Would your answer be changed, if you already let another son sleeping in the same room of your house with his "steady" GIRLfriend?
I know that there may be double standard here....
2007-12-27 04:35:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think its appropriate for either the heterosexual couple or the homosexual couple if they are underaged. However if you are talking about adults, then why wouldn't you? If you are trying to alienate your child and send him a message that your love for him is conditional to his sexual orientation then that's exactly what you are doing. They are grown ups and if you allow it for one child, you should allow it for all kids. I doubt seriously are they are doing anything but sleeping, I know I never would when my husband and I stayed at his parents, its too creepy.
2007-12-27 04:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If they are both of legal age, then yes, especially if the straight son is allowed to sleep with his significant other. Applying a double standard here just doesn't make sense - why should it matter?
2007-12-27 04:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yep, why not? They may be gay but they are still people, human beings with the same rights and feelings that we all have. What the hell, let them sleep together. I really can never imagine sleeping or having sex with another man, but if that turns on someone else, let them go for it.
2007-12-27 04:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by burtontexjap 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you would let him sleep in the same room if he had a girlfriend then I think it would be only fair. On the other hand, if you feel uncomfortable with his sexuality and are open and honest with him about it then I don't think it would be right of him to force such an uncomfortable situation upon you.
2007-12-27 04:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Christy V 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, no child of mine would ever have their boyfriend or girlfriend stay the night, unless they were over 18.
It doesn't matter their sexual orientation, but it's disrespectful for them to do what you KNOW they'll do under my roof.
That said, if you already let one kid have their girlfriend over, then you're showing a clear prejudice and disrespect for the other kid. Gay kids need their family's support in their teenage years more than any one, imagine how hard it is for them. Just establish ground rules (No sex/making out/etc) and tell him if he disobeys them then there's no second chance.
2007-12-27 04:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Seattle_Slacker 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If they all want to lay up with each other, they need to be doing it in their own house. Put the foot down and tell them to go get a hotel/motel room.
2007-12-27 05:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by angenico5920 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is good for the goose is good for the gander. Even if you don't approve of it, you have to go with it. Or don't allow couples to sleep together at the house.
2007-12-27 04:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by #2 in the oven 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
depends on the age. if my sons were old enough to have a girlfriend over, why not a boyfriend?
2007-12-27 04:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by hotlilchick1127 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't.... growing up, if my friends or other's stayed the night, they would always be in the guest room, or the couch... regardless of how much they trusted me...
2007-12-27 04:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by Okc Guy 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
DEPENDS ON THE AGE. IF OVER 18 YES BECAUSE IF IT WAS A GIRL INSTEAD ANY PARENT WOULD LET THEM. SO WHY NOT JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE GAY. (SHOULDNT MAKE A DIFFERENCE)
2007-12-27 05:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by SEXYCHICK2008 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋