How much do you hate your parents??

Question

GOD!! I HATE MY PARENTS SO MUCH!! MOSTLY MY MOM!! SHE GETS ON MY NERVES!!!!!!

You guys!! I was answering a question!! its said would you chose love or sec in a relastionship? my mom went crazy!@

Answer 1

Don't hate her sweetie....she just is concerned for you and you'll miss her once she's gone. Love her with all your heart.

Answer 2

I had so much hate for my mom for a lot of years. When I turned 31 we had a big blow up and I told her all the reasons I hated her. I also went into counseling and found out that ladies like my mom acted they way she did or behaved badly because that is how she thought to handle her life. She did the best she could being a depressed woman. I am now 48 and I do love her and we now get along well. You see she knows that I am grown and have my own life. I see her differently now because she has also aged. She is 67 and a sick woman. She is going on husband #4 and this is the happiest I have ever seen her. In the old days she dated many younger men and drank, and was a truck driver. Need I say more. She wasn't the mom she could of been. Forgiveness is the best thing I have ever done with her. So please try to see past her faults and try talking with her honestly about both of your feelings. Remember without her you wouldn't be here.

Answer 3

I hated my mom when I was growing up and living with her--moved out on my own as soon as I could and supported myself and have never moved back in. But I love her now, almost feel sorry for her in some ways. She had way too many kids too close together without much help from dad (he was there but raising kids was women's work). I know she did the best she could, it worked for some of my sibs but not for me and some other of my sibs. I realized early that mom and I were completely different, lived in different "realities" and needed different things. Mom has never accepted that in me although now that I've been on my own all this time (and she never has been, always had someone else supporting her) she leaves me alone (still doesn't understand me though). She was ruthless and dangerous, a true dragon lady, when I was growing up and she had the power. Now that she's old, I see her as this little woman who was totally frustrated, abused (by dad and her own upbringing and social norms of the time), overwhelmed. She always thought the family would be there to give her all the companionship she needed but today we are all scattered around and she's been alone a lot even though she and dad still live in the same place. As you get older and find out some of the insane reasons that drove your parents to do what they did, why they set rules (ok. some of them are rules of convenience for them only), etc., you'll understand them better. But, remember how you feel now and try not to be so unfair to your own kids when you have some, try to be a far beetter parent then your parents were and you can only do that if you don't repeat what they did.

Answer 4

I am sure you are getting on your moms nerves.Maybe she felt the question you were answering was not for a person your age. You sound pretty inmature.You feel like you hate her now but,later in your life, like when you grow up, that feelin will change.

Answer 5

I'm not sure how old you are or what your situation is, but I have no emotional connection to my parents at all. They are very dysfunctional and don't realize I exist. However, my grandparents raised me and I love with all my heart and soul.

Answer 6

I only live with my parents because I got to.

Answer 7

You can't hate your parents, my guess is you just don't like to be disciplined. You resent it so bad that you think you hate them, but it's the discipline that you hate.Parents discipline their kids because they love them.

Answer 8

I used to think that way...until I got older ...
I love my parents..