i have two children one 3 and one on the way.i have noone to help me. I am about to lose my place cause my mom was staying there to help pay rent while i get state assistant and she dont want to work. I have received other state help and i am out of options. my daughters father is better off than me and my unborns father is in a different state. should i leave my daughter with her father and go to the other state to get on my feet? will my daughter hate me or think that i chose her brother over her? i am so depressed i just want the best for my kids! please help
2007-02-18 13:33:09 · 2 answers · asked by chalklati1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all.....If you can't afford to raise children, stop having them. Second of all.....doesn't the father of your 3 year old pay child support? If you've been receiving state help, did it stop? If so, why? Do you pay monthly for internet connection? Sounds like you nor your mother want any responsibility at all (looking at your other questions, she's a gambler). I feel very sorry for your children. If you tried hard enough, you could find a job. There are places out there that can help you look. I suggest you keep your knees together and start accepting responsibility. Sorry I sound so harsh, but it needs to be said. Good luck to you.
2007-02-18 13:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would find a close freind to help you out and let you move in for a while and if they could watch your kids it would be better so you could get a good paying job and get back up on your feet
2007-02-18 14:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by dylan n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋