They always fight and I am only 15 and words are soo powerful to me and I am scared of my own parents. I want there to be hope for them. Sometimes I cry my eyes out and hide away in the basement because it scares me so much. I don't mean to sound like a baby it is just I hate them arguing so much! I want to just run away sometimes.. What should I do? Sometimes I feel responsible for them fighting.
2007-02-18 10:43:08 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dear child they argue because they are insecure . It's a power struggle between them for control in their relationship,and life. Please don't take that pain as your own. You need to love yourself,love them for who they are and don't take sides. Get help from someone you trust greatly,they can support you better than someone else. Talk to your favorite teacher. Ask if there is a local org. you can go to for help. Don't lose yourself esteem,get help before you feel alone.
2007-02-18 11:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Uncle Dan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not responsable for the fights my parents fight every single day about every thing they dont even sleep on the same floor of the house any more but that is besides the point
you should pull one off to the side and tell them how you feel and even if you cant get through to that one talk to the other one and keep reminding them you dont like it your scared and feel like you did something they will stop i promise i live with my aunt and uncle and i did it to them and they will NOT fight if any one is around the only time they do now is when no one is in there house and they really slowed down and only fight once a month or less trust me talking to them will work
2007-02-18 10:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not responsible for your parents actions...only they are....
you should not be afraid to speak up and tell them how this arguing is affecting you emotionally etc....at least then you'll be in their mind next time it happens and hopefully it will be a great deterrent because you would assume loving parents wouldn't want to harm their children intentionally.......
if telling them, or at least one of them, doesn't produce results, then try talking with a school counsellor or pastor or someone outside whom you trust, you don't need to continue to live like this, it's changing who you are as a person, and it's just not right
2007-02-18 10:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not your fault, believe me my folks have split 4 times in their 16 years of being married, they're together now but sometimes I wish they weren't as much as they yell and fight. Just let them do their thing, or talk to each of them seperatly and tell them how you feel. Hope this helps.
2007-02-18 11:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋