to bring back the family together agin ! no ones talking
2007-02-14 02:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by ken m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is a sad fact that when their is a death people say they will stay in touch.You may have to take the first step in bringing your family together.You could plan a family picnic or pot luck supper and extend your invitation to all those you would like to be there.Realistically, some will come and others will not.You must be satisfied that you have extended a sincere invitation to those you care about and must further accept you can not force people to come.I have experienced this recently on 2 occassions and some family were purposely excluded.I tried to encourage the family member to at least extend the invitation to all .Hopefully your brothers and sisters willbe smart enough to know the clock is ticking and the time to share joy and sadness, success and setbacks ,create memories and share memories is TODAY with the LIVING.People claim their lives are too busy to find time to spend with family.Slow down and set some priorities.These busy people find time to attend a funeral,find time for the living.
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2016-12-17 16:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to call everyone.....maybe you could make it a surprise and say I have to show you my new____?? Or I have to tell you something in person..... tell everyone that, tell them when they should come...have things ready and walah! Everyone shows up...and that is the first step to saving holidays, etc.... You must take the first step if noone else will! I'm afraid I will have to do that when my grandmother dies... i think they will just fall apart! But...seriously try something like I said...then when everyone gets together and is eating or whatever.,,,, say something like, this is what i miss...we have to do this more often! Hopefully it works!
Good Luck to you & Hope this helped a bit!
2007-02-14 02:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't attempt to see or talk to them during the holidays and birthdays only. Offer to host a get together at your place, invite everyone. Tell them you miss them and want them to be in your life. Let them know your door is always open to them. How they handle that is entirely up to them.
2007-02-14 03:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your Brothers and Sisters by birth doesn't mean that you would even Like each other. They didn't come around to see each other, they came to see your Mom and Dad. So forget about it ever being the same as before, That's just not going to happen. So get over it and enjoy what you have...
2007-02-14 02:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the first step and invite them all for a gathering at your house or at a restuarant and talk to all of them explain that all of you are family and you are all that is left and you want a family relationship..Good Luck to you..Speak from your heart..
2007-02-14 02:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them all invitations to celebrate at your house. Someone has to try, maybe everyone is waiting for someone to. Good luck
2007-02-14 02:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
invite them all over to your house for a get together.
2007-02-14 02:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Foget it. If they do talk, that's good, if not, let it be.
2007-02-14 19:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋