Family - February 2007

There is a fued going on in my husband's family. I know whose right but I like to stay out of the way. Do I take a side?

2007-02-18 10:27:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is not the first time she has stole money from me. She is of age, so am I, should I press charges this time?

2007-02-18 10:23:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

like when her dad (your husband) buys her cute stuff, do you get mad?

2007-02-18 10:23:06 · 4 answers · asked by Mama G 1

I need to locate my uncle so that we can let him know that my nan is in hospital, but we have no address and all the phone numbers that we have for him are no good. We think that he lives in Hackney in east london but that is all we know.

2007-02-18 10:22:08 · 7 answers · asked by burnswendy 1

My friend and I are going to start baby-sitting service what is a good name for us to start with?

2007-02-18 10:18:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

of the high cost of childcare. No matter which way we look at it. the equivilent of my income (or darn close) would just pay for daycare. I get he feeling from my husband that I should just be working for the sake of working - despite the fact that it would really generate little or no income for us in the long run. I've considered taking part time jobs in the evenings or weekends however there are many times when his shifts are late, or he goes out and I'm stuck here and I'd hate to commit to a job and not be able to fulfill my obligations. That and the evenings and weekends are the only time with my older children to focus on homework, hangout, give them their baths etc.
What do I do?
All his friends wives make enough money to cover childcare and then some, I don't have the education or experience for a high paying job ........(he compares me to them constantly)
These last 2 yrs have been really hard on my self-esteem and I find myself becoming unhappier every day. Help anyone?

2007-02-18 10:14:58 · 15 answers · asked by purplefrog^murtle~tree 4

Hello! What do you say to someone you love who has just lost their father and needs support but you only have phone contact so cannot hug the person? thanks for your help

2007-02-18 10:09:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents anniversary is coming up this week and we(my brother sister and I) usually buy them something. This year my sister went to college so shes out of the gift... i was just wondering if anyone had a good idea on what to get them... and were not old enough to drive.we can get help though with the driving lol if anyone has a good gift that looks likie we tried plez help me. thanks

2007-02-18 09:59:58 · 16 answers · asked by sunnyvickygamegrl 2

My relationship with my mom was kinda icy for some months. I made some mistakes, nothing realy bad, and it took her some time to forgive me, though I didn't get any harsh punishment. But she hurt my feelings. Yesterday we had a long talk, she tried to explain why she acted like that, she sais she had forgiven me and agreed I didn't do anything realy bad, but she was hurt because she felt I didn't trust her. Anyway, she agreed she had hurt my feelings, asked me to understand she is human and can make mistakes and apologized. For more than a month she's been trying to get my love and my trust back and I've been resisting, but I had to agree I was being stubborn. My mom was sad, I finally realized I was hurting her, then I decide to forget about this thing. I ended up acting like a child, stared crying, gave her a big hug, she cried too, gave me love like I was her little girtl and we promised a from now on we'll always trust each other and have a close and loving relationship.

2007-02-18 09:59:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-18 09:46:31 · 8 answers · asked by holly 1

2007-02-18 09:45:41 · 11 answers · asked by Mama G 1

my mom always lies. she now thinks she has cancer. i know that its not true. any sujestions? by the way- please don't sujjest talking to her about it. it won't work. i've tried.

2007-02-18 09:44:29 · 26 answers · asked by ? 5

Do you think in families in general that their is favoritisim and that some siblings get partiality over other siblings?

I am from a large family and when I was a teen I became mentally ill no fault of my own.

I did not have a normal youth I spend many a days getting blood work done and my 11th and 12th grade I spend in therapy for all the damage and verbal abuse that incured on me.

I did not have a normal relationship with my mom she was always strict, in my face about dating, overbearing, and very legalistic about going to church we ALWAYS had to go to church we basically be having to "barf up a lung" in order not to miss church.

All the other siblings were not under the same scrutinty that I was and when I got married 13 years ago that is when I experienced true freedom freedom in Christ and freedom to do whatever I wanted without playing " Mother may I"

How have you expereinced favortism and partiality in the family and what did you do about it?

2007-02-18 09:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

The family memeber I'm closest with is my mom.

2007-02-18 09:37:52 · 32 answers · asked by Irish Girl 5

I and my boyfreind are in late 20's, i just recenlty found out that his cancer may return anytime, and the doctor said his chance of surviving 10 years is not high. For the last few month he has been in and out of hopsital half of the time, also he gets alot of pain here and there. We have been together for 2 years, i love him, but i am on a 'tight schedule', ie i am close to 30, i want kids and family soon because my biological clock is ticking, knowing his cancer may come back, my future kids my not have a dad, also my stable job maybe in doubt as well, i don't want to be a widow! I feel a huge delimma, emotionally i love him very much, he is the nicest guy i've been with, but something in my head kept telling me that my life will be full of sorror and worry if i stay, i've mentioned a few times about our future with him but he 'begged' me to stay, promising a great health, what should i do? i feel like time is running out

2007-02-18 09:35:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was molested when i was 12 years old. that was 4 years ago. My cousin did it on new years eve. I'm scared to tell anybody but i know it's the right thing to do since he has a 5 year old daughter. But my problem is that i'm scared he doesn't remember he did it and and i don't want people to not belive me. Plus my family is close and i don't want to ruin everything. Please tell me how i should tell someone iwas molested. Thanks

2007-02-18 09:34:00 · 16 answers · asked by jenna w 1

2007-02-18 09:28:47 · 3 answers · asked by victoria_aguilar2002 1

My husband has a son who doesn't live with us. He comes two weekends a month. I feel my husband doesn't pay enough attention to him, so therefore doesn't see when he needs to be corrected. He isn't made to do same things around the house as my two girls who are close in age. I get irritated and once I start fussing at him, it seems non stop. He also has add/adhd. I try to limit sugar and caffeine, but I'm alone when it comes to this. On the other hand my husband watches my oldest daughter constantly to find things she is doing wrong. They are always arguing. He usually right 75% of the time and I let him know when I think he's not. This is about the only thing we fight over. He thinks I let my daughter do whatever she wants and that is not the case. any suggestions?

2007-02-18 09:28:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

when it came time to pay he said i owed him $6500 his reason
he qouted no windows painted, one color.
He knew we wanted 3 colors and he didnt mention the windows when quoting...I paid him the 6500 now my daughter will not speak and said I need to apolize for questioning him...
I havent and dont intend to....Am I wrong?

2007-02-18 09:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by Grogan 5

Hey you guys please help me out here. I was molested about 4 years ago by my cousin. I was 12 years old at the time and it was New years eve. I think my cousin was so drunk he won't even remember he molested me. He is 26 and was 22 at the time he did it. He also has a 5 year old daughter and is getting married soon. what i don't want to happen is me actually have the guts to tell someone and have him not remember he even did it and have everyone think i'm a liar. I also don't want to ruin my families realtionship( we area close family and have lots of fun) That would suck soooo bad. So if you have any advice please tell me.

2007-02-18 09:23:48 · 4 answers · asked by jenna w 1

My parents are very conservative and I have socially been "out of the closet for years." My parents are essentially the only people that don't know. I live in New York and they live in a conservative town in Illinois and have been tryig to set me up with women for years. Is it time to tell them? How should I tell them?

2007-02-18 08:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Andy 1

2007-02-18 08:42:45 · 4 answers · asked by aman 1

omg im 13 i just found out im pregnent.im in so much trouble with my dad wich is in prison for murder and my insane mom.my dad killed my older sister and so i dont have no1 except for my drug_atic uncle that i love with and my bf just dumped me. HELP ME AND GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! og yea fyi I HATE THE WORLD

2007-02-18 08:36:53 · 15 answers · asked by andrian 1

my family is being very rude to me. i think this is very unfair and i don't know what to do about it. they'd make fun of me and said " you act like such a diva and act your own age" and " why do you think that all there is to good people is looks?" and " your are so shallow". i was in tears and i don't even know why they started doing that.... all my mother said was that she was trying to get me to focus less on my looks and then i started to avoid their comments becuase they began to get mean and nasty. what do i do? i don't deserve this!!! i am not a little kid or anything. i am an older teen but this still bothered me.

2007-02-18 08:35:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my other friends don't like my bff because she has a baby and it wasn't her fault u know what happened to her and she has a troubled life she gets beat up by her step dad and he rapes her all the time and she will end up liveing with me.She has not told my other friends about her life so they make fun of her.How do i just tell them to stop it with out telling her secret.

my parents would of called the cops on her parents but he would of killed her and her baby like he says to her all the time.So my parents ar trying to get her to live with us

2007-02-18 08:29:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-18 08:28:51 · 10 answers · asked by ^^**~~`Star^Dust`~**^^ 1

I don't want any home alone stuff like light her hair on fire etc.

2007-02-18 08:09:25 · 21 answers · asked by Omar 2

And that person gave you a million dollars would that take away the pain? Is there anything that could take away that pain?

2007-02-18 08:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by *What Goes Around Comes Around 1

My brother has ADHD and severe bi-polar disease. The medicine he used to take for his ADHD now interferes with his bi-polar and aggravates it. Im am tired of having to live with him because I have never had a second of a normal life (he is older than me so I was born with a not normal life). We can never be sure whether or not he is going to throw one of his fits when we do something so we hardly ever do anything. I really want to move out to get away from him because I am tired of living this way, but I don't want to hurt my parents feelings. It really bothers me knowing that I dont have a normal life. It also bugs me that because my brother is mentally ill he never gets into trouble hardly for things he does. But when I do the slightest little thing I get grounded. It feels like my mom is being a parent to me and not so much him. I dont like getting all the parenting. I really dislike my brother and dont want to have andything to do with him.Got any help for me??

2007-02-18 08:01:42 · 15 answers · asked by Maci H 1

This is my daughter's account, but I am going to use it as I don't have my own account. My daughter and her husband got married last may and he was working at hardee's making 200 every two weeks, so i told them that since me and my husband couldn't take care of ourselves, they could live with us for 100 dollars a month if they took care of us. Everything was fine until he got on at the fire department and started making more money. Then he changed in every way, not just to me, but to my daughter too. And then I decided that since he was making more money he could pay 200 a month and help with groceries. Everything was fine there until my husband had another stroke. Now they want to move out. Am I wrong for being angry about it? I feel like they used me for a place to live and now that it's harder they want to abandon me.

2007-02-18 07:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous