This may be wierd but...?

Question

well im 15 years old and every morning my grandma wakes me up at 4 am . she talks to me and everything. but theres one problem she dies five years ago. im not joking . i cant tell my mom or dad because she said she wont come anymore what should i do i want to tell someone but i really miss her and i dont want her to go.

its really weird but its not like what people describe as her her face and but look the same except for her fingers and toes which are kind of see through.

Answer 1

She's an angel watching over you. Tell your grandmother you want to tell someone, ask her who should you tell. It's not that weird. You are lucky to have such a close connection to her. Enjoy the conversations for as long as they last.

Answer 2

spooky.
welp, depending on your point of view this could be a bad thing or a good thing. some may see it as sweet that your grandmother's spirit loves you enough to visit you everyday.
others may see it as stress, or something of the like. you were ten at the time of her death and the emotional damage of losing someone at such a young age can have effects such as this. if you tell your parents or teacher then I'm sorry to say that the last conclusion would be drawn.

how dose your grans visits make you feel afterwords? i assume that you feel sad since you miss so much but are you happy that she visits you?
Ive never felt the loss of someone close and i can only imagine the pain you must have felt. as painful as it is though, death is just another part of life. i don't know what i would do if i lost my granny. i count on her advice so much that i think if i were in your place i wouldn't tell anyone.
......I'm not even sure if this is good advice. he he, sorry.

lets hit this from the spiritual side. often ghosts and the like have 'unfinished business' which ties there soul to this world. id assume in this case its your grandmothers love for you and the regret that she cant be there fully for you in life. her visits may not last forever. one day she may not appear and it may seem like losing her again but you just have to remember that she cares and is always watching over you.
she may have some thing important to tell you, even if its as simple as she loves you, she feels the need to be there for you.

anyways i think im rambling, and im sure that the different advice your receiving is going to leave you more confused. i truly wish you luck with this. tell you grandmother i said hi.

Answer 3

Well, you are emotionally scarred by the loss of your grandmother. I had a bit of a tough time when I was in 3rd grade when my grandma passed away. (not quite the same as you though). I sploke with my parents about it and I turned out OK. I would ask for some help. You should talk to your parents about it. Maybe a school councelor or therapist. (This is not a bad thing. It does help). Dont be afraid to ask for help. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Well, you did told someone: you are telling this to us. We are "someone" when you think about it. There is nothing weird about talking to your dead grandma. You two must have had such a great, close relationship that she still visits you. You think you're the only one? Well, you are not, but, you may be the only one who can admit that. Since you told us about this, I suggest you continue your talks with your grandmother and enjoy it. If she wanted to talk to your parents, she probably would have. Maybe she tried and it did not panned out. Maybe she would rather talk to you because you were and are the only one who still listens to her.
By keeping her in your heart, your grandmother will never be gone.

Answer 5

All these people are going to tell you to get therapy, see a doctor, tell someone. I for one believe in spirits. I think you are fine. Don't be scared unless your instincts tell you to be. If it is your grandmothers spirit, she may be trying to tell you something. Could be simple as I love you, or well, theres just no telling. Maybe she knows your parents will get you to a Dr if you tell them. Then you may never see her again. Just trust your instincts, enjoy it, for it is rare, and make sure and tell her everything is fine here, to go home. She will eventually go where she should be, and you can go on with a somewhat normal life.

Answer 6

It's not weird at all. In fact, I have heard many times of events such as yours. It's time to let her cross over! Really! Tell your grandma to find a light, and to go to the light. If this doesn't work, open the Bible and read a passage in Psalms. Search carefully for the appropriately passage and read it out loud.

Please allow your grandma be at rest now. I know you don't want her to go, but if God want her, you have to let her go. Telling your parents is really not necessary. If you so desire to continue to have her to visit you, its your decision!

Answer 7

have u ever heard the term guardian angel. that's what ur grandma is now. i was 12 when my grandma died. i saw her for a while after that. i still see her sometimes. but i can never talk to her except in my dreams. maybe ur living a dream that ur grandma is still alive. if u want 2 talk more email me at [e-mail]

Answer 8

That is so great!! If I were you I would just enjoy the time you are spending with her.However, if she starts being mean or following you around you might want to tell ma or pa. I would give anything to see my grandma again, you are receiving a gift.

Answer 9

that is soo neat. I do believe you. I dont think that you should tell anyone becuase then she wont come anymore. Im guessing that before she passed away you guys had a close bond between each other? If i were you i wouldnt tell because she obviously trusts you and still loves you. =]
email me if you want...

Answer 10

yep that's weird and scary as well i suggest you tell some. are sure you're not imagining things?