My brother's ex-fiance just decided that he cannot see his son until the courts make her let him. She has not gone to friend of the court and now she is going to take het sweet time doing it. She decided this after he got into an arguement with her mother. My brother and his ex-fiance just recently split, he was there with her through everything and because they cannot salvage a relationship that was broken from the beginning she will not let him see his son. The child is almost 4 months old and he is named after my brother. He went to friend of the court and basically they told him to just get a lawyer this was even before she said he could no longer see his son. She would not need a lawyer if she wanted to go through friend of the court. Is there anything that he can do in this situation? We can't afford a lawyer. not at the moment anyway. He's trying to get a car because she took the one they had together even though she has another car. We are stuck and in pain over her crazyness.
2007-03-01 11:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by Twyst_02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would not put to much into it so far she is going to have to prove him unfit. If she cannot do that and he pays child support she will have to be able to let him see the child.
2007-03-01 11:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a fathers association where you live they will help. and he doesn't have to pay support just to see his kid. i mean he should of course but even if he didn't or owed a lot then does not impend on his rights to see his son. its the law unless his right have been taken away or an order has been put into place he could even just take the baby and there isn't a thing she could do about it. of course that could make him look bad but it make her look bad too if shes using the baby. tell him to always be calm when he talks to her and record what she says. he should do everything he can to make himself look good and responsible, this will make her look foolish in any courts eyes and play in his favor.
2007-03-01 19:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by sharebear80817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to get a job, keep it, and look like a productive member of society, he can get a used car with small payments, he needs to present himself as a clean cut young man, sensible and start attending church, [and be sincere about church] I think he should not go to a lawyer until he gets his act together, then find a reputable one, he needs to 'arm himself' in every possible way before he goes 'into battle' in court, he needs to be patient also, the infant is only 4 mos. and isn't being brainwahed against him, so don't fret-
the better he looks to the court the more foolish she will look.
2007-03-01 19:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could afford a lawyer, would that be the route you would take? I might be able to help!
2007-03-04 16:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by gatorgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going through legal aide it is a free legal advice office. (They communicate with foc too)
2007-03-01 21:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kimm Heard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋