My step mom is alone alot, and never used to be, but my dads true colors are showing a lot lately, and noone wants tobe around them.Even there answering machine has no messages, and it has been since her brother and best friend, a big part of her family, passed on.
My husband and I want to get our kids and get away. Somewhere totally out of here, but I feel my step mom would be falling apart.On one hand she acts happy, but there always seems a lonliness. And my dad isa mean a**hole. Tonight moms brothers boys were over for the night, and I knew my kids would want to visit them, so the adults, me dad husband and mom were all talking. We said we all felt sorry for Anna Nicole Smith, and dad said ,"she was a whore." Even after we all spoke of her sad life, he again said it. And when he told me mom prayed for me, I said did you, when I ran away aas a teen, he said, "I wanted to strangle you.' He did in fact konk m egood in the head at 19. What would you do, step mom denies a problem.
2007-02-17 19:15:22 · 4 answers · asked by wehweh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your dad is a nut job. Get away. Don't feel like your feeding your stepmom to the wolves. She's a grown woman. She chooses to stay with your dad. Obviously he has issues hating women. You can leave. Just let your stepmom know that if she ever needs you, you'll be there and call her often. But for now get the hell out of there. You aren't responsible for taking care of a grown woman. She's not your child. She's not asking for your help so don't give something that's not wanted or needed. Your responsibility is to your children and you and your husband first and foremost. After you are a safe distance then you can be there for your stepmom. You're not superman, stop trying to save people.
2007-02-23 03:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by goturanswer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is true that he is your dad, but he is a man as well - a divorced 52 years old guy. Imagine yourself in his shoes, he's probably bored and out of excitement in his life -- got a gf to have fun with her, not more not less. He has his sexual fantasies, but so what? All has their own fantasies. Where is the border line? As long as your dad is acting 100% normal with you, remain normal with him and keep a safety distance. If you feel that your dad have ever tried to do something abnormal to you or with you, this is when you should blow the whistle and stop him immediately! Other than this, aren't we all creepy toward each other at the end? :)
2016-03-29 01:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta agree with your dad so far. But I would have to be there to see how he came off when he said the things he said. But Anna Nicole really was as bad as any whore on the street, worse because she had every opportunity to turn her life around. If my teenage daughter ran away and was doing who know's what, I would both pray for her and want to strangle her.
2007-02-18 05:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Live your own life dont feel bad for your stop mum..she has got too make her own decisions..
2007-02-24 00:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋