Family - August 2007

Ok... well a year ago we got a call from this man that said he was my fathers child. Well the dates added up from when my father was in the Army and the mans age. Well dad went to the back room to speak to him and came out told me and my mom no that wasnt his son. I am convinced that was my brother ( my uncle told me before he died that i had one) The man even knew my dads army numbers his whole name and also what town he was from..... i just want to know who my brother is... since i am the only child.... PLEASE HELP ME i dont know where to go what to do to find out.. but i am willing to do a dna test to see if he is my bro. I just dont know where to go to find who was searching for my dad....

thank you all

2007-08-04 15:35:44 · 2 answers · asked by Zera C 1

2007-08-04 15:07:13 · 2 answers · asked by Debbie 4

I can't use my cell phone when I go away for a week! What do I do to not become homesick? I'm 18 B.T.W

2007-08-04 14:55:41 · 12 answers · asked by Laura Block 4

When your family gets together at family BBQ's, reunions, etc. do some of them fight or get drunk and start fighting?

I've never seen anyone do that in real life until tonight in a picnic area. It was so sad there were kids there watching and women yelling. I was just sad to see FAMILY acting like that toward each other.

2007-08-04 14:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Rina 4

my mom said that tommorrow we are going somewhere "fun" at 10:00. Are we going shopping?? its kinda early in the morning to go to DQ or anything. Anybody have any guesses? my guess it that we are going to the mall... but idk!! plz help she will not tell me!

2007-08-04 14:19:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before I continue, I know that my father controls the money and I apprecite his child support. That being said,my father decided to pull my 9 year old brother out of a private school because he thinks that it is too far of a drive.(it is right next to his work) and that it costs too much(9,000 a year) even though he sits on the computer all day and gambles on stocks. He pulled my brother out without even discussing it with him. The rest of family have noticed that my brother's reading, writing and math have improved greatly since he has been going to the private schoo. Also, my brother learned more how to behave. When the rest of the family decided to discuss this issue with my father, he said that if the public schools are not like compton, they are better than the private school. when my brother started crying because he would be leaving his friends from the school. my dad told him to make new friends.

2007-08-04 14:13:47 · 1 answers · asked by texanpride 1

i mean they choose my own clothes and who i should be!

2007-08-04 13:54:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom can be so irritating. she does not respect my privacy at all. i'm about to turn 18 very soon and i feel as if i deserve more privacy than this. she always barges into my room without ever knocking. even when my door is locked she'll find a key to open it (my doorknob is the crappy one that can be opened with pretty much any key). my boyfriend and i were making out in my room, and i had the door locked, and what does she do? she unlocks it and looks at us and gets out. WTF IS WRONG WITH HER? does she intentionally do this to piss me off or something? how do i keep her out of my room? she doesn't seem to understand what the word KNOCK means because i've told her a million times to knock before coming into my room and she never does. UGHHHH.

2007-08-04 13:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's not peer pressure.
I'm 13 and I think that's a reasonable age to get my eyebrows done.
My eyebrows look like a guy's eyebrows [worse actually]. I don't have a low self esteem or anything [as I'm sure some of you will say]. It's just that every morning I wake up to look in a mirror only to find that the amazon forest is still there on my forehead. It's ugly, but my mom thinks its cute.
My dad claims to me that I'm too pretty [lol] to get my eyebrows done, but I say no I'd be prettier if my eyebrows actually matched my face.

Are there some "magic words" I can say to make them let me get my eyebrows done? They're kind of strict.

2007-08-04 13:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

see my dads brothers wife is legally my aunt right? well her son would be my cousin so would his cousin from his moms side by related to me?

2007-08-04 13:28:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My significant other has 2 adult children who both have families and small children. They kept coming home to run the air conditioner, borrow money, eat, cook, leave a big mess, shower, do laundry and everything else you can imagine while he is gone to work. I work full time too, so I am never there.
His kids never seem to have jobs or any life plans except to live off old dad who by the way works nites and sleeps in the daytime 6 nites a week 12 hours a nite. His kids dont seem to get it, they run the TV, washer, stereo, have kids screaming and fighting. babies crying while he is trying to sleep.
He loaned his bedroom furniture out. Do you think he did this to get them to stay in their own homes or am I just being too happy to see them gone? Today is the 1st time we have been together for ions. Kids toys are strewn all over his house, but they have been there since his daughter came to visit about 3 weeks ago. They never clean up after themselves.

2007-08-04 12:54:16 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6

have you ever been accidentally scalded and burned in the shower? OR perhaps on a winter day turned it on COLD?

2007-08-04 12:12:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know he wents to help when hes drunk he hits us what should i do

2007-08-04 11:54:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and I have always had complications, especially when it comes to dating. I am 19 years old and still live in my house. I go to a Christian college, I attend church 3 days a week like she wants me to and I bend over backwards to kiss my butt for her when she needs me to. She will tell her friends that I will baby sit for them or do other chores w/ out even asking me! Then when I want to go off and do something for me, like going on a date w/ my b/f (whom she likes a lot) all hell breaks loose. She asks me if my 13 year old brother can tag along on my DATE!! When I tell her no, it's my date she blows up and tells me I never to do anything with him or do anything for her, which is a ball faced lie. I constantly am doing things for the both of them. This is really pissing me off. Then on top of all that she doesn't even listen to me. She's constantly on the phone with her friends. She spends more time w/ them than me. Yes, I have talked to her about this and she gets mad @ me! HELP!

2007-08-04 11:38:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please Help me. Take the time to read this, take the time to answer.

No one ever listens to me, I just cant stand it. I feel like no one cares. I cant ever voice my opinion, whenever I do I get yelled at and everyone just hates me. I, I just dont know what to do.
Whenever I have an opinion about something, my family always gets mad and for the rest of the day everyone is mad, sometimes even for days.

I dont know what to do. Today I cried cause my brother was being a pain in the a$$. I hate him sometimes. My mom started flipping out and threw an apricot at the wall so I would shutup. I started crying cause no one would listen to what I had to say and then she threw another apricot at the computer desk tying to hit the computer cause I was "dragging the argument along"

Whenever I try expressing my opinion, everyone gets mad.
I try to turn to my friends, they get mad at me cause I am "complaining" or something and think I am faking.

I need your help!

2007-08-04 11:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My nephew and my niece is living with me now since there is some family issues happening with my sister... My nephew says he wants to wear some jeans hanging down so you can see his boxers...and his @ss... And with a white dirty T-shirt with a very very big hoodie...With a baseball cap and a du-rag or as some ppl say rags on his head... Now I know he is trying to be a rapper and he trying to find his independence...But should I at least try to teach him about some class and manners?

2007-08-04 11:34:18 · 30 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5

I was looking in the pantry for something and she pushed me in and locked me in there and told me spiders were in there and ants. It was dark and I am SCARED of the dark! The pantry is small and I had to suck my stomach in to fit in there. I couldnt breathe. I JUST now got out. When I was in there I saw a HUGE spider. I was in there for about 10 minutes. She said she did that because I didnt answer the phone for her boyfriend. Isnt what she did to me wrong?!

2007-08-04 10:55:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom, has pushed me so hard that I feel driven away.My brother, is pushy and thinks that I do weird thing, I am on my guard, ready to stand up for myself, even though mostly he just gives a look, but when he does say something, it is rude.With my dad. As a teenager he was abusive and 'spanked' me and bruised me and was verbally abusive. Since then, he has changed so much.He has since married someone else and is really nice.But still as an adult, for years, he just seemed emotionally unavailable to me. I gave up trying.Now he seems to be getting 'softer' as he gets older.He seems to be making more of an effort to know my child and myself.But I just don't care as much anymore.Why?This is my family and I swing between missing what I wish we had... to feeling 'dead' and indifferent towards them.Just feeling... 'nothing'. I forget their birthdays, their anniversaries, to call... WHY? If blood is thicker than water, than why do I like my friends more? My dad is nice now and is ready.

2007-08-04 10:19:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 3 baby rabbits in my backyard and they are atleast 2 weeks old. They have there eyes open and everything. Is it ok if we hold them?

2007-08-04 10:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother came to help me decorate my dorm. He totally messed it up and I yelled and slapped him. He wont answer my calls and I dont want to go to my parent's house.

2007-08-04 09:42:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-04 08:10:09 · 3 answers · asked by Debbie 4

ok, i watch my sister's kid nearly all the time. she has 4 kids of her own. the fathers cause drama or don't want to help or are gone. the 21/2 yr old boy i watch i think has separation anxiety issues. so we got into this fight and it was about the boy listening to what he is told. when she spends time with him, he acts out and she lets him have his way and never diciplins him. she told me to stop comlplaining about him not following rules and directions and listening BECAUSE IF I TALK NEGATIVELY ABOUT HIM TO HER--I CALL NEGATIVITY TO HIM AND THAT WHY HE DOESN'T LISTEN......I NEVER HEARD OF SUCH A THING. i was taught that children as toddlers need to be diciplined carefully and that is what i am trying to do. now i understand she needs to spend more time with her son but this is getting to the point where she gets mad at me for correcting her son for his behavior and acting out.what do i do? i am sick of arguing with her. she just doesn't get it! someone help me.

2007-08-04 08:01:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m a 15 year old teenager and I’m becoming a junior in high school this year. I came to U.S. about two years ago with my little brother, and my mom moved to U.S. about four years before we came. I don't get along with my mom very well, and since my grand father (mom's side) came to U.S. to visit us, I and my mom have been fighting even more than before. I’m afraid that these fights are going to effect me and make me a person who fights with everybody, and because I get very emotional when I fight with my mom, I can't study or concentrate on the things that I have to do as a student. I don't want to fight with my mom. I just want a happy, peaceful life, so I can move out of here, go to college, and become a successful person. I tried to talk to my mom but unfortunately, she doesn't care about my school. She takes me to school late most of the time, and believe it or not, everyone says that I am a lot more mature than she is. Can anyone introduce me a good counselor who I can e-mail?

2007-08-04 07:28:59 · 7 answers · asked by ....... 1

I can not get along with my family. I live with my dad, grandma, & younger brother. I can't take this living situation. Everyday my grandma argues and complains about dumb stuff. My Dad gets mad at me for dumb stuff. I'm 23 and I have to tell him everytime I go out. They treat me like a child. All we do so argue & fight in this house. I'm sick of it. 2 weeks ago my dad call the cops on me & my brother for no reason. I'm not a bad person. I went to college & got a degree. I'm back in school now getting a cerification in drug & alcohol counseling. I start my internship in the fall. I don't have any kids. I work & make my own money. My grandma always talks negative about me & my brother. She has a fit if there is 1 peice of paper on the dresser. Ever tho I have a degree I'm am not able to find a job that pays enough for me to live on my own. I am so stressed out that I'm ready to move to a homeless shelter. I'm just sick of the fights. What should I do?

2007-08-04 06:58:48 · 21 answers · asked by candigal 3

2007-08-04 06:38:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

theyve been fighting a lot and its not just verbal! theyve been fighting since i was little! whenever i ask my dad why they fight he says my mom started it. when i ask my mom she says he started it and that i saw him start it. then my dad leaves the house. my mom and i always stay at the house after each fight. then i get all angry at my mom (*frenzy*), my dad leaves the house, i leave the room shes in, burst into unstoppable tears, she comes into the room she heard me crying in, and then she claims that because im not doing anything to my dad that im on his side, when actually i did (sometimes i kick him). she always apologizes to me and asks me if im damaged, i say yes im too damaged to be healed, and then she goes on and on about how she doesnt think she and my dad are gonna grow old together. its the same thing over and over again!! wth should i do?!

2007-08-04 06:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by A Yahoo! User 2

ok, i think i have the mother in law from HELLL! what would you do if..... these are just a few examples of two things she said to your hubby while in IRAQ- he is deployed, in a letter. this has been going on for a total of 6 yrs.
a- *john*( your brother) wishes i die, b. your wife said that you hate me, c. my 3 daughter in laws sit and talk about me all the time!

I really dont care that she is talking about me, nor do my sister in laws, but the fact that she sent my hubby this letter in iraq, while he is fighting and was *extremely upset* over this letter, pissed beyond words, and well, now he is distracted by her stupidity to write such sh it to him, she could wind up getting him hurt!

would you call her up and tell her to stop writing the 'drama' section to him!

2007-08-04 04:45:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the past 5 years of my life I struggled with my weight, sometimes it got up to 180lbs. When it was that high my grandmother would ask me not to come around that side of the family or go to her church because I was embarrasing her. Over the years she'd call me up anytime she saw a diet pill on tv and she'd beg me to accept money from her for plastic surgery. She'd go on and on about how our whole family is thin, and that I'm ruining our families reputation. Well now I'm pregnant and I'm about 190lbs and my grandma was still going at it a week ago. I got so sick of her hurting my feelings and making me feel bad about myself that I went off on her. I cursed at her telling her what a horrible person she is and that God would be ashamed of how she's treating me and that she wouldn't see her grandchild. She's Baptist and really centered on God so I knew the God bit would upset her. Then I left. Now my family is mad at me saying, "She's just a poor little old lady".

Advice?

2007-08-04 03:35:01 · 18 answers · asked by Mikki Lynn Breisch 2

be my chef for tonight?

i want to cook something special for my brother but i dont know what to do.(i am from the uk,so some dishes i wont have heard of if anyone outside the uk answers).
actually i cant cook at all..so any recipies?

2007-08-04 02:52:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry if I am not supposed to ask this here but since a lot of people read these I might get an answer...

my name is tonia, my older sister tracy and I were adopted when we were 4&5, we met our real parents and found out from our mom that we have 2 half sisters we did'nt even know existed, they were also put up for adoption and went to different homes, all I know is that their names are Kelly and Kimmy, I was born in '73 and Kelly I believe was born in '74 or '75 and Kimmy in '75 or'76, our moms maiden name is Carol Neizgocki, the dad of one of them I believe was Mike Naggo. I have asked my bio mom about them but she lost track of them after they were adopted and dos'nt know anymore than I do, do any of these names sound familiar to anyone? it would be cool to find them.

2007-08-03 22:35:17 · 5 answers · asked by pumpkin2 1