Family - March 2007

Ok well my mom is an alcoholic and we have been taken from her home. I believe this has happened before. Right now they have a yr. placement thing 4 me and my sis w/ this foster care lady.. My sis is 16 my bro is 17 and i am 12. We are very easy to care for kids and we know how to cook and such. What are the chances I will move back home if my mom goes to AA meetings and does anything else they require?

2007-03-01 14:13:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-01 14:09:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, just to give ya'll some background, my parents divorced when I was 5 years old, and my biological father (I have a tendency to call him a sperm donor at times) skipped town when I was 13. I've seen him one time since then, at a family reunion, and that was about 3 years ago. After he skipped town, there was no phone call, no christmas or birthday cards for either me OR my brother. One day out of the blue he calls, and I give him my email address. He sends the usual...jokes and stuff. He OCCASIONALLY (about once every 3 months) sends an email that we should get together, he wants to be a part of my life blah blah blah.... Well, my birthday was yesterday, and I didn't even get an ECard from him. The only thing I got from him was one of those jokes, and that was sent today. I still consider him just a "sperm donor" and he can't understand why I don't want anything to do with him.

2007-03-01 13:54:31 · 1 answers · asked by Cheyenne 5

dont judge me, we dated before our parents met and we -almost- did, is it wrong if i still feel that way?

2007-03-01 13:45:14 · 33 answers · asked by kaleb t 1

about a month ago i ask my brother what he thought about the way i was treating my "kid" and he told me i was a great "mother" well his girlfriend said that he told her something completely different y would he lie to his sister?

2007-03-01 13:39:43 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah*Jade 1

my friend whos 16 has 5 older brothers and 3 younger sisters oldest brother whos 22 is allowed to ground him because there dad got sent to jail for beating my friend and his mom is in the hospital with cancer there familys been through alot losing there 4 year old sister to a heart defect . The brothers are really close and the oldest brothers a great guy but since my friends been through so much hes beging to cause trouble at home. Do you think its right for a sibling to punish a sibling?

2007-03-01 13:38:04 · 4 answers · asked by liamsixxy 1

eyes/hair

2007-03-01 13:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by hannah1 2

I have two sons. They are less than two years apart in age. The older one is 14 and 5'0" tall, rather short for his age. The younger one just turned 13 and he's 5'7". My older son has been depressed about this for awhile. He is not growing as fast as his peers. All of his friends are bigger than him even the girls. What bothers him even more is that now his younger brother is considerably taller than him and heavier and stronger and he is in the middle of a growth spurt. Occasionally they get into fights and my younger son can hurt my older one. What could I do to comfort my older son? Right now I'm trying to talk to both of them individually, especially my younger son. I'm reminding him that due to his size he shouldn't pick on his older brother because he could hurt him as he already has. Any other ideas?

2007-03-01 13:28:31 · 4 answers · asked by pauley 1

ok i know why, but doesnt it sound a little irresponsible to say oh my babys daddy doesnt even pay child support, or any attention to the baby. im not a pro marriage, but shouldnt there be something a little nicer than babys daddy? whats gonna happen when the kid grows up?

2007-03-01 13:22:27 · 2 answers · asked by its not gay if... 2

When we are born, I think we get half of our genes from our mom and half from our dad. Since only female can reproduce, how do we obtain our dad's genes? I am really curious about the answer to this question, so tell me no matter how disgusting it may be.

2007-03-01 13:21:24 · 4 answers · asked by hellomynameisrickb 2

My brother is only 14 years old. He has two best friends which I consider a really bad influence for him. They run away from home when they argued with their parents, ditched school, fight. Recently, my brother steals my parent's money, go to girls house at night, lies, and gambling (on school basketball games). He swears at my parents. What are some ways we can solve these problems. I think the main reason is his friends. What do you guys think?

2007-03-01 13:15:40 · 3 answers · asked by Mochi 3

My MIL comes over and we had some medications on the counter. She looked at them and then WROTE down the persecription. When my husband confronted her, she made pretend she wasnt doing anything. We usually keep all meds in the cabinet, but I KNOW she looks at them, I was thinking I could change the labels and write something like "backoffcyline" and when she looks at it online, she will see it is phony...Do I confront her or just keep hiding all the meds??

2007-03-01 13:13:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my mom went back to college and ever since she has been acting weird and she stoped going to church. well my dad went to rehab about 3 days ago and cleaned himself up from painkillers. and here my mom is now decided to run off everyday and blow him off even though he does everyting for her. my dad is a great dad and she told him he is the worst dad. just now my dad went over my moms sisters house my aunt to stay there for a while cause he is so confused and is hurting inside. and cried with me for about 1 hr think about wat to do. so my mom is now trying to win my approval but i love my dad dealy. wat should i do i love both of my parents the same and it kills me to see them like this plz help how should i act with them and what might happen next so i now ahead of time thank u all who answer i will pray for everyone of u

2007-03-01 12:58:17 · 10 answers · asked by Jacob 1

He always ask me are you ok
your mad right
should I tell him to stop or what

2007-03-01 12:53:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have three little girls, they are wonerful! But I am a little anxious... I think that girls that have good relationships with their mothers turn out good, but girls with good relationships with their fathers as well turn out great, tell me what your dad did to help you become a great woman

2007-03-01 12:51:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a stay at home mother of two. I met my husband when I was sixteen. In only four years I married had two children, two miscarriages (I was using protection with all four pregnancies) Dropped out of highschool and became a home maker. I am twenty two now and I stay home with my two children. My husband work two jobs. Recently he stummbled upon some of my old paintings and told me how much he liked them. He started encouraging me to start painting again. I did and my work is more incredable than ever! Every piece I do is better than the last. My husband is thrilled. My family however just kind of laughed at me. They told me that I was just a highschool drop out housewife with no talent and that anyone that I showed my work to would only laugh me out of their gallery. That made me think. Would my not so terrific history trample any chance I have of being really seen, and taken seriously? Are they telling me the truth or am I just kidding myself?

2007-03-01 12:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by MrsLuzius 2

I am sixteen, and my parents are divorced. I was wondering what sort of rigthts i would have when it comes to wanting to live one parent over the other. If it helps, ive recently been suffering from panic attacks because of the way my father treats me. He dosent physically abuse me, just puts me under unbearable amounts of stress.
Any help would be much appreciated
Thank you

2007-03-01 12:35:59 · 5 answers · asked by italia456 2

okay i have a friend and me and her are suppose to go shopping this weekend and she wants to ask her step dad for money because she is broke but every time she gets ready to ask she feels bad about doing it because they just built a new house, so what a nice unselfish way to ask?

2007-03-01 12:29:36 · 13 answers · asked by egefting 1

omg so like 15 min ago my mom came up to me and was like dont talk to bernie anymore, her bf, and i was ok why. she said the reason i can ttalk to him anymore is cause i have too much attitude to people when i talk. its not my fault her bf cant handle kids. she said she donst want another bf breaking up wit her cause they cant handle me and my brothers. she said i was the whole reason she broke up wit john last time. it is even rite for her to blame all her stupid relationship problems on me. i bet she dosnt even kno wat her dating diffrent people all the time has effect on me.

2007-03-01 12:26:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want my mom to find it. And i have to wait til my big sister comes, so she can take it.

2007-03-01 12:21:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother and stepmother have both died within the past couple of years and it's difficult for everyone in the family, including my children, ages 9 and 10. My sweetheart son, is have an esceptionally difficult time. Do any of you have a suggestions of how to handle this??? Or maybe a place where women who have no grandchildren go... I hope this doesn't come off strange!

2007-03-01 12:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by Aunt Andy 2

I have a serious issue. When I married my husband his little sister was the sweetest thing I'd ever known. Not so anymore. In the last few years she has completely lost it.
A few examples. She only graduated from high school because she litteraly slept with one of her teachers. She moved from a nice house in a good neighborhood into the white trash riviera. She started doing drugs and sleeping with any and every man she could. She also loves to brag that she has never used protection! She has only been getting worse. We let her stay with us for a month, in an attempt to help her get back on her feet. Instead she stole my credit card and my 18 month old found her drug stash. We obviously asked her to leave and like I said she's only getting worse. My husband wants to call the police and report her drug use, hoping it might scare her into turning a new leaf. I'm not so sure. I want to help her, she has completely tore her family apart. Any suggestions.

2007-03-01 12:07:38 · 8 answers · asked by MrsLuzius 2

what do you do? Tell them? I did. Punish them? did that too. My heart hurts over the things she says to me. How do you handle it?

2007-03-01 12:07:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-01 12:05:54 · 3 answers · asked by Kathy C 1

I am 18 years old and I am currently living with my parents but it's not going so well. I am a full time student and I also work around 40 hours a week. A friend/coworker told me that she is looking for a roommate and she would only charge me $200 a month. I just don't know how to tell my parents that I want to move out withough them blowing up and blowing everything out of proportion. I know that I would be able to make it because I have money that I have saved up and I work enough to be able to afford this. My parents will just never listen to me that I want to move out and that living at home just isn't working.

2007-03-01 11:53:17 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley H 1

me and my sister had a fight and it was getting very heated and when i get mad i will fire back with the 4 letter words and with it being on the phone and not in front of anyone i let it rip and the mader she made me the worse i got and its not like she innocent but , if you piss me off and if i know im right than im sorry your going to hear it!
But. calling me white trash only lead me to finally hanging up on her and telling her to never call my house again !!
i have looked up many meaning of white trash and talking like white trash (as she wants to tell everyone ) that doesnt make this any better and i really feel she always trying to find a way of making herself feel good and looking down on others! It made feel terrible inside and dirty and im sure that s what she wanted but me being the hard ball i told her to go **** herself !!!!!! im sure she heard many of times with her stuck up attitude ! Am i white trash for this ? I know it should of been handled differently !

2007-03-01 11:46:44 · 1 answers · asked by rocko 1

No one's hear to help me with this, but then again thats my fault. My ex and I have stopped speaking to eachother. And he knows whats going on with me, but he continues to ignore it.

I don't want to give my baby to a stranger because this baby is apart of me, and I just can't give it away that easily. But then I don't want to give up the things I want to do because of a mistake I made. I would like to live my life like a normal teenager and be able to finsih school.

I'm so fed up with my ex boyfriend, he just continues to be a jerk about all of this and doesn't even try helping me with something he HELPED started. He just goes on with his life like its nothing important. He hasn't told his family and he already has a new girlfriend. I don't even know if I should try speaking to him after everything he has put me through, and believe me its been alot..

2007-03-01 11:46:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother's ex-fiance just decided that he cannot see his son until the courts make her let him. She has not gone to friend of the court and now she is going to take het sweet time doing it. She decided this after he got into an arguement with her mother. My brother and his ex-fiance just recently split, he was there with her through everything and because they cannot salvage a relationship that was broken from the beginning she will not let him see his son. The child is almost 4 months old and he is named after my brother. He went to friend of the court and basically they told him to just get a lawyer this was even before she said he could no longer see his son. She would not need a lawyer if she wanted to go through friend of the court. Is there anything that he can do in this situation? We can't afford a lawyer. not at the moment anyway. He's trying to get a car because she took the one they had together even though she has another car. We are stuck and in pain over her crazyness.

2007-03-01 11:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by Twyst_02 1

2007-03-01 11:36:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14, & many kids would disagree with me, but I think that a parent has everyright 2 check Kids e-mail! That is just my oppenion, What do U think

2007-03-01 11:32:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous