Please Help me. Take the time to read this, take the time to answer.
No one ever listens to me, I just cant stand it. I feel like no one cares. I cant ever voice my opinion, whenever I do I get yelled at and everyone just hates me. I, I just dont know what to do.
Whenever I have an opinion about something, my family always gets mad and for the rest of the day everyone is mad, sometimes even for days.
I dont know what to do. Today I cried cause my brother was being a pain in the a$$. I hate him sometimes. My mom started flipping out and threw an apricot at the wall so I would shutup. I started crying cause no one would listen to what I had to say and then she threw another apricot at the computer desk tying to hit the computer cause I was "dragging the argument along"
Whenever I try expressing my opinion, everyone gets mad.
I try to turn to my friends, they get mad at me cause I am "complaining" or something and think I am faking.
I need your help!
2007-08-04 11:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I cant help it.
I cant feel happy.
There is too much stuff going on
No one cares.
Not my family.
Not my friends. They think its no big deal.
They turn it around into their problems.
Random strangers on the internet are the only people I can dish to.
Ive been like this since April.
Sad part of the day on the verge of tears.
Other days I feel unstoppable. I feel 101% happy.
How can I feel happy? [ dont suggest P&Z or any of that stuff]
How can I voice my opinion to my family without them flipping out?
Tips?
2007-08-04 11:38:26 · update #1
shes not throwing stuff at me.
2007-08-04 11:52:28 · update #2
you sound bipolar... and that means you need some real, clinical help to get leveled out again..... don't let that scare you, cuz every teen girl I know went thru the same crappola....some of us got help, some of us didn't.... but we made it..............you can't talk to anyone about anything that is important to YOU..... you feel totally alone in the world... like you were born out of your time and place.... you don't belong here... yada, yada..... it's a stage we all go thru in our search to find ourselves.... stop wimping out... stand up for yourself... if she throws an apricot, throw it back!!.(but smile when you do it!!!)............do things that will make you feel proud of yourself.. things that you can talk about .... things that others will appreciate.... and as far as you having an opinion?.... you don't get to have an opinion on anything until you have a job and live in your own place.... that's just how it is...... while you're at home, you're just a kid.... if you're 15, you gotta hang for a while and keep cool.... if you're 18, it's time to be on your own if at all possible....then you can voice your opinions to the cat and he'll agree with you all day................;-).............really, tho, hang on... better days really are ahead!!... we all made it, so will you!!... hugs for you from someone who's been there.....
2007-08-04 12:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by meanolmaw 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For starters, it was wrong for your mom to throw something at you. That was mean and childish. Secondly, you do have the right to have an opinion, and SHOULD be able to express it without getting treated so badly BUT, if it causes that much drama then perhaps you should just zip it for a while. Not that what you have to say isn't important and valuable, but it may be easier if it's causing you that much stress. Buy a diary instead, and then vent all you want to.
Normally, I would probably suggest talking to your mom, but it doesn't sound like (if she's throwing stuff at you) that she's going to be very receptive.
2007-08-04 18:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your family and friends don't value your opinion and aren't giving you the support you need. And I think you need something more than an "Answer" on Yahoo!
I suggest talking to a school counselor or a teacher. They can help you find someone who can give you the tools to deal with your family.
2007-08-04 18:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by jered_gold 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel and i can relate. I think whats best is to go with the flow and just do as your told. And when your mom or dad cool off, tell them to sit down and listen to you. When your talking to them try and be calm and not rude.
2007-08-04 18:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of placing the value on everyone elses acceptance of you...why don't you start by accepting yourself? seriously...if they will not listen then find someone who will. its their own fault that they don't want to listen to you. so begin a new life outside of your blood relatives and make some new friend-relatives. just because they are relatives doesn't mean that they can treat you like crap. treat them the same way that you would a stranger. you would not take such treatment from a stranger so don't take it from them. where's your independence?
2007-08-04 18:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Also, the reason I think what happens to you is no big deal cause I DO have worse problems then you. I dont tell any of it to you though.
2007-08-04 20:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Chelsea. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to a teacher or a counselor.
2007-08-04 19:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋