Family - February 2007

2007-02-25 14:39:08 · 11 answers · asked by mxwltan 4

I love my mom very much and she was a great mom. I have issues with her seeing my 17 month old. I don't care if my dad see's her or holds her but when my mom gets close to her there is somthing in me that makes me jealous. It really hurts my mom but I can't stop myself. I don't like it that my daughter responds to my mom as much as she responds to me. I don't let my mom see her that much cause I don't want my daughter to respond to her. HELP

2007-02-25 14:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by Tammy E 1

My sis & I are both in our 30's. Since we were teens she would hit on my BF's. She slept w/pretty much all of them after we broke up & then she would rub it in my face. Years ago, in our 20's, we were drinking & I passed out. Her neighbor came in my room & raped me.I begged him to get off me but he wouldn't. I was so ashamed. Years later my friends daughter, who was there that nite(she was 8 then & friends w/my sis' daughter)cried while she told me that she heard my sis tell him to go into my room, when she heard me crying she begged my sis to make him stop, but my sis told her that we were having fun. How sick is that? After I confronted her, she begged my forgiveness. She said that she was jealous but that she changed. In 1995 I married a wonderful man. He died last year:( Shortly after his death, my sis & I had an argument. She told me that she slept w/him. I'm devastated. I'll never forgive her, but why does she hate me & want to destroy me & hurt me??

2007-02-25 14:35:02 · 12 answers · asked by SUN1 3

i have a 8 year old son who stays with his cousin on weekends.that is fine but my husbands sister works sometimes and leaves my son with her hubby.i dont get along with his family and he knows this but he left my son with his mother without my permission..what do i do??i dont want to keep the kids apart.and their son is afraid to stay all night away from home so he dont stay with us...help!!!!!!!1

2007-02-25 14:25:41 · 7 answers · asked by tennesseeangel_2007 2

plz help me..i wanna run away....but i dont know of any places for shelter in jackson,ms?? do u know of any that will help?? the reason i'm running away i might be pregnant...help me

2007-02-25 14:24:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live in covina ,ca

2007-02-25 14:09:48 · 1 answers · asked by fuentes_97_99 1

My daughter-in-law and I got along really well till she married my son. I have tried very hard to get along with her even applogizing when I felt like I had done nothing wrong. She says she cant get over the things that have happened between us. That she doesn't want to be around me. My son and daughter-in-law have an eleven month old(my granddaughter). I have invited them to my house several times but she doesn't want to come and my son want come without her. Someone told her not to let my son bring my granddaughter to see me without her. I admitt I have went about some things in the wrong way but nothing that shouldn't be forgiven. Do I stop calling and give her space, OR do I go to see my son and grandaughter even if she doesn't want me there. My son, when appoarched with the subject of not seeing him, says come to my house. They live an hour away I don't think its fair that I have to go down there all the time in order to see them. I could really use some advice!!

2007-02-25 13:44:40 · 12 answers · asked by memeemelissa 2

i tagged and asked my stupid teacher if i can go drink water then i tagged and the tutor snitched on us then i got in deep a** s***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-25 13:36:44 · 17 answers · asked by wierd dork = me!!!!!!! yay!!!!!! 2

How do i get my parents to trust me with some of my guy friends?

2007-02-25 13:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by panthergirl1014 1

Before I delve into the question, I'm going to provide some background information -- I am a Sophomore in High School and I am currently living in a single mother household along with a twin brother and a younger brother.

I am in a rut. You see, I do not get along with my mother or brothers, and never have. The way our personalities clash has spiraled me deeper and deeper into depression since Middle School. I have observed that the overall living environment - through emotionally worsening my quality of life - has distracted me from fulfilling my academic potential. Ultimately, I am not happy at all living in this household.

Recent events have sparked the notion to act. I realized that living in an environment I am, and have been unhappy living in is preventable. Moreover, the only place I can possibly live is with my grandma. (I haven't seen my father in 8 years and he currently is a translator in Iraq...won't see him for a long time.) Keep in mind that I've always been very close to my grandmother. We get along magically, and I am my happiest when I'm around her. My grandma currently resides in an apartment about an hour away from my residence. I believe her apartment would provide me with a peaceful, homely environment to ultimately uplift my spirits and thus excel even more academically. She has expressed interest in taking me in, however the public school near her is notorious for a student body consisting of "non-academically inclined" teenagers, and the bad reputation has gradually turned my grandmother off from the idea. I have resarched the school and have unconvered a jumble of results and student/parent reviews. The teachers there are top-notch, it is just the student body that gives the school a bad reputation. I am biding by the quote, "School is what you make of it."

I have been trying to stick it out for the last 2 years, but I've realized recently as my depression got worse that I need to speak out and act. I do not want to be living an emotional wreck, and I'm going to try to dig myself out of this hole. Please share your views without being maliciously judgemental, so to say. I appreciate this so much.

2007-02-25 13:33:28 · 5 answers · asked by jbistek6 1

ive really been going through alot in my life lately, and my parents really dont seem to understand me. Im a cutter. Ive been doing it for about 2 years. I know it doesnt make sense, but when im stressed, it makes me feel better. They arent deep cuts, just enough to bring a little blood.My mom knows that I cut, but she tries to blow it off like its nothing. Like she didnt even hear me. Today she saw my cuts again and told me that I was stupid for doing it and that I was doing it to make her mad. I dont cut cut for anyone but myself. I dont want her to see, i try to hide my cuts, not flaunt them around.No one really knows about this except my mom.If my friends knew, they wouldnt know what to do. I would end up being a loner.But anyways back to my story. I just want to know why do you think it is that my mother calls me stupid for doing it? Doesnt she know shes making me do it more.The words she says to me cut me deeper than any knide ever could. I just dontknow what to do.

2007-02-25 13:30:50 · 20 answers · asked by Mercedes <3 1

my family is super traditional....marriage then kids... well I have been dating this guy for 2 month and most of the time I have been pregnant....1.5 months. Well I finally decided to keep it.... and my boyfriend is really excited.... I mean I am 23 out of college no debt... and have a real job with a good company. But my dad is just like people in the family are going to have a BIG problem with this. Will they ever forgive me. I want this baby... i am giving up soo many dreams i have to have it... why can't they just be happy and excited for me??? PS the guy and I are thinking about getting engaged.

2007-02-25 13:26:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bestfriends grandfather is dying. she goes to see him everyweek end in the hosipital. he has cancer and when she gets home she cant talk about it cause she is so upset. i know that she needs me but i dont know what to say, i can tell her that i am here for her but she already knows that ... help plase?

2007-02-25 13:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by Meeee <3 2

up until 3 years ago my dad would always come up and he would spend around 2 or 3 hours with me everyday. after he married my step-mom he would still come up but it wouldn't be just him like it used 2 be he would bring my 3 little step-sisters. at first i was fine with it but then my step-mom started coming 2 and i got tired of not being able 2 spend any time alone with my dad so when he would call 2 see if i wanted him 2 come up i would ask 2 wait until the next day. now he doesn't even call me anymore and about once or twice every 6 months he will come up for about a half hour and then leave. i really miss spending time with him like i used 2. what would be a good way 2 get him 2 call like he used 2 or at least get him 2 stay longer when he comes up??

just so you know i live with my aunt and thats why i dont see him every day.

2007-02-25 12:59:10 · 5 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4

I just had to listen to them tell me how hopeless I am and my dad shoved me, my mom punched me in the leg. I'm 18, barely have any money to buy myself food. I commute to college. Don't want to live on campus, but can't afford to live off campus. Its not right....parents are suppose to tell you they love you and support you..not tell you you're hopeless and call you names.

2007-02-25 12:41:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

The successes, the failures, the love, the betrayals, etc. Finally find out whether Uncle Harry is really your uncle.

2007-02-25 12:40:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am on the computer about 2 hours a day, and my comp is upstairs and they dont like that . many of my parents friends have told them that it would be a good idea for them to move my comp downstairs so they could moneder it . well i dont do anything bad on the comp. but i do go on my myspace and they dont really no what it is . ayway i really want my comp back upstairs becasue i dont want them readinging everything i do so how is a good way to encourage them to put it back . its a brand new comp and is a imac , would it be a good idea to not use the comp at all and notice its going to waste or watt !!!!

2007-02-25 12:39:40 · 7 answers · asked by nina 2

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2007-02-25 12:38:53 · 21 answers · asked by brittany_teixeira 1

My mom and I have a very open relationship. But most of my friends say they can't talk to their parents at all, let alone about sex. Why is this?

2007-02-25 12:32:55 · 8 answers · asked by mackenzie 2

2007-02-25 12:31:46 · 3 answers · asked by Steve Sanders 2

ok one of my friend's passed away last yr in a motorcycle accident. our english teacher has asked us to do an essay of an experience we've had in our life, so i thought i would write about my friend's death, but i have no idea how to start any ideas??

2007-02-25 12:28:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She always gets attention. Like tonight for example I burnt myself and started screaming and my parents did not even ask me if I was OK. WHAT SHOULD I DO?/HELP

2007-02-25 12:26:36 · 2 answers · asked by -kaide. 2

lately, every time we are having fun and laghuing, she just makes a snotty comment to me. recently, we were looking at pictures and there was 1 of me with a gold, plastic hat that has a paper ring around it reading "Happy New Year". when my mom takes the pic she is all happy and doesnt say any thing and then while looking through the pic and she says, "Are you trying to be a pimp? A black, ugly, pimp?!" and this came from the women who gave me the hat in the first place. this aggravates me that she ALWAYS makes me angry while we are having fun.

2007-02-25 12:26:20 · 15 answers · asked by Kaylee 1

My mom is always putting me down. Whether she is calling me fat or useless. Its always something. I don't enjoy it. I am not fat. I am 97 lbs. And 5'3''. She makes me so upset. Ill do something wrong and she'll hold a grudge about it for months. I think there is something wrong with her. She can be really nice, but then she can be mean. When we get mad at eachother then she'll always switch things around to make it seem like I was the one who started it all. She never seems to be nice to me. She left my family once. She one time slapped me so hard that I bled just because I asked my friend for a ride to her house. I forgave her for all of that though. But I do something wrong and Its like the world is over. I sometimes really feel hate. I was 9 when she did that. Now I am 13. My parents are back together. I sometimes wish they weren't though. She treats my little sister, who is 8, like a princess. Please help me. Im really confused. Should I talk to my mom, or what?

2007-02-25 12:25:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need some ideas 4 my dads 80th b-day party its a family party
PLEASE HELP !!!!

2007-02-25 12:16:36 · 11 answers · asked by jfwh93 2

Ok, I have a younger brother and no other siblings(he's not that much younger, so he's perfectly capable of being stronger than me). And of course I'm the stronger one (btw I'm a chick), so my parents r always talking about making him strenghten his muscles or w/e, but the never make him do ANYTHING!! Seriously I have 2 do everything 4 my family, I mean everything they r so lucky I'm a good kid.I cook, clean, do work around the farm, w/e else they want me to do, and on top of all that I've got my homework to do. And they wonder y my grades r slowly but surely dropping. Last year, I was #2 in my class out of 112 and this year it's dropping gradually, most likely b-cuz of all the stress they keep putting on me. They have me do everything and my dad doesn't even trust me he's always hanging over my shoulder and if he knew I had a yahoo account he'd probably rip my head off (literally).Last week I had to do my brothers homework like all week, not even joking. And the week before that his grades had dropped to like C's and D's and I got in trouble for it, and he got detention b-cuz his homework wasn't done so it was my fault, that's y I had to do his homework.I mean come on that is an effing outrage! Yesterday my mom told me she hated me, later she acted like none of that even happened. Just like the other time, she said, "You have no feelings, you have no heart you little witch." and then she didn't even "remember" that she had said that.I'm pretty much invisible to this family unless they need me 2 do something of course. My dad tells me I'm the laziest person in the family and I'm stupid because I can't fricking see the future or w/e. And what's worse is I don't have anyone I can talk to about it, seeing as everyone in this household tells me they hate me. Music is all I have in this world, I'm invisible to the world. I would probably cry myself to sleep every nite if i wasn't so optimistic, instead of crying I have FOB singing me to sleep every nite. It's just not fair, yeah I know life isn't fair blah, blah, blah. But come on.I know there are other people in the world besides me that have to put up with this B.S. Any of those people happen to be any of you guys? Or is there just something wrong with me?

2007-02-25 12:14:49 · 6 answers · asked by key_of_reason 3

Scenario:
2.5 years ago, his father left his mother. About a year (more or less) later, his dad moved to America & married another woman. His father his moved on, he has moved on, his siblings have moved on. His mother has not moved on. She is very childish & she depends on her children for her entire emotional support. She's not moved on at all-she still doesn't work, recieves all money in alimony from her dad, and still stays home most of the time depressed, is occasionally suicidal.

My fiance' took a long time to mend ties with his dad & has really began to accept his dad & the new wife. Together they have formed a good relationship.

Well, as you can imagine, she feels that my fiance' should have nothing to do with his dad. She refuses to go to the wedding if the new wife is there. I feel that ALL should be invited, and if she doesn't come, she has to live with it. My fiance' says it will kill him if she's not there, but feels all should be invited as well.

Help please?

2007-02-25 12:08:33 · 6 answers · asked by anenkletos21 1

my sister is in a bit of legal trouble and wants to sign over custody of her son to me until she is able to care for him again..How do i do this online?We are in California

2007-02-25 11:47:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have my wife's mother which is crazy and a control freak,my brother in law who is an alcholic,one of his son's.Seven dog's and a bird in a little two bedroom house and the mother in law think's she own's it and it is just a rental.And my wife is on all kind's of drug's and just sit's in her chair 24 /7 and rarely get's up and has gained at least 150 lb's.

2007-02-25 11:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by kingbeater 1

My daughter and I can't seem to get along. She is a very disrespectfull and rude. She thinks it's funny to hurt my feelings. She is becoming the type of girl I didn't like as I was growing up. I don't like even being around her most of the time. Help me! I worry things are going to get worse.

2007-02-25 11:41:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous