I fear my parent support is if decide to start a family before the next 3 years. I am i a relationship for 3 years and i so love this guy and i think he is the one for me. We both want to spend the rest of our life to together and have a family of our own. Do you think that my parent would accept me having a family before the next three years. Reason being is that i want to have my family after the next three (3) years, what should i do?
2007-12-27 05:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How old are you?
Are you financially prepared for the job?
Do you have medical insurance?
Are you employed?
Are you living in your own place, not with parents?
Will you be able to afford day care?
If you are under 23, then hold off with the reproducing until your employment status and finances are in order.
2007-12-27 06:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, your parents really have no say in when you start your family. It is expected.....sooner or later. The timing should be up to you and your husband, not a concern of your parents.
However, two words tell me you are probably not married: "support" and "relationship". If you are just in a relationship and not married, or if your parents are still supporting you financially, then it is neither fair nor smart to bring a child into the world.
2007-12-27 14:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by transplanted_fireweed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only people who need to be involved in the decision to have your children are you and your children's intended father.
Unless you are going to be relying on your parents for financial support or are living under their roof, it's none of their business when you have children.
2007-12-27 14:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and honest with them.
2007-12-27 13:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by GayNSingleNNC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with them..
2007-12-27 13:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋