Family - March 2007

My mom is so cool. I love her so much but if i ask her if I can go to the movies at like 5pm she'll say no and she says she can trust me its just the other people that she can't trust.
I am 13 and I wish she would stop treating me like a little girl....soo can you give me a little advice please..

2007-03-26 22:04:29 · 22 answers · asked by :DDtortillas:DD 2

and now It's too late to change them and maybe impossible.

2007-03-26 21:52:55 · 3 answers · asked by shirin 1

help please, what can i do to find my grandson?? his mother and her boyfriend, are involved with drugs. she has moved, to the area of perth in scotland. they just up and went one day. i have not seen my grandchild for 8wks now. and i am so broken hearted, as i have been involved in his upbringing from day one. my son has been in contact with his solicitor, and also the school my grandson went to. son is on birth certificate as the father. solicitor says he needs an address for them,how can we find this out.??

2007-03-26 21:17:40 · 17 answers · asked by salad bowl 1

i know a couple who has 3 kids,aged 6,5,2.theyre favorite is the middle kid,and they maltreat the eldest so often,having him do all the choirs,look after the youngest,when their father got home from work,the eldest was only the one without something from him,in a simple fault,actually, they were not really faults,the parents just always try to imlpy its fault even though its not,they would spank him wantonly,hes the servant at his age,i tried to advice the couple for dozensof times,but they dont even care,it almost came to a point i would call the police for maltreating him,but i think thats very serious if i will.and the consequences concomitant to my action would just make things worse.to tell you the truth,this boy is just a child of only the mother,and shes with her live-in partner now.they join forces in maltreating him.i wanted to play sentinel for the poor boy,but distance wouldnt let me to be able to look after him,i wanted to inform the real father but i think he wuldnt care

2007-03-26 20:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by leux m 1

Ok. so my parents got divorced in 2001, and i REALLY dotn like it. im not on talking terms with my dad as hes just a *****, wo dont have a true relationship, it was fake when i met him in his home with his new wife =\.. my grades went down form an all A grader to Cs and Ds and now i got a bad result in my exams. My A levels are in the end of may, and im not studying. what do i do to make myself study and be happy? im happy in front of people, but im not happy when im alone and i NEED to study! i just cant do it. what DO i do? and oh, a note; i LOVE family, im really family orientated.

2007-03-26 19:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the best thing i can give my dad?
My mum passe away 5 years ago. Am married and taking care of my dad.
How can i make him happy and make this a most memorable birthday?

2007-03-26 19:15:50 · 6 answers · asked by VRT 1

Shes mid 60. Unmarried. No friends. Hates everyone. Says flowers are a waste cause they die. No clothes I have ever bought her does she like, even if she picked them and I bought them later. Also we live in different states.

2007-03-26 18:28:31 · 13 answers · asked by boppymoommy 2

child has lived with grandparents all his life he is 10 mother has been gone since she handed him over and the grandparents dont want the father around because they lie to the child that his father is no good and denied support from the father but wont get full custody of the child because they want to right him off on taxes and get government help.how do you get them to get custody because they will never give the child back and will never let the father spend time with him what do you do

2007-03-26 18:18:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My children think that I am searching for attention or thinking of killing myself when I attempt to talk to them about my death. I did go through deep depression a few years ago but meds took control of chemical problems. I only want to talk to them about the arrangements but they get angry. How do I talk with them about this issue?

2007-03-26 18:14:40 · 4 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6

Would you want your mother to name your sibling the same name as you?

2007-03-26 18:10:01 · 7 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6

My mother wants to be cremated when she dies (she's not dying *now* btw) but I don't like the thought. I believe keeping the body in a coffin is much more respectful to the person's life. She's set on this decision though, so how can I learn to handle it?

2007-03-26 18:05:30 · 19 answers · asked by Jen 1

Is't really important to work at this age...i meant around 16.I am teaching a student and i'm not sure wheather it is alright or a thing to brag about

2007-03-26 18:00:03 · 8 answers · asked by Frendlygal 3

2007-03-26 17:59:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've thought of suicide for a while now..(but I don't think I'm suicidal but if I found something that was quick and painless I would do it!!)

I lied to my mom. I was trying to hang out with a friend who I haven't see for a while after volunteering at this thing. It didn't happen though I figured I wouldn't go!

Then one of the grownups called my parents telling what I was trying to do. Now I'm grounded for life. Just as I though it couldn't get worse my dad made a work schedule. Making me wake up at seven and everyother day at six so I can work out with his squadron (hes military). I get straight A's but it's no longer worth it...so screw that. Even if I'm not suicidal what if I had tried to do it you think it would get them off my back. They even took away my myspace! And my dad been checking everything I've been doing like who I've been calling.

What should I do. I have a step dad who is kind of a looser and I'm thinking of moving there... what should I do???? :[

2007-03-26 17:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by jeremy_rrush_ 2

my dauter who is 12 needs to sleep with me once i did not want her to so i locked the door she got mad at me the next day and her 3 year old sister does it too how do i make her stop she nos about sex and all

2007-03-26 17:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by angela f 1

I am an Indian National working in singapore for the past 13 years as civil engineer. I left india just to settle family loans and get sisters to get married and lessen all my parents burdens. At this moment I have got eneough but I loss my true love from parents & sisters. They Just dumped me and my own family just because I stop sending them money ( As I have fullfill all their neccessity including employ house maid to look after them) for their luxuary life. I have given up all my indian property as well newly built 2-storey house to my parents as they only love money. Now i feel like an orphan even though i have eneough to support my own family. I just try to forget all and always end up with alchocol by keep thinking of those things. What I would like to hear from you all is that , How could the parents just look at the money and do not feel the pain of making money in foreign country and just ignore son who really bring them all wealth?

2007-03-26 17:30:15 · 15 answers · asked by mshdsh 2

im IMing her right now, and she might have 2 go 2 the hospital, wut do i do? im so scared 4 her, and i dont wanna loose one of my best friends. i love her like a sister, what do i do, and say 2 her 2 comfort her??

2007-03-26 17:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i called my cousin's house today to see if i left my backpack there and my little cousin answered it. she's seven years old. so i was talking to her i asked if i could talk to her mom. she told me that no one was with her. that her mom left that she will be right back. she was lefted at home from 3:45 to 7:00pm. she didn't have anything to eat. now what i'm worried about is if this happens a lot. what should i do i asked my friends and they said "it's not my sister so don't worry about it" what should i do?

2007-03-26 17:02:19 · 5 answers · asked by cat 1

what age would you like to see them at and why?

2007-03-26 16:49:01 · 24 answers · asked by bananapuddingwithcoolwhip 2

my dad locked himself in the guest bedroom for 4 months and would only come out for work. one day my parents and i were going to the mall and he yelled at some kids for blocking our driveway. right then he started acting strange and a month later he went to the guest bedroom. now he went to his moms and plans to divorce. he's left home already 2 years ago and came crying back. my mom and i believe he's going through a midlife crisis, because he is 43 and he told me he just wants to enjoy life to the fullest which to me sounds like a crisis! what do you all think?

2007-03-26 16:47:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i snuck out today to hang out w/ friends at starbucks near my house...i got caught and i ruined all the trust i had w/ my mom

:( i regret it SO much...but now i really want to earn back the trust we had...what is the best thing to do?

2007-03-26 16:47:33 · 13 answers · asked by Kayla G 2

i KNO ITS ALOT BUT HELP
i dont kno what to do everythin is just gettin pushed on me
when i was in 6th grade i almost commited suicide cuz no 1 was really my friend i was like a loner..i was the fat gurl & my parents dident understand & where always arguin & blamin shyt on me & tell me stuff & not takin it bak like my mom mostly.

then in JR. High everythin startin gettin really good & had friends that i could trust & where always there for me & lost ALOT of wieght..& my parents where still mean & arguin..but i just dealed wit it

well last summer my parents told me some thins bout my life that i didnt kno & really hurt me & effected me

my frnds started to believe what other people told them & likes stuff that i was sayin bout them but it wasent true..kno i dont kno who to trust or who REALLY is my true friends..my parents argue alot mor!! & say stuff that hurts mor mostly my mom (its like almost emotion abuse but they never hit me).im gettin alil bigger, JUST ALIL BUT I HATE

2007-03-26 16:43:46 · 13 answers · asked by .:CHULA:. 2

I have this friend we will call John. He has a brother we will call Billy. John is in his mid-20s & Billy is 18. John lives by himself and Billy lives at home with his parents & 5 of his younger brothers & sisters in the suburbs. Billy made some friends & started getting into some trouble selling "substances". The substances were being purchased on a regular basis from a seller, but have since then stopped. Not only did Billy go to the seller, but so did some of his acquaintances. One of Billy's acquaintances still visits the seller for purchases. Billy's acquaintance knows where Billy and his parents live. The last purchase made by Billy about 3 months ago was for $400, only $100 of which was put down as down payment, so $300 is still owed. The following month after the purchase, not only did the seller contact Billy asking for the money, but so did the seller's seller. However, there has been no word for the last two months. If Billy told John about this, should John tell his family?

2007-03-26 16:43:23 · 8 answers · asked by HoofHearted 3

well my bro. has a girl friend and she always calls him...and its allways when meh and my bro. are having alot of fun together (4 like the 1st time) and he acts like im not even there like he jsut has his girl and thats it...is there anyway to tell him that i rly just wanna spend some good time with him? or just for him to tell his girlfrind that he is playing with his lil sis? what do i do please HELP!

2007-03-26 16:38:17 · 4 answers · asked by Emms 2

They were fingering each other...they said that they were playing truth or dare and I believe them,but how do I tell thier parents.Or should I even tell their parents?PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!

2007-03-26 16:34:04 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father has been in prison for 12 years, since I was 12. I havent been in contact with him for many years, for various reasons. I have come to a point where I need to decide if I should be in contact or continue my life without him. Does any one know of an online support group or chat that can help me through this tough time, or does any one have some advice that has been in this situatin before? Any help is greatly appreciated!

2007-03-26 16:26:58 · 3 answers · asked by ngbb19 1

My brother used to be very gentle, and he never hurt anything. But, when we moved out to the country, he started to become very violent. He used to hurt my sister and I, but our father forced him to stop that. So, he found an alternative to help vent his anger; our dogs.

I tried to speak to our parents about this, but our father simply wrote it off as him starting puberty. But, soon after he told me this, when our parents were out, my brother accidentally kicked a small dog too hard and killed it. He asked me to help him bury it and begged me to not say anything. I was angry, but my brother was and is very dear to me, so I agreed.

But, I could not stand the pressure. My sister was distraught, and every night I would hear her calling out the dog’s name, and she would always ask me if I had seen it. It was unbearable. So I finally admitted to my mother what had happened.

2007-03-26 16:20:41 · 8 answers · asked by Athena Lynn. 2

if the parents say no the father doesnt have to pay, and were not getting government aid like medicare,medicaid do u still have to pay child support? how wouldnt you have to pay child support?

2007-03-26 15:44:08 · 15 answers · asked by mjorden2342 2

my dad hardly helped my mom buy food and clothes for us. he had the money just hid it. hes into drugs never calls. should i try a relationship with him? i wonder what is going to happen when he needs assistance as he gets older. if he lives that long. my brain says let him rot. my heart wants to do otherwise. i am 27 now, married ( nope he wasnt there..he was invited) not sure what to do.

2007-03-26 15:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by Ryan M 1

After school, walked into the house and went to dad's bed room and caught him scuring with our nabor Mrs. Johnson. Dad, promised me not to tell mom. See, dad is not working bc he recently got injured.. so mom has been wurking pt. time. I did not wont to dissapoint dad, but I accidently told Unkle Larry, and now he makes me wash his back again. If i dun't he'll tell dad, and i'll get in trouble. What would you do?

2007-03-26 15:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by buster b 1