omg im 13 i just found out im pregnent.im in so much trouble with my dad wich is in prison for murder and my insane mom.my dad killed my older sister and so i dont have no1 except for my drug_atic uncle that i love with and my bf just dumped me. HELP ME AND GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! og yea fyi I HATE THE WORLD
2007-02-18 08:36:53 · 15 answers · asked by andrian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Darling i agree with Kate. If you have a very close friend with parents please go talk to them. Or talk to your female teacher or even your guidance counselor at school. that's what they are there for. Please try to calm down, it's not the end of the world and don't hate or blame yourself for this it will only make matters worse. Last, don't worry about the guy, he's not worth it if he just up and left your like that. But please find a close female adult that you can talk to and tell anything and let them help you. There is always someone out there that can help you. So keep your head up and don't let other people put you down. Just overlook ignorance and keep going. Always remain positive, and things will work out. Hope this helps sweetie!!
2007-02-18 08:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by jenni_2004us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you are having to seem to go through this alone....and a lot of family drama.....but you are not alone...nor the only one. First, don't pay any attention to all the negative remarks on here. My baby daughter got pregnant at 13 and had my first grandchild at 14. Reach out to someone..friends parent, a teacher, counselor, church council, or make a call to your DR., social services or a family crises center.
Do something now...the sooner you get the help you need the sooner you can make a decision on what you want to do, start seeing a doctor, maybe take parenting classes. They have a high school here for pregnant/parent teens with lots of services that are available to girls that need it...maybe they have one there too. Also here they have homes for pregnant/parent teens whose parents kicked them out so that might be another option for you. Whatever you do tell someone soon and remember God doesn't create mistakes.
2007-02-18 10:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by lynnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are safe with your uncle, then I would ask him to go to court with you and see if he can gain custody of you. If I was you I would try to get into a foster home because if you want to keep your child, it can be taken away if you live with a drug addict. I would go talk with a school counselor and ask them what you can do. If you dont want to keep the child, find a person who would like to adopt your child. They usually will pay for your medical bills while you are pregnant and all. you can email me for more info at xxmilitarychikxx@yahoo.com
I am 22 years old and married to a 21 year old male Army man.
2007-02-18 08:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by xxmilitarychikxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to calm down
Second you got yourself into this situation and so you need to do what is best for yourself and the baby you are carrying.
If you cannot find help with any of your family members call social services and they will help you out with whatever you need.
Sorry that you hate the world but you onyl hate it because you didnt protect yourself they way you should have
2007-02-18 08:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down first. Do you have a good friend with good parents? Tell them your situation. Don't be ashamed and don't be embarressed. They will help by taking you to another home or taking you in. Or tell a teacher. This child will need a good home to grow up in, and his mother will love him no matter what. I'm sorry, things will get better. And don't listen to the stupid ignorant people on here, they probally wouldn't know what to do in this situation either. And you don't have to read the bible to fix this either.
2007-02-18 08:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you have to calm down that might be hard to do but you don't want to do something you'll regret later. You could call social services or the teen help line.
2007-02-18 08:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by squ_ishy07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are places you can go to get help. One I've seen on T.V. is called AGAPE. You should think about adoption at your age. Look in the phone book - the Yellow Pages - for help.
2007-02-18 08:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number one you shouldn't have had sex for goodness's sakes when you're thirteen you're just supposed to be finding out what that is. What is this world coming to???? sorry I got on my soapbox there for a minute Find a church, a support group, and a good friend to talk to. Pray to God and he'll get you through this just keep trusting.
2007-02-18 08:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Peace, Love, Gun<3☎ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to a good friend who has a good family, somewhere where other crazy people won't find you
call social services if you don't want to live at home anymore and are afraid of your parents
going to your uncle isn't good, since he's a drug adict and he's got his own problems
2007-02-18 08:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by zorro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hunny call social service they can help you think of decisions and support you and might help you find somewhere else to live that is safe for you. don't listen to some bad, ignorant answers.
2007-02-18 08:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by destjaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋