Family - February 2007

I am really depressed. I just found out i am pregnant, and i believe in every woman should choose if she wants to have a baby or not.
I already have a 6 month old baby girl. after her i have been taking my birth controll pill everyday. and low and behold i am pregnant!
im depressed because i KNOW that my man does not want another baby. and he does not help with the one we got now. there is no way i can handel 2. i can barley handel one. and can barley afford the bills.
my man is living with us, and he pays mostly all the bills. but i know this is not going to work out.
none of my family knows. i cant tell them, they will be so dissipaonted in me. none of my friends know either. i just want someone to talk to. im scared my family will judge me!
should i just keep my secret?

2007-02-17 13:02:24 · 38 answers · asked by jiggamaboo 2

2007-02-17 12:53:58 · 31 answers · asked by claret 4

2007-02-17 12:37:29 · 14 answers · asked by Shamoo 1

like somtime they will say that they did not have no money but they do.maybe they will use it to go shopping.

2007-02-17 12:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live with my mom and I want to go see my dad and the baby but I don't know how th ask my mom if I can. I want to ask but I don't know how and when I should ask my mom.

2007-02-17 12:32:13 · 11 answers · asked by miranda c 2

My husband's 3rd oldest daughter lived with us for 2 years and he got her a car from his Dad with the condition she pays her Grandpa $200 for it....that was a 1 1/2 ago! She hasn't paid yet and I took out insurance for her and telling her what the amount is each and every month! It took her a year to pay for the insurance and she only paid for 2 months!! Then she stopped for 2 months then started again but was giving me the payment 3 days after the bill was due! Now she is back living with her Mom and still on my insurance and continues to pay late! So I have gotten ahold of my agent and she is getting her own bill sent to her Mom's. Now my husband is upset with me because his daughter won't get our multi-car discount and I told him she doesn't live with us anymore. She actually moved out last June and was barely making payments to us. Was I wrong for doing this because I have a daughter myself that has been paying her insurance from the get go and she's wanting to stop paying.

2007-02-17 12:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by jessiebug70@sbcglobal.net 2

Hey, I thank god for the new life and I'm going to stay with her till the end... but what the hell!!!! I need help to plan for my new future with my lovely wife, but i cant find a site for the guys...

So. please help me by giving me a hot-lines or sites that can get me thru this happy gift from god!!!!!

2007-02-17 12:22:18 · 12 answers · asked by Hypnotic 1

http://magegame.ru/?rf=d8e0ece0ed7ecae8ede37e - answeres write here

2007-02-17 12:16:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my mom and dad have been together for 12 years now, and today is my birthday. So my mom thought at my step-sister's track meet, she thought her friends were giving her dirty looks, when they weren't. She was acting weird, I think she was drunk. My mom was (maybe is) an acholic, and has been to jail twice and rehab twice in the past 3 years. So my older sister and her boyfriend stole some of his (my sister's bf's) mom's purses. So my sister went kinda wacko. And that is when this started. My mom went wacko too. So she is saying, "You can't share your father! Your sister is jealous that I am with your father!" And such, I know my sister is fine with it, and she says she wouldn't want her mom and our dad to ever get back together in the first place. My mom is acting drunk, and we are thinking she is. She is blaming everything on my step sister's mom. Why they argue, etc. Sometimes it's true, other times it isn't. I am worried, my mom took off today, and wants to go to Georgia.

2007-02-17 12:13:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 16 years old and I haven't lived with my mother in nearly two years since she threw me out during an argument. She comes over almost everyday to use my computer because she doesn't want to pay for the internet at her own house. When she comes over, I have to babysit her or else she goes through everything.
Today she came over without giving me any notice, and I was in the middle of getting ready to go out. I couldn't get ready and babysit her at the same time, so I put everything on hold for two hours to let her do "research". After two hours, I told her she needed to leave so I could continue getting ready. She wouldn't leave, so we got into an argument and I almost called my dad to come home and make her leave. Finally, she left after saying, "Fine- I disown you, you disown me. Don't come to my house. Anything you have left there, your father can come pick it up, or the garbage men."

My question: Was it wrong for me to ask her to leave? How should I have handled it?

2007-02-17 12:12:21 · 14 answers · asked by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3

long or short detailed

2007-02-17 12:05:15 · 4 answers · asked by Daya 2

My mom calls me lazy for not having a job at 16 is she right?

2007-02-17 11:55:33 · 11 answers · asked by baseballfreak9112 1

If someone is molested by thier uncle as a young child, and fondling/touching is just involved is it still damaging or not that big of a deal?

2007-02-17 11:52:11 · 20 answers · asked by *What Goes Around Comes Around 1

GOD!! I HATE MY PARENTS SO MUCH!! MOSTLY MY MOM!! SHE GETS ON MY NERVES!!!!!!

2007-02-17 11:44:54 · 8 answers · asked by XxXToxicPandaXxX 2

She keeps saying that she's so hawt cause she can still fit into a small size of jeans. Should I hide them from her?!??????????

2007-02-17 11:43:59 · 10 answers · asked by Amy Ashley 2

well im 15 years old and every morning my grandma wakes me up at 4 am . she talks to me and everything. but theres one problem she dies five years ago. im not joking . i cant tell my mom or dad because she said she wont come anymore what should i do i want to tell someone but i really miss her and i dont want her to go.

2007-02-17 11:41:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-17 11:40:01 · 3 answers · asked by barb.douglas 2

like i dont know cause she is 12 years old and yeah she like's older boys. She kisses and lies about her age. We all tryed to talk to her about it but what to do...

2007-02-17 11:32:10 · 2 answers · asked by k1ss_m3 3

My brother has a learning disability (though not severe) he left school at an early age and since then hasn't hung around with anyone, he expects me to hang around with him all the time, but i'm older now and have my own life to lead and i'm planning on moving away soon. i've introduced him to a number of my friends but he just doesn't click with them at all, my sister thinks i'm over-exaggerating but i'm not and he wouldn't even visit her all that often unless i suggested it. we have suggested every social activity but he always goes for the hard-to-reach options. i'm upset because i really don't want to leave my brother in the dust when i go off travelling to other places for who knows what amount of time. he is also incapable of running his own home which means he will have to live-in with someone (it'll end up being me) when we are much older because i can't leave him behind forever either.

can anyone give me good advice on how to make my brothers life a little bit better??

2007-02-17 11:29:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've babysat for a long time now and I've always wondered what other views were on eating a family's food while babysitting. I always feel awkward eating others food. I mean obviously if you are there for a long period of time you have to eat but what would you set as guidelines?

2007-02-17 11:15:34 · 10 answers · asked by magooi1234 3

well, umm, i just moved with my dad because my real mom use to abuse me all the time and i was tired of it so i told my dad. me and him never really communicated so i was very sad because i really missed my mom. she was everything to me even if she abused me. my father was never there for me untill i needed help. i was a nerd at my old school, here, where i live now, i beame pretty popular. i was a gangster @ skool because everyone told me to be a gangster and i thought it was pretty kool. then, my dad started to yell at me and i decided to stop khuz i wanted to make him happy. well the i was very sad khuz everyone was picking on me @ skool and then i became emo. i started to slah my wrists. and my dad sooner found out. so i decided to be prep. now i have no clue who i am

2007-02-17 10:46:51 · 5 answers · asked by confused gurl 1

Today i asked if i could go out to play and she said, "make sure the cookies are out of the oven." then i said "there in the oven but there not done yet" then she got up in my face and told me not to give her an attitude. what is that all about. then she said go to your room! sometimes i just wan't to tell her NO!!!! and then because i don't say no i end up slamming doors and get in trouble again!what should i do.

2007-02-17 10:37:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an Indian guy 17 years old. I am born in Canada so I do not speak my mother tongue and have no accent or anything.
my parents want me to be more connected to my heritage.
I couldn't give a **** about my heritage.
They want me to go on to college and go into medical college and marry some orphan Indian girl just so they don't have to deal with the brides parents ya dig?

I want to get an ESL certificate and start teaching in china and find a nice Chinese girl and then possibly stay there and never see my parents again.

I lived my life and so far I hate most of the Indian girls I've met and all the Chinese girls I met I felt like I was in love with every single one because they were all so nice to me and stuff. I'm not to fond of American born Chinese.

so should I?
listen to my parents and go to medical college and marry some Indian woman and be miserable

or

find a Chinese girl and maybe get another job if I can marry her
and live a happy life but never ever see my parents again.

2007-02-17 10:35:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have just moved with my dad and is feonce, i had problems with my real mom @ home so i went 2 court. thats how i ended up with my dad. well, my step mom doesnt like me @ all and i dont know y.
now my dad is sided with her and she is making up nothing but lies
why are step moms so evil??
should i just tell my dad that if she isint out of the house, then i am out

2007-02-17 10:31:39 · 24 answers · asked by confused gurl 1

my brother is claiming that i was reading his e-mails when i wasn't cause i was oing to click the file tab that lead to the exit button and the mailbox is right under it and i accidently clicked on that and know he thinks i was reading his e-mal....when i wasn't and know he won't even talk to me on AIM,e-mail , or even talk to me face.....How can i stop this!!! btw:. i am only 11 and he is 15...And i haven't told my parents yet but when do my brother will come and COMPLETELY flip the story! HELP!!!!

2007-02-17 10:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by vanessa_and_miley_rox 1

I'm an indian guy 17 years old. I am born in canada so I do not speak my mother tongue and have no accent or anything.
my parents want me to be more connected to my heritage.
I couldn't give a **** about my heritage.
They want me to go on to college and go into medical college and marry some orphan indian girl just so they don't have to deal with the brides parents ya dig?

I want to get an esl certificate and start teaching in china and find a nice chinese girl and then possibly stay there and never see my parents again.

I lived my life and so far I hate most of the indian girls I've met and all the chinese girls I met I felt like I was in love with every single one because they were all so nice to me and stuff. I don't
like american born chinese.

so should I?
listen to my parents and go to medical college and marry some indian woman and be miserable

or

find a chinese girl and maybe get another job if I can marry her
and live a happy life but never ever see my parents again.

2007-02-17 09:58:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, for about 3 years, I've been in the stage where you're hit with all these hormone changes, mood swings, etc. Sometimes I wonder if my family even remembers that it's normal for that to happen. I've always been real sensitive, but now more than ever. My family just sees it as "You've got a bad attitude" or "Why do you always have to argue, or have the last word, or disagree..." I don't purposely act this way, and they're being kind of insensitive about it. I'm always getting lectured about it, but when I try to express my feelings, they don't believe me, they think I'm just making excuses. What should I do?

2007-02-17 09:41:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It makes me feel like I am unimportant and no I don't have low self-esteem ...I just don't know how to get the message across to her that that's how most people would feel.....
If she would say she'll call but give no time...it would solve the problem. I have encourage her to put herself first on occasions but I didn't mean step on other's feelings

2007-02-17 09:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by paradox 2

I am a english girl and i have a partner of 4 years from afghanistan, I have a 6 month old daughter with him and a 4 year old son from a relationship before, and he want use all to move to afghanistan where his family live, he said if i love him then i sould go with him, I dont know what i should do is it safe for use there would i be treated nicely, The thing is his mother knows about us but his father does not i am living in england and i dont know what to do, If i did not like it out there would they let me come back with my children,

2007-02-17 09:35:25 · 21 answers · asked by princess 1

My brother is about to get married to this woman. She is pregnant and after the baby is born in April theyre getting married in May (backwards yes i know but anyway....) ok when the baby is born he is going to call me auntie. my brothers fiance's daugthers call me by my first name. they are 5 and 7 but i think im gonna feel kinda weird with my nephew calling me auntie and his sisters calling me by my first name. i refer to them as my nieces. ok so my question is should i have them call me auntie or not?? i dont know. help me please!!

2007-02-17 09:33:35 · 17 answers · asked by lovely 4