my other friends don't like my bff because she has a baby and it wasn't her fault u know what happened to her and she has a troubled life she gets beat up by her step dad and he rapes her all the time and she will end up liveing with me.She has not told my other friends about her life so they make fun of her.How do i just tell them to stop it with out telling her secret.
my parents would of called the cops on her parents but he would of killed her and her baby like he says to her all the time.So my parents ar trying to get her to live with us
2007-02-18 08:29:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Skittles, can you email me at xxmilitarychikxx@yahoo.com??? I would like to help you and your friend out personally. Im going to cry just thinking about what happened to your friend. I think you should check her and her baby into a safe house right away. He cant go visit her nor can they tell him if she is there. Dont wait....every day she is there is adding more trauma to her stress. I dont think it is safe to keep her at your house because he could come there and attack her and your family. PPO's don;t even stop people. Especailly if they are scared they are going to be caught. Please contact me by email so I can talk to you more. Good luck and I will pray for you and her and her baby. Im so sorry she has to go through with this and im sorry you have to go through it with her.
2007-02-18 08:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by xxmilitarychikxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW... do u even know what a godmother is meant to do? i'm way older than U, and that i haven't any theory... the only ingredient i know is that that is a few unusual thank you to share responsabilities, and on occasion to entice you into thinking which you have a observe to sa on some human beings's youngsters!!! nicely, she's 13... what else can i say!! So, the two you adult men, 13, and 14 are going to enhance a infant?? stressful circumstances.... Chin up woman!!!
2016-11-23 17:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m not sure what a ‘bff’ is. ‘best friend something’? At any rate, she’s under the age of sexual consent in every single state (assuming you live in the U.S.). The solution is pretty simple: Report it. A dna test will be done, and if it’s his child, he will be charged with statutory rape and/or other charges that apply. So why hasn’t this been done? I’m fairly confident that social services would remove her from the home while this is being investigated, so again, if it’s his child, *why hasn’t it been reported*?
2007-02-18 13:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, she needs to get out of that house, and now! She may even need protection. The man is a monster and needs to be in jail for life. She has been abused terribly and needs to be in counseling.
Get her out of that house, and I think it should be done without her parents knowing. You need to call the police and make it very clear that this man needs to be arrested and cannot know where his daughter is living, because it will put her in grave danger.
They will conduct a DNA test and find that he is guilty. He will be in jail for many years. Her Mom may disown her, but so what. She needs a healthy environment and unfortunately its not with her family. Blood realtives can be more toxic than poison.
She needs to leave out of that house today!
2007-02-18 09:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your friend. But I'm glad that you are helping her get out of that situation she's in with her father.
I think you need to tell your other friends to back off and stop being rude. Tell them that they shouldn't be judging her when they don't even know her personally. Stick up for your friend at school. If they don't stop making fun of her then stop hanging out with them. Once my best and I were talking and we both agreed that it's better to have just one friend who you can trust than many friends who aren't true to you.
Although your friends aren't being rude to you, they are being rude to your friend and real friends don't make fun of their friend's friends.
Don't be afraid to do what's right. Do whatever you feel you should do. :)
All the best!
2007-02-18 08:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL THE POLICE! This is too serious to be solved online. Get a parent of yours and tell them the situation, but call your friend first and tell her it will be ok. Drive over to get your friend before she gets harmed. Call the police, your parent will tell the police the situation. Meanwhile support your friend. Any new life needs support and love.
2007-02-18 08:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hanging around with the people who are makign fun of her
I'm sure they are lots of other people to hang with.
You need to report her father to the police even if she is afraid of what will happen because it will only continue.
Keep her and the baby close to you so that nothing else happends
2007-02-18 08:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stand up for her, and tell them that they don't know what they are talking about, and that they don't know what happened. Just say that something bad happened and it is non of their business, that way your are not telling anyone what happened or is happening, but let them know that something is going on that isn't her fault, and they might stop. You and your parents are very good understanding people.
2007-02-18 08:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by destjaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a counciler right away!!!!!!! But before you do take your friend and her baby with you. Go to the cops but make sure your friend is in a safe place before you do it. Please don't let her suffer with her dad anymore. You wouldn't want that for your friend. She needs all the help she can get right now.
2007-02-18 08:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Blonde 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a child having a child...not sure what to say here....the only thing I can say is that she has now ruined her life. It will be a struggle for her for the years that she should be having fun and getting the proper education that is required.
2007-02-18 08:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋