After school, walked into the house and went to dad's bed room and caught him scuring with our nabor Mrs. Johnson. Dad, promised me not to tell mom. See, dad is not working bc he recently got injured.. so mom has been wurking pt. time. I did not wont to dissapoint dad, but I accidently told Unkle Larry, and now he makes me wash his back again. If i dun't he'll tell dad, and i'll get in trouble. What would you do?
2007-03-26 15:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by buster b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you're mom definately deserves to know. As hard as it is to do that to your father, and as much as it will hurt your mother, she deserves to know the truth. You can't have a successful relationship without truth, and if your mate whom you thought was committed to you was cheating, wouldn't you want to know? It is probably one of the most difficult decisions you will ever have to make, but my honest advice is to tell your mom. Just have her say that she's suspected it for a while, and not drag you into it.
2007-03-26 15:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Manda * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sounds like some pickle you're in. But the thing is, you have leverage too. You can easily blackmail your dad into not punishing you, but that isnt the way to go.
What i advise to you is to get your dad to fess up. Warn that if he doesnt spill mom the beans, you will, which is certainly more troublesome for the whole family. It does carry the risk of the breakup of your family, but if your dad is sincere in his apologies, you family can remain together. If not, then it sounds like your parents dont belong together.
If the news is spilled to your mom, both you and your dad should try to calm her down as soon as possible. Dont let her explode, but dont make it seem like the situation isnt important. Have your dad write an apology before-hand and see how it works out.
It wouldnt hurt if you got the neighbor to apologize as well.
Here's hoping for the best!
2007-03-26 22:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by muh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing i have to say is what kind of freak is your uncle Larry GOSH! And also i would just tell ur Dad it slippe out and tell him you dont think you can keep a secret like that and if you loved mom you wouldnt do that and then tell him you would have to tell ur dad and then dont wash uncle Larrys back anymore after that. And what kind of family do you live in?
2007-03-26 22:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by iLoVe HoRsEs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to break this cycle. Tell your mom and then tell her about your uncle larry. Otherwise, youll never be free of being blackmailed and/or abused.
2007-03-26 22:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just 1 question: You do love your mother right?! I know you don't want your parents to fight, but it's WRONG for him to be doing that! Even the Bible says so! Your mom REALLY needs to find out. So tell her. She needs to know. No person deserves it.
2007-03-26 22:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by savcav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who loves u more, mom or dad? who deserves to know the truth and who made the mistake? dont ask other people, think 4 urself, ask urself questions.
2007-03-26 22:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your dad the truth!
2007-03-27 14:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Beth D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw uncle larry- tel him youll tell your mom and dad that hes making u wash his back.
2007-03-26 23:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you thing about your mom for a minute? how is she supposed to feel? dont you think she is getting the sense that something is wrong and is going on?!
2007-03-26 22:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Iryna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋