i just hate them and i think they hate me
2007-02-14 02:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by DHEDFNDAFSDK@$#@#1874832jnfjkd21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
1)They treat me like sh*t
2)They think just because I'm the youngest i don't matter
3)Whenever i talk to them about something they make fun of me
4)Whenever i make a mistake(on anything)or forget about something they put me through HELL
2007-02-14 03:09:39 · update #1
It all depends. Are you 12-17? Then some of this is your hormones, swinging you between independence and security. But I know some people just suck. They don't know how to be decent human beings, but unfortunately that doesn't stop them from breeding. Find ways to get encouragement from other people; make sure you don't stoop to their level and treat them the same way; remind yourself that this is not forever. When you graduate you can leave and never come back.
2007-02-21 15:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Robin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to "the Youngest in the family" club.We all get treated that way. Good grief even up into adult life... Unless your family is just evil and abusive, its just the pecking order of the family unit.
But if they are there for you when things get bad,be grateful you have a family that cares!
Confidence comes from within oneself as the result of some type of success. Focus on what you are good at , not what they think of you.Sometimes they think that belittling you "makes you tougher".
Sometimes our siblings are real pains in the butt, but we belong to them like it or not!
2007-02-21 07:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by iwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in school, just put up with them until you are finished. Then move on, get your own life and if they want to be around you they will treat you like you are someone. Also I don't know the whole situation, but it works both ways. If you want them to treat you fair, you have to be fair also.
2007-02-22 00:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they do.
I am a strong believer in "you do = you get"
And you are a great example.
because you're saying
I just hate them - (and I think ) they hate me!
see it works every time!
now you know what to do about it. The decision is always yours
2007-02-21 11:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by analee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look like an adult. ehen people grow up they should worry about their own lives and not get caught up in family politics.trust me Icome from a family a 8 kids (all grown) so if you really hate them it souldnt matter. although things will get better
2007-02-22 01:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by AMBER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly we don,t get to choose our parents,theres really not much u can do.perhaps they were treated just they way they treat u which sucks.family counseling is problately needed.
2007-02-21 05:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. You didn't give enough info. Did they do something to make you hate them?
2007-02-14 03:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop hanging out with them, i find that when you spend to much time with family they either
1. look you over
2.take advantage of you
3.complain about you
time to stretch your wings. they dont hate you, trust me
2007-02-14 03:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, even I hate your family... I mean my family
Seriously though, you know the old saying "you can choose your friends" ?
"but you can't choose your family"
2007-02-14 03:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Nicnac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would go to the school councelor and talk to him and get things going if its that bad he can have you put in foster care and if its that bad you maybe better off.
2007-02-18 13:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋