Family - February 2007

hi, i asked this question in polls and suvays a while ago...

i live with my two older brothers with my twin sistere...i llive with them because my ama and paang are both in rehab because they are both recovering meth adicts.

i like living with my brothers, most of the time, they are super cool and nice...but sometimes they are mean...they beat me and my twin with brooms, and rolling pins...i dont know what to do, i want to leave but i have no family in america...only in india and mexico...i dont know what to do...please help me...

2007-02-14 04:27:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, the only reason why I'm even asking is because he asked me what do I think he should do and we are currently fighting over the fact that I think he should stay out of it. His sister dropped out of high school and lays around the house all day while his mother works. Now her boyfriend lives with them(they are both 18) and he doesn't have a HS diploma either and they lay around the house together all day. His mother said her boyfriend could stay for a while with the intent that he would get a job soon...well, he's been staying there since late November. How hard could it be to find a job working somewhere as a mechanic or even in fast food, it's not like he should be picky about where he works with no G.E.D.? My boyfriend feels like his mother is being taken advantage of and I agree, but his mother doesn't want his sister to leave, so she is kinda willing to do anything to keep her. Should he say something or stay out of it? I love his mother and I hate to see these kids

2007-02-14 04:17:54 · 10 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1

For example this Christmas as we exhanged gifts, my son(previous marriage)was not bought for, even though they have bought for in the past. He is a teenager and they feel that he doesnt call them enough!He barely calls anyone in the family, because he is a teenager! Working, staying away from drugs and other negative forces! Then in January I had a death in my family and NOONE from that house bothered to call me, or even come to the services even though they knew the person, went to his sons wedding, went to his house! I spoke up to my husband and he had a meeting with his parents and it got twisted around to look like it was my fault I am tired of being seemed like a mean person.I am angry that they would have my son over to watch people open gifts and have none for him!! I am hurt about them not even caring enough to send a card to my sister! However they went people to care for them, and make time for them when they dont care about me and my family!

2007-02-14 04:10:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-14 04:08:19 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6

my near 90 year old neighbor stares out her window all day long and it faces my window, she even stares when I'm sleeping. On top of that my parents invited her over for dinner because they feel obligated to and she stares at me when I'm eating too. She then asked if I would like to come over to her house to shovel snow and my parents made me. After I was done working I used her bathroom and while taking a piss she cracked the door open a little to peak and I pretended not to notice. I don't want to tell the my parents because then she'll get into trouble but then again she is sort of a whack job so what should I do?

2007-02-14 04:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by call the owls 4

2007-02-14 04:05:07 · 3 answers · asked by christina c 1

2007-02-14 03:59:24 · 29 answers · asked by Emma 1

Omg i just found out that my close relative is gay it just hurt me cauze when i was smaller and he used to pick me up my friends would tell me "your brothers gay??" and i just hurt me when they asked me what should i do i really need help i mean i don't want me new friends to be calling him that or even askin those questions

what should i do i fell so ashed that i have a family member that like that.!!

2007-02-14 03:53:49 · 13 answers · asked by Shelbi B 1

His bill is about $300!!!!! that is alot of money for a mobile phone. what should i do, should I pay it?

His bills have been causing the family problems, it seems like he calls everybody to pay his cell bill. and it keeps getting higher and higher. I dont want to pay that much money (they wont let me pay less i tried) but I dont want him to think that he cannot count on me. what can i do?

2007-02-14 03:49:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

answer on the basis of social and psychological aspects!!!!
post in a sensible answer-please

2007-02-14 03:20:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Adult Protective Services help the Elderly that are being abuse, but who helps the person who is being abused by the elderly??? I know someone who is stressed out and afraid to even
go to her own home, where she has her mother living with her. Is there any kind of assistance here for this type of situations? Tnis person is really a sweet person who took her mother in to live with her after her mom was hospitalized, and insisted she didn't want to live alone. Her other daughters didn't take her, and it looks like none of her children want to take her. It appears that both mother and daughter are not happy together...

2007-02-14 03:13:55 · 4 answers · asked by Kane 4

i just hate them and i think they hate me

2007-02-14 02:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by DHEDFNDAFSDK@$#@#1874832jnfjkd21 2

wat would do if u had only u and ur nephew in ur life but ur not ready 2 take of it and ur family wont help u wit it at da same time ur having trouble wit ur relationship wat should i do!!!

2007-02-14 02:54:46 · 4 answers · asked by meko@zylonda 1

2007-02-14 02:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by bubba 4

i found out my mom and my 3 sisters when and seen my sister my mom gave away at birth without me. my family is all the time having get together and not tell me one yeah they had a fathers day dinner and they didnt tell me about it untill the next day this really started after my grandmother died. she is the one that rasied me. i have to call my family and ask about the holidays if i dont they wont tell me anything. i love my family and i love it when we all get together but i feel like they really dont think about me unless they can get something out of me being there. my sister that they went in seen knows nothing about me. should i be hurt or angry for them not calling me to see if i wanted to go meet her. i guess i have just put up this wall that it really dont bother me anymore that my family wants nothing to do with me. but it breaks my heart thay my mom has only seen my little girl a handful of times and she is 8 years old. i dont know what to do or say anymore

2007-02-14 02:50:08 · 4 answers · asked by whiteangel 2

My bro's alwaiz bullying me and embarassing me in front of my frens .He's like cursing and swearing and oftens hits me for stupid reasons.I tried talking to my parents but they dun have a solution other than asking my bro to shut up.What should I do?

2007-02-14 02:45:58 · 10 answers · asked by Lost 1

he lives in Brenham, sanAntinio Austin may have just got of jail

2007-02-14 02:45:50 · 1 answers · asked by Captain save a ..... 1

My mom wanted me to get a job and stop thinking of getting a University degree. I still went ahead and got my degree, with no help from anyone. I still live at home, and now my mom wants to cash in on the money I make now. I pay all the bills and she goes to the extreme sometimes by deliberately wasting resources. I can't take it anymore, but now I've decided to get my own place, I don't even have the deposit, cause I blew it all at home. What can I do?

2007-02-14 02:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by Crista B 1

I want to drop out of school, I really hate going to school, it's too hard, I go to college , but never did me any good, I'm not smart, even my mom and grandma, says that I'm not smart for college, I want to be a house wife, I told my boyfriend this and he said he want's me to go to school, he till want's to get married with me , and have kids, but I'm not smart to go to school. What should I do and how can I tell my dad?

2007-02-14 02:28:29 · 30 answers · asked by kitty 6

to bring back the family together agin ! no ones talking

2007-02-14 02:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by ken m 2

Mine is 'Keep your chin up and don't back down.'

2007-02-14 02:24:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm getting so sick how my family is treating me, my sister beats me and threat me if I dont clean her room and cook for her, and she a lazy a** and she wont get off her fat a** to cook or clean for herself, my mom takes drugs , when she promise she'll do something for me, she get's high , and for gets, and before I went to my aunt's house to visit her, my mom yelled at me, cause I wouldn't hind the drugs from my dad, she said she was going to take my cat away from me and put it to sleep and she did, my dad is a jerk , who cant do things for himself, I have to be the one that always cookes and cleans for everybody , I always have to make everybody happy before me, I dont mind helping out , but they dont really love me, they are always nice to me , when they want me to do something for them , I'm sick of it, everyday I wish I was dead , cause the way they treat me, The only reason I live is my cat JJ and my boyfriend. What should I do to tell my family I hate them , and how they treat.

2007-02-14 02:23:48 · 23 answers · asked by kitty 6

Got Caught with cigarettes, any suggestions, SHould I come clean or cover it up somehow? Please help.

2007-02-14 02:22:26 · 6 answers · asked by Jack K 2

i met someone when my son was 3yrs old then when i fell pregnant we thought it would make sence to put my son under my boyfriends name too hes now 16yrs old me and boyfriens at time have split up but am having probs opening bank acc for my son with surname hes been under for years because his natural fathers name is on birth certificate can anyone please tell me what i can do to make it more legal for him with the surname he has now as iv been told i cant open a bank acc under surname he uses cause his birth certificate has diffirent surname be very greatful for any help an advice please

2007-02-14 02:09:12 · 9 answers · asked by SUSANNE M 1

Her mom is a drug addict and has been to the nut house, so she is completely unpredictable and emotionally unstable. Her father was emotionally abusive to her and beat her down mentally to the point she sounded like she was gonna attempt suicide. She wants to get emancipated, but is afraid to tell anyone what is going on. She needs help badly and because she has been taught to keep her emotions pinned up inside she doesn't know how to express whats going on. she just says everything is fine and she can handle it till she graduates. Yet every time she sneaks a call to me, she weeps because she wants out of there so badly. She wanted out so badly that she ran away twice, so now I'm not allowed to see her because they think i am responsible for her running away. It sucks so badly because this is our first V-day and we cant be together, and I'm afraid of what she may be going through. Please advise, and if your a lawyer or know one personally tell me what i can/should do legally. thanks.

2007-02-14 02:01:14 · 5 answers · asked by Matt 1

my youngest son acts like he is the father of the house and shouts at the top of his voice

2007-02-14 01:55:59 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ve tried alot but it was bit tough for me to continue coz my home is far from da college, after coming from dere i was not able to work at home and if i worked den not able to complete my homework at all ,now i've left da course but still willing to study im 21. pls tell me about different courses which i can do and make my career and tell me how to cope wid da family conditions....its urgent....

2007-02-14 01:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by nidhipa_2001 1

They can really make my blood boil. But then i would lose a babysitter!

2007-02-14 01:39:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are and also with the kids. work was cancelled (oh yeah) and so was school. but today is our 1st anniversary and our plans are ruined. what can we do in the house?

2007-02-14 01:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by Moniluv 2

My Dad just passed away ,do I buy her a gift from him ? are will this make her sad .I dont know what to do .

2007-02-14 01:21:36 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2