Family - February 2007

My step mom is alone alot, and never used to be, but my dads true colors are showing a lot lately, and noone wants tobe around them.Even there answering machine has no messages, and it has been since her brother and best friend, a big part of her family, passed on.
My husband and I want to get our kids and get away. Somewhere totally out of here, but I feel my step mom would be falling apart.On one hand she acts happy, but there always seems a lonliness. And my dad isa mean a**hole. Tonight moms brothers boys were over for the night, and I knew my kids would want to visit them, so the adults, me dad husband and mom were all talking. We said we all felt sorry for Anna Nicole Smith, and dad said ,"she was a whore." Even after we all spoke of her sad life, he again said it. And when he told me mom prayed for me, I said did you, when I ran away aas a teen, he said, "I wanted to strangle you.' He did in fact konk m egood in the head at 19. What would you do, step mom denies a problem.

2007-02-17 19:15:22 · 4 answers · asked by wehweh 2

I am a mother of 4 children. 3 daughters and 1 son.
2 of my daughters have moved out so its just my other daughter and son. My son is ready to leave but I dont want him to..
He never talks to me anymore,
And when I say 'hi' he acts like Im bugging him.
My question is, has any of you other mothers gone through this? and has it changed?

2007-02-17 18:53:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom left us....
my mind says that she don't love us becoz she left us...
so i'm at my father's side; my teachers are sad for me....
my mom calls...
my mom texts through my adviser's phone....

should i talk to my mom?
should i tell my mom that i'm angry 2 her?
should i close my heart 4 her?
how can i stop people from making pity of me?
how can i stop myself from being ashamed is becoz i'm a product of a broken family?

everyone i need help!!!!
tnx guys...
i know ican count on u....

2007-02-17 18:39:08 · 18 answers · asked by hot chic 2

What do you do when your family is not very supportive in times of need (When you child has to have heart surgery). Or they leave you out of family desicions or if you just ask for some helpful advice and they do not even take the time to answer a simple question. What do you do when it does not seem that your own family does not care?

2007-02-17 18:01:04 · 16 answers · asked by Vivianna 4

i love this boy and he loves sme and he asked me if i wanted to get married to him after high school i ignored the question because i didnt know what to say what should i say??

2007-02-17 18:00:52 · 2 answers · asked by Shelbi B 1

My family situation sucks, and I'm graduating college this May. I'm considering moving away (out of state) and not telling them. Has anyone ever done this?

2007-02-17 17:37:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-17 17:35:25 · 15 answers · asked by kheraab 1

So, there's this roach there! I hate roaches and I need to pee... Just kill it, right? If it were only that easy! I'm at my dad's. I don't live here, I have no idea wherethe poison to kill bug is.. Besides, I locked it in the bathroom (there's no way out) and it disappeared! There's no other bathroom and I can't sleep without peeing.. If I wake my dad up he'll be too pissed off and WILL NOT kill the roach (if he would, I wouldn't care much, really)..I'm really desperate here!

2007-02-17 17:32:06 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ B ♥ 4

my nepuw got egage and he only know the lady for 4 days. i don,t know if i should say congratlation. i am shock about right now. he said i am his favortie aunt. my mother in law and father in law are shock to

2007-02-17 17:22:33 · 2 answers · asked by mousefanjenn 2

2007-02-17 17:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

he held a gun 2 my head and brutally raped me...
he has ben doing it since i was 4 im now 16
about 2 weeks ago i found out it wasnt normal
i thort everyone did it since i started at an erly age


dad sed he wood kill mum and me if i told anyone

2007-02-17 17:05:34 · 22 answers · asked by Selina - 1

cause i'm 14 and i'm a guy and i wanna get my tounge pierced. but do you have to get your parents to sign things? or could i use my cousin who's 18 to do that? because i dont want them knowing even though they'll eventually find out. but yeah, i just wanna know if i could get it pierced w/o parents. haha

2007-02-17 17:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by ajd 2

i love sex with guys, but its only physical. i am more drawn to girls when its emotional. how?

2007-02-17 16:40:22 · 14 answers · asked by upen p 1

2007-02-17 16:21:19 · 21 answers · asked by lonely 1

I tend to be a combo of both, but I do feel sometimes in some situations it's right to be more submissive to my husband. Maybe I am too traditional. What do you think?

2007-02-17 16:13:18 · 19 answers · asked by honeybear 5

What was it like for you becoming a young father? How did you feel about it. What changes did you have to make in your life? How young were you?

2007-02-17 16:10:04 · 1 answers · asked by honeybear 5

ok.well I have a brother,and he wants me and my sister to go with him tomorrow (Sunday) to Weatherford to see some friends of his,but I really don't want to go,but my brother keeps on telling me to go and that we would have a lot of fun up there...and i don't know what to do.

2007-02-17 15:53:16 · 5 answers · asked by mkat_114 1

As you might notice in my other questions, I'm having a lot of family troubles right now. My dad is a drunk who's never been a part of my life. My mom shows zero interest in my life and never calls or visits. (I used to call and visit her but got sick of the one way street we were dealing with.) My sister treats me like some 8 year old idiot, even though I'm an adult. I feel like moving on and just cutting ties with my family. What can I do? This whole situation is really stressing me out.

2007-02-17 15:18:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandmas got some sorta cancer and wont be living long, ive been sorta numb so far, but my mom is taking this hard. My grandma left taiwan when my mom was 9, and ever since, my mom hasnt spent as much time with my grandma as she would have liked. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to do? I feel really down every time i see her and it just breaks me down.

2007-02-17 15:15:00 · 18 answers · asked by ms-li@sbcglobal.net 1

We're both adults and I thought the days of her talking down to me might be over but I guess not. I'm 24 and very independent, yet every time I hang out with her she is awful. If I bite a nail she snaps at me to knock it off. If I ask her to clarify something she's talking about she snips "Would you let me finish?". She gets mad if I eat things that crunch (even though I close my mouth). She yells at me if I say something even slightly negative. If we go somewhere and someone asks me a question (like a receptionist) she starts to answer for me. She treats me like a baby and I'm so sick of it. I know I should stand up for myself but I end up just getting mad and being quiet and then she yells at me for that. She also cuts me down all the time telling me that being shy is weird, I need more friends, I'm too down on myself, I won't make it in the career I want, etc. Yet she claims she's all I have and I am all she has so we should stick together. She makes me depressed... help

2007-02-17 15:08:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well then help me and im being serious dont message me acting like you are..lol..Well neways just so i know you are tell me first what my moms name is or my dads...Then ill know if your lying.

But neways the questions i have are;
Did my dad kill hiself or was it murder.?
Am i sick.?Or is it anxiety and me over reacting?
And last how many kids am i going to have?

Plz answer and not lie, Thanks someone will be choosen the best answer i promise..!!!

2007-02-17 14:56:09 · 9 answers · asked by amberr_YO 2

i have a codusty case filed in west virginia by my daughters father bother her and i live in illinois would anyone happen to know a link to a page or the laws or guidlines to west virginis out-of-state visitions... right now he is seaaking visitation every weekend starting at 4 pm fri ending 6pm sunday we meet half way ... the tital drive from his house to mine is 10 hours which would get my daughter to his house or mine close to midnight if roads are safe to travel at normal speed and also a total of 20 hours in a 50 hour time frame would be on the road... i suggested he have her 7 to 8 straight days each month since she is only 2 to limit the time shoudl would have to spend in a car..he dont care for that idea.... heck if i went for the every weekend in a month time she would spend over 80 hours in a car that is nuts so any help would be thanks many times over

2007-02-17 14:48:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mother lost child and grandmother wants costidy of the child but the child has already been adopted.

2007-02-17 14:35:11 · 6 answers · asked by Arcadio Paulini 1

I'm in college and it seems like as soon as I left my mom's to go to school, she ignored me. My dad has never been a part of my life so his lack of interest isn't as upsetting. I used to try to call my mom at least once a month, but I got sick of being the only one making contact attempts. She has never visited me and I've lived here for 4 years (it's a 2 hour drive). I used to visit all the time but I just can't afford it and I don't have the time like I used to. She never called to see how my senior year of college was, how my new internship was, how my life was, if I survived the blizzard... nothing. Should I tell her she's hurting me or just forget about it and wait and see if she decides to care?

2007-02-17 14:34:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a 25 y o lad who got raped by a guy at a young age , i hid from the world didnt want 2 leave my room didnt wanna sit in the lounge with my folks (i will just add it wasnt a family member), things reallty started going down hill after that at the age of 14 i stole hundreds from my folks makin my mum close this shop she use 2 have, turned to drugs then started doin gas an glue and become the most horribilist person ever i argued with my parent said loadsa stuff dont really wanna get into it, tried commitin suicide 5 times through my problems in the space of 5 years my folks aged 30 + years, the thing is ive grown up and changed in everyway possible aint done drugs in 6 years im a manager of somewhere, and become the best person ever but my parents dont know this person they know ive changed and grown up but i stil live in my room and im scared there gettin old an i dont know how to tell them i love them an thankyou and get to know them b4 its 2 late i want them to die proud of me

2007-02-17 13:55:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father does everything for my nephew and his family-my nephew is using my moms car and he cant take his wife to work nor the kids to the babysitter,food shopping,he wont take h is family no where.he had my dad do it all.he dont even take care of maintence for the car,dad does.my mom died 5 months ago, and all he does is run them around.i said i would stay here to care for my dad but im at my end.it is really getting to me.my nephew has 3 kids 1 stays with wifes mom-the 3yrs old stays at dads most of the time-the baby is always at a sitters.they dont do anything for themselves-im a mom of 3 and no one helped me at all-my boys are teenagers now,i did it by myself with no help.he relys on my dad for everything-he has to be responsible for his own family!he needs to provide for them not everyone else.im thinking aobut leaving my dads house cuz i cant take it anymore-they use him and he lets them.my boys see this and wonder why he dont help anyone else like that.i just cant take no more.

2007-02-17 13:54:12 · 11 answers · asked by terry t 1

If a child is molested by her uncle and she tells her aunt his wife, what is going on and she tells the child don't say anything because he will go to jail and the child will get in trouble....is that worse than the molestation? And can it make it harder for the child?

2007-02-17 13:44:23 · 26 answers · asked by *What Goes Around Comes Around 1

My sister in law is nasty, says she wants to be my friend, but is back stabbing, twists my words and makes fun of me behind my back. I have to watch every single thing I say because she likes to throw information back in people's faces and use it against them.
I always feel (from experience) that I can't trust her.
Yet, she gets mad at me because she expects me to call her and be her "friend" --whatever that is to her...

I try not to talk to her and try to avoid her, is this a good method? I really just can't be friends with a person like this.
My husband doesn't like her either. What should I do?

2007-02-17 13:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do?

2007-02-17 13:33:49 · 5 answers · asked by Angela 1

2007-02-17 13:30:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous