone. She's a little iffy about it right now, even though I'm trying to convince her I'm responsible. My parents trust me, I'm good in school (A's and B's, maybe ONE C+, but they were fine with it), and I'm really responsible. Like when I go to a b-ball game or something, I'm always home on time and I let them know where I am, when I'm leaving, when I'll be back, etc. I'm not really sure why she won't let me get one...she once said I'd get one for my b-day, but that never happened, and now she's saying maybe for graduation, which is in 6 months. I'm not sure if she will this time, do you think I'm ready?

2007-12-27 05:32:09 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous

...That is, rape is being discussed on the Oprah show.

2007-12-27 05:22:58 · 13 answers · asked by Cas 4

My mother and father have been divorced for over 18 years, i haven't talked to him in 5 years. My mother recently passed away from cancer, in the divorce decree it stated he had to pay child support for as long as I was in school. Now that my mother passed he has stopped sending checks. I am 19 years old and live in MA. Is there any hope for my twin brother and I getting finicial support from my father?

2007-12-27 05:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 2

What is the first thing you would buy?

2007-12-27 04:50:29 · 48 answers · asked by SpoiledPrincess 2

What is the one thing that you always wanted for Christmas when you were a kid but you never got it?

2007-12-27 04:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by SpoiledPrincess 2

I'm terrified to be in my own house, and i dont know what to do. I'm home alone today with my brother, and he scares me so much. less then an hour ago he squeezed my arms really really hard, and i was trapped since he is much stronger than me. he can easily hurt me, and often times does. my mom doesnt seem to give a crap, but im afraid one day he'll kill me. what do i do?

2007-12-27 04:39:27 · 11 answers · asked by Whatupdawg 3

Would your answer be changed, if you already let another son sleeping in the same room of your house with his "steady" GIRLfriend?

I know that there may be double standard here....

2007-12-27 04:35:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate having to admit my parents don't understand me. My mom is extremely one sided and only believes what she thinks is right and my dad agrees with her every single time. I met and fell in love with the most amazing person of my life a year ago. Yes I am 18, but he has taught me things my parents never have...like how to appreciate life and be respectful to those who are disrespectful to you, not to be afraid to stand up for what you believe in, how to love someone, being more confident and not letting things get the best of me, etc. I feel like I haven't learned these things from my parents because whenever i get in trouble i get yelled and screamed at. My boyfriend never screams at me when I do something wrong and I actually learn and have so much more respect for him. My parents feel my world revolves around him and that I'm out of control. I was even blamed today for one day being the death of my mother because of her heart problems. How can I emotionally handle this?

2007-12-27 04:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa 1

i have enjoyed mine a lot.

2007-12-27 04:31:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam sister to zachary_zebell iam ask this QUSTION BECUSE Went his was little boy he try on my bra & panties. he like so one year for hollenween me &our mother drees dress him as girl.

2007-12-27 04:27:28 · 3 answers · asked by brittany_zebell 2

have any of you mothers dont trust you or any one is a mother that dont trust your daugther?? what would you do if your mother dont trust you????

2007-12-27 04:23:21 · 2 answers · asked by Sabrina L 1

What do other people think of driveing?

2007-12-27 00:13:37 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

my father regularly talks bad about people behind their backs, and he'll NEVER say to their face what he says about them behind their back.. He's 73
It just affects my trust in him , I always wonder what he says about me to others if he says bad things about others to me all the time.

2007-12-26 23:02:50 · 4 answers · asked by art_flood 4

2007-12-26 22:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate my little brother.
how can i solve this problem
REALLY I FEEL SAD.

2007-12-26 22:44:30 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad and I are emotionally distant and my family recognizes that, whenever he is insensitive and pisses me off I take my anger on my mom and brother of to which I realize.

Im tired of this repeating and ongoing chain and I want to end it. Is there a way you can improve an emotional realationship with a person no matter how incapable he or she may seem. I hope what I am trying to do isn't a lost cause.

2007-12-26 19:29:06 · 2 answers · asked by Ge1st 1

idk any other person besides my dad that has been adopted..i was when i was four years old, and i had this feeling last year it started, to find my bio parrents, and then out of the blue my friend calls me up and says she just met my bio parrents, i was speach less, i met up with them a few times...they arent doin so well in money standards, but their making it, but now i'm not allowed to see them until i turn 18....and now when ever me and my mom now, have fights or arguements she'll drag my bio parrents into it and say "DO YOU WANT TO GO LIVE WITH THEM?" and idk what to answer to her question, i mean after i read/heard the reason why i was put out for adoption, i dont wanna live with my bio family, so now i'm confused and lost and dnt know what to do... so please help me..thanx

2007-12-26 17:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by spikex02boy 1

My BF's family is rude and grouchy to me and just in general to everyone. I really hate being around them. How do I deal with them and still keep things going well with my BF.

2007-12-26 17:40:14 · 6 answers · asked by adobeprincess 6

Ok. This is very complicated. The person I am trying to forgive is my "Father". I met my dad when I was 11 yrs. old. Previous to that all I knew about him was his name and that he was a liar. Everything was going well until I turned 15 he made a promise that he would come visit me and he did not keep the promise so I got mad and I stopped talking to him. Months went by before I forgave him. I told him that I didnt like when ppl lied to me. So he agreed to not make promises he wasnt going to keep. I few months went by and I was going to graduate from School and there were many things to pay such as prom, and various senior activities and my mom could not pay the expenses herself so we all made an agreement and he said that he would pay for Half of the expenses. He got a copy and my mom got a copy of the expenses. However my graduation day came and went and I did not recieve any money from him. He would not visit or even call to see how we were doing. until six months after my graduation

2007-12-26 15:59:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My twins were in foster care when i found out i was the father. When i found out i was the father i took it to court and got physical coustody of them. The mother has not tried to see them in 5 years until now what can i do so she wont get coustody?

2007-12-26 15:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by ernest 1

On Christmas, some distant relatives invited us over for a little bit, but they're my grandmas moms sisters kids. But they're the only family besides my Grandma from my Moms side of the family in town. But I was with with my dads side of the family on Christmas. I felt like we should of stopped over, but my dad said It would be akward, since everyone else in their family is like first relatives. My dad asked if I felt akward being around them, and I admitted no, and he said that I should have felt akward. I've known this side of my family since I was 11, and I am 19.

2007-12-26 15:26:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous