Family - February 2007

Me and my sister are trying to figure out something either at home or really cheap to do tonight with our dad so we can have some quality time what should we do? ?

2007-02-18 14:07:46 · 6 answers · asked by lo town 2

Ok... well I applied for a beauty school that I really want to go to, its close to home, but still far enough away. Well ever since my brother went off the the Navy my mom has been really protective over me, so since i got accepted to this school we keep getting into arguements about me moving.. its too far to drive every morning.. she doesn't want me to move.. but she doesnt want me to drive that far.. its 75 minutes away.. and it would be at 6 in the morning and id have to drive back at 7 at night.. and go to work.. Can someone help and give me advice on what I should do or tell her??

2007-02-18 14:07:41 · 12 answers · asked by BeAuTyScHoOlSaVeDmYlIfE 1

We live in the suburbs all they do is work and watch TV I came back about 2 months ago. I applied for a couple of jobs but haven't heard anything back(I might not knowing this place) My family has lived in this city for about 12 years and they have no friends. Crazy huh? they never go out unless it's to the grocery store ,or to eat out. I really can't go out because I don't have a car,and since I just moved back here it's hard to met people. Sometimes I just want to scream at them go get some friends!! Let's go find some people to hang out with!! Let's go do something!! but I know they would look at me like I was crazy. And would not even think about stopping what they were doing. Any suggestions?

2007-02-18 13:44:24 · 4 answers · asked by form-one 2

i have a really psycho aunty that keeps coming to my house and abusing the hell out of my family weve even been to the police to get a restraining order out on her but my nan dropped it i have thought about getting one myself.does anybody else have the same troubles?

2007-02-18 13:42:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have two children one 3 and one on the way.i have noone to help me. I am about to lose my place cause my mom was staying there to help pay rent while i get state assistant and she dont want to work. I have received other state help and i am out of options. my daughters father is better off than me and my unborns father is in a different state. should i leave my daughter with her father and go to the other state to get on my feet? will my daughter hate me or think that i chose her brother over her? i am so depressed i just want the best for my kids! please help

2007-02-18 13:33:09 · 2 answers · asked by chalklati1 1

Tommorow we have no school and me and my friend are left to babysit my lil sister wat shouldI do to make us leave us allone. I try to be nice and tell her t please leave us allone but she just wont.

HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-18 13:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son is 16month I have always been the careprovider. we have not lived in the home since sept and the divorce is final march 20th. my ex travels alot for his job and has no residence or car.he has not seen him in about 5weeks. emails only asking to see me, then my son if I wont repond to his emails, threatening to sue for custody ect. I have legal and physical custody the court paper says only visitation as per between parties. how much to do I need to let hin visit legally. my ex was verbally abusive and manipulative and I have just recently been able to break away from allof it. he has said before if he couldnt have me that, he would sign away his rights, then another day he wil say hes suing for custody(he never even showed up for court through all the custody and divorce) never reponded to any of the papers served on him.

2007-02-18 13:21:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was not ready to be a dad and had a lot of problems at the time i have a 2mnth old daughter who i see but i don`t see my elder daughter. I want her to accept me and have no idea what to say i mainly want advice as i feel it is important for children to have contact with both parents the mum has made this situation very awkward

2007-02-18 13:14:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have moved out once but it only lasted 3 months, I just don't know whats stoppin me.

2007-02-18 13:08:09 · 30 answers · asked by burd p 2

If you are (or know someone) who's born on the date of February 29th, when do you celebrate your birthday?

2007-02-18 13:06:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have not seen my sister since she was 6 months old and she is now 28 years old. We are both from Newcastle in NSW, Australia

2007-02-18 13:04:08 · 3 answers · asked by debtod66 1

2007-02-18 12:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive just had a falling out with my dad and my mam took his side even though he was in the wrong what should i do should i go to them or wait for them to come to me were a really close family and it wasnt my fault my dad said it was his fault

2007-02-18 12:34:51 · 15 answers · asked by smiley 4

2007-02-18 12:26:34 · 8 answers · asked by lnt_pita 2

are they looking for someone in my area?!

2007-02-18 12:19:55 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley 1

2007-02-18 12:18:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad went away to Florida and I guess my mom and him were talking on the phone and decided to brake up. When my mom told me it sort of felt like I was dreaming but I wasn't. NOw my mom is going out with my neighbor and it is really starting to get me going. And since my dad is gone I have to do a lot around the house my brother too but he hasn't helped much. Now I get mad and scream at him and what ever else makes me mad. Sometimes I get so mad I feel like I'm gonna cry. I'm 13 and I think it is really starting to make myself feel more like a man but I really just want a nice happy life but I feel when my dad returns everything is going to get worse can you help me please!

2007-02-18 11:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that people who have been molested, and never healed from it, seem really happy and like they have no problems? Are they just pretending?

2007-02-18 11:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by *What Goes Around Comes Around 1

This is a long one and yes it really happened. I am now 21 and live in a dorm at New York University, but when I was 17 something happened that I can't forget. First let me fill you in on the details. When my parents got married they lived in my dad's condo here in NYC, but my mom was a country girl and when her parent's died she wanted to move into their house in the country in upstate New York. It is a beautiful Victorian house in the woods about 5 miles from anyone, and it's gothic. My grandparents loved this house and mom wanted to keep it. So they moved into the house and had 3 kids, one is me of course. Nothing real strange about the house started happening until I was about 17, and only that one time...so far. I was in my bedroom and my parent's had gone out for their anniversary. My little brother wasn't home because he was staying with his best friend, Todd. They had a test to study for and thought they would go to school together the next day. It was just me and my sister, Julianna, at home. It was about 9p.m. Not late, but it was dark. To beat it all it started raining and lightning and the lights started blinking. So Julianna ran to my room and said that she wanted to stay with me. She was pretty young then. I told her it would be okay so I lit some candles and turned the blinking lights off. She calmed down and she helped me study for a music test that I was going to have the next day at school. Then after she had calmed down completely I took her to bed-around 9:45. It was still raining hard. So I kept studying and after I got finished with the music book I decided to try some pieces that my music teacher told us to study. It was very boring, so I started improvising and I made the piano vibrate cause I sometimes get roused up in the music. Then I heard my glass of apple cider fall. I thought that it fell because of the piano's vibrating, but it was on my nightstand on the other side of the room. I brushed it off. But I had to take the broken glass downstairs to the kitchen garbage. On my way upstairs I saw my sister had gotten out of bed and was in the family room coped by the fire. She knew not to light the fire by herself, but she told me that she didn't light it, but I knew that we were the only ones in the house. I thought that she was lying, but I said nothing and went back upstairs. Then on my piano stand that holds music I seen the Turkish March by Mozart, I knew it wasn't mine. So I went downstairs and asked Julianna and she said it wasn't hers-I thought she was lying. So I put the fire out and told her to go to bed. She said okay and as she went up the stairs, I went in the kitchen to get some water. Then as I went upstairs again I saw that the music had been taken. When my parents got home I told them about it and mom said that the Turkish March was her dad's, my grandfather's, favorite piece. She thought I was playing a trick on her of course. Then as I was going to my bedroom I looked at our family picture. My grandfather was in it holding a piece of music, I never noticed it before because it was so small. I looked real close and seen the music he was holding was by Mozart. I thought "Oh Brother!" I was kindly scared, but not hysterical. I didn't sleep that much that night. The next day in school I sat near an open window in music class because I was hot- I get hot easily. Before the test the teacher said we could take a few minutes to look over the text. The wind blew and turned my books pages to the chapter about Mozart. Then a few seconds later it turned it to the one about Haydn(a classical composer). The thing about Haydn is that his first name was Joseph, and Joseph was my grandfather's first name. It made me wonder. I kept it to myself, who would have believed it?! So was it a coincidence? Was it just the wind? Was it my sister playing a trick on me? Was the spirit of a dead musician? Was it the spirit of my grandfather? Then, a few days later or so, I remembered that Julianna told me that she didn't turn the fire on the other night when it happened. I asked her who did it, and she said that that never happened that she never went to the family room and that she never left her bedroom after I tucked her in. To this day, I don't like to listen to Mozart that much!

2007-02-18 11:57:10 · 24 answers · asked by Kreutzer 4

i taught her on how things should be done when she was younger she seemed to understand and follow but now it's different what should i do???

2007-02-18 11:45:06 · 18 answers · asked by chelsea smith 1

i would love to see my real mum but i am frightened, she left me when me and my brother was 1 and 2 and we have never seen her since. i can say i dont want to see her i do but i want it on my terms is this wrong she toulded the courts when she left she new what life was all about and she was going to liv it i know there is two sides too every story so dont start going on before you answertwo side to every story so dont think i am a kid i am in my 30is to me i only judge me not her the judge did grant my dad full custardy for me and my brother saying he has never sin a case like it think on we are going back to 1974/5 this is a heart to heart question plz dont e=send any bull i am sorry but to me this is my life not a joke

2007-02-18 11:32:48 · 2 answers · asked by rob 3

sadiehawkins is comming up...and i really need a dress. but she won't let me wear anything halter, sleeveless, or noodlestraps. she wants sleeves or nothing, and it's just like impossible to compromise. it's so freakin annoying. she says that we don't need to "attract" boys. that we're just here to please god. and that's like the STUPIDEST thing i've ever heard. i mean..hey. pleasing god is good. but i DO want guys to be like "hey. she's NOT some loser who dresses for funerals." so is there ANY way to persuade her? i'm not going to pick out some cleaveage showing hooker dress that goes down to your bellybutton. i'm not like that. i just want a bubbly dress that fits MY personality..not hers.

so any advice?

2007-02-18 11:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father is cheating on my mom so i told her and she is bassicily choosing him over me ! she choosing the person who treats her like durt! do you think it is wrong that i really want my father out of my life?!?! but he only see's me 2 times a week anyway?

2007-02-18 11:29:33 · 8 answers · asked by ASHlEY 1

Sometimes I don't think that me and my daughter's father should be friends because he has really hurt me in the past but I'm learning to get over and move on. The thing is if I should be friends with him for the sake of our daughter we talk on the phone go watch a movie dinner I really enjoy this because it gives my daughter the chance to be with both of us and we can both talk about things civil or I don't know if I should end our friendship and just only associate with each other about our daughter. What do you think?

2007-02-18 10:58:53 · 5 answers · asked by California<3 3

I am 24 and admit that I live with my parents still...along with my 22, 21, and 19 year old brothers.

My parents went out of town this weekend and of course they all had friends over for a HUGE party and basically treated my familys home like a frat house. They have done this almost everytime my parents are out of town and always get caught becasue someone does something stupid.

I was home for their party, but stayed upstairs and had nothing to do with it...there were kids wrestling, screaming, fighting, spilling, walking in and out of the house, smoking in the garage...and my brothers could care less.

Well my parents came home and totally suspected something and put me on the spot makeing me think they already knew and I spilled the beans because i was already so mad at my brothers for distrecpecting out familys house in the first place. My mom had a "family meeting" and said neighbors told her all of this stuff...even though i know the boys know i told.

Shoud I feel guilty?

2007-02-18 10:51:18 · 5 answers · asked by stephasoris 4

I'm 5'6" and she's 6'1". What could have caused her to grow so much taller than me? This bugs me because I thought all twins were the same size. But what the heck happened? She acts sorta dominant over me now and I have to put up with it. Has anyone ever heard of other cases in which one twin is taller than the other? We're 15 now and I'm wondering if she will grow even taller.....

2007-02-18 10:44:14 · 15 answers · asked by Dom 1

They always fight and I am only 15 and words are soo powerful to me and I am scared of my own parents. I want there to be hope for them. Sometimes I cry my eyes out and hide away in the basement because it scares me so much. I don't mean to sound like a baby it is just I hate them arguing so much! I want to just run away sometimes.. What should I do? Sometimes I feel responsible for them fighting.

2007-02-18 10:43:08 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 4

My daughther is 3 years old, her father and i separated 16 months ago. i decided to end the relationship we had for 12 years cause of personal reasons that i cant forgive him now. He doesnt give any $$ for the baby and all he does his talk to me in a nasty way over the phone cause he still love me ( he saids) but he dont do s**t for the baby. He wants to see her, but i dont want him to see her. Am i doing the right thing by not letting him see his daughther??

2007-02-18 10:39:23 · 14 answers · asked by jay 1

2007-02-18 10:30:57 · 5 answers · asked by INFERNO 1

i cant stand him he is so rude and stupid i want him gone but thats not going to happen any time soon and i used to be anorexic but just got over that a few months ago. i just got over being obcessed with my body and now he calls me fat. god i hate him he wasnt joking either, im sure he wasnt joking. i AM fat =[ there went my dinner. ALL HIS FAULT.

2007-02-18 10:28:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous