Family - February 2007

Hello everyone, I am trying to find my big sister. The last time that I ever saw her was when she came to visit about a year ago. She moved back to Lawton, Oklahoma to live with her boyfriend and son. I have not spoken with her since. She gave me her phone number but it has been disconnected and I have no other way of getting in touch with her. Our family members here in TN will not help me reach her and the only thing that they have told me is that she is pregnant again and is going to get married. Her name is Canary. If you have any information about her, please feel free to contact me by e-mail anytime. Thanks.
I wanted to know if Lawton is a small city because maybe someone would know my sister.

2007-02-26 07:39:32 · 2 answers · asked by laquandraleverett 1

My half sister told me a week ago that before I was born, my dad had an affair with two women. He's gone out west to work and I'm afraid he may be doing it again. I cant tell my mom because I'm waiting for my sister to approach my dad with it-I was sworn to secrecy until she does. What can I do to cope with this?

2007-02-26 07:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by Gotha 1

my older half sister told me a week ago that my dad has fathered two or more children-theres no way of knowing, but we know of two-ones around the age 35 and another 25-28. If my dad doesnt tell us the truth when we ask him, we may never know. Any advice?

2007-02-26 07:27:26 · 1 answers · asked by Gotha 1

Like she won't leave my husband alone...What do I do?

2007-02-26 07:11:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend told me I would finally meet his family in Sep 1st, It's been 2 years and I never met them, until now, and I'm really nerves, is there anything I need to know, or prepare, or what should I bring them as a gift? Or should I bring one gift each for my boyfriend's 8 year old brother, and 12 year old sister, any advice can you give me, thanks and have a nice day.

2007-02-26 07:01:10 · 19 answers · asked by kitty 6

I totally understand about her son Daniel.I lost my son last year and he was as dear to me as Daniel was to her. Most people do not understand the depth of such love, where it leads when you're all alone in the world and your child is the only beautiful thing you have to bond with. My son was this to me. I have also created a web site in loving memory and if you wish to view it , check it out at www.chadchlebowskimemorialsanctuary.com and give me any feedback you can. I only hope some one does this for AnnaNicole. Her mother is disgusting, the judge was disgusting, it was a total fiasco in lieu of the fact that someone very beautiful and dear was murdered. I believe AnnaNicole was murdered. Whoever did this is trying to blame her depressed drug addition and has utilized this excuse to the fullest. I hope justice is done. I hope she is at peace with Daniel, just as I hope my son Chad is finally at peace. What is your believe on her death?

2007-02-26 06:55:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think i like my 23 year old adopted brother but it feels so wrong.
my family adopted him when he was 16 (and i of course was 6.)
oh yeah he also got a girl pregnant at age 20 (i was 10) so the baby boy (my nephew sorta is 10 years a part from me)
its not like he saw me in diapers and we dont have the same blood line anyway.so is it okay? and what on earth am i going to do now? plz help!?!

2007-02-26 06:39:16 · 13 answers · asked by Gd Kissa 2

My husband died years ago, leaving me with a boy and a 13 yo girl. They didn't get along, my boy always thought I loved his sister much more than him and got very jealous. At 11 she liked to tease him, things that are normal in bro/sister relationship. But he used to get very angry and even more because I used to tell him he was older and had to protect his lil sister. He ended up being mean to her, out of jealousy for several times did really bad and unacceptable things to her, like throwing her in a swimming pool when she was dressed for a party. I gave him harsh punishments, he stopped doing such things, even acknowledged he was acting out of anger and was wrong. But said I wasn't a fair mother, cause I favored her and was harsh on him, and started hating me, though never did anything wrong again. Today he's living w/ my mother-in law, who likes him. He's the kind of boy any mother would proud of, everybody likes him,. but he hates me and seems this will be forever

2007-02-26 06:37:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

To my parents eyes, i am a worthless girl, with no meaning and no reason to live. But my closest friends tell me im much more than that. They have continusly tried to marry me off, they have told me that they wanted to abort me, and they have just made my life a living hell!!!! What am i to do? Should i run away or stand up and fight against their tormenting words?!

2007-02-26 06:31:35 · 11 answers · asked by Nurin 1

values on which we used to rely

2007-02-26 06:31:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you guys pray for him as he is having a difficult time.. Thanks in advance...

2007-02-26 06:22:31 · 6 answers · asked by Jacuzzi Lover 6

In Dec, my husband & I spent time with my Mom (she lives out of state) for a family gathering. When packing to leave, my husband accidentally packed my sister’s jeans (the ones that are around $150). When at home unpacking, I realized we had them. She insisted I mail them to her even though we were all gathering again in 2 wks. Well to this day, the package has not arrived (& I did not insure them). It has turned into a HUGE argument. Normally, I would reimburse her, but 2 yrs ago, we loaned my sister almost $4K. She was "supposed" to pay us back, but we have not seen a penny of it (and don't expect to either). I told my sister I would normally pay her back, but I found it disheartening she was buying expensive jeans when she owed us (and others) so much money. Also, I told her I was confused on her double-standard: we “should” pay her back, but she has shown nothing toward paying us back. I am not going to reimburse her, but I just would like to hear other viewpoints.

2007-02-26 06:00:40 · 13 answers · asked by BMD 3

i have messed up really bad, i slept with my bf and i am 15
i have done the worst. and i dont want to live in this world anymore...my parents found out and i have been past the last 48 in a living nightmare
i have to break up with him but i care so much for him and i dont want to ....but i am going to because i cant lie anymore,according to my parents i cant talk to him, send him notes, i cant even look at him.... i feel horrible about the whole thing but my parents think i only think about myself and that i dont care about how they feel, but i do, i do very much, and i have regain their trust again
i dont know how to cope with this. so i need a little help.....

and a word of advice to others or younger.......dont be stupid, talk and be honest because lying only gets you in a deep whole, even if you can think you can get away with it, you cant so... dont

2007-02-26 05:57:39 · 21 answers · asked by its her. ♥ 1

2007-02-26 05:48:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum dad just saw a pic wher m wearing a micro mini skirt on my laptop....i made up sme story dat its my friends dress but they dnt seem to believe it ....HELP ???

2007-02-26 05:48:16 · 12 answers · asked by nishi 1

People at my highschool are extremely mean to me, and pretty much hate me in my opionon. Today it cause so bad i started to shake and controled myself, but i thought i was going to punch someone.. They are really really mean. I have told my parents about this, but they seem to think i should be able to get through this, and im just too sensitive. Well i've have numerous people threaton my life. So i went to my first class today, and walked three miles in the snow home, i skipped. My parents are going to be furious, but im sick and tired of being treated like sh8it so. I need help; how can i explain this to my parents? I would like to go to highschool where i use to live, about 30 mins. away from here, i've asked my parents about it, and they have said no, ive asked them about homeschooling, they said no. I believe my old habits that i use to have are coming back, which isn't good, and its because of all this stress and drama. Does anyone have any ideas of what to do?!

2007-02-26 05:45:34 · 17 answers · asked by Skye 5

missing.i know forever.she died jan 06.our only daughter.we have 4 sons.she was 32.we are raising her daughter who will be 11 in mar.maybe i did all the wrong things to help her.i tried so hard.will everyone pray for me?i know this is not a prayer line.just today.i feel so lost.god is with me.

2007-02-26 05:42:50 · 4 answers · asked by k 3

2007-02-26 05:38:40 · 9 answers · asked by atg 1

Can i move out of my moms house at 16 after i have my baby and move in with the babys dad?

2007-02-26 05:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley Moore 1

2007-02-26 05:34:39 · 14 answers · asked by Ized 1

What are some Child-Safe tips that I need to be aware of, for my not so frequent young visitors?

2007-02-26 05:27:45 · 7 answers · asked by kayboff 7

Ok this is about my co-sister.I notice that she keeps repeating whatever I do be it food,dressing,house decoration,etc.I enjoy being well dressed.Ok so if I happen to wear some sort of a nice dress one day, she wears exactly like the same one I wore the other day and dies to show it to me.When I say that I cooked some dish she simply says that its not a big deal and makes me feel sad.But then the next day she does the same dish and dies for me to know about it.I should also say that her mom fought with me on her wedding and from day the relationship is not so healthy between us.So we just talk for formality.But this makes me really frustrating.I dont know if something is wrong with me.In general whatever I do she simply tells thats its not a big deal but she simply copies exactly what I do,what I wear and wanted me to know about it.She wont tell it to me directly but tells to my hubby in front of me.She never even greets me when I go to her house but says hello to my hubby alone.

2007-02-26 05:23:48 · 8 answers · asked by Satin 1

My husband's sister seems to always want to sleep with my daughter, it's weird because she'll come over to play with my daughter who is two and she'll really only play with her for just a bit then before you know it she takes her to a quiet place & nap with her while she massages my daughter. I've told my husband on several ocasions that I wasn't overly comfortable with this and he supposivly spoke to her about it.yesturday she was playing with her in the basement and I didn't hear anything for a while so I went down and they were lying down on the couch and she was massageing her. I said "I thought u guys were playing, we don't need to be laying down right now and I made it clear to her that I thought it was inappropriate but her reasoning was that's how she and my daughter bond and I should stop Power tripping. I don't see a reason why a aunt and niece have to bond that way & I don't even see how a Mother can have a power trip over parenting her child.

2007-02-26 05:13:19 · 39 answers · asked by pitnomore 1

I'm 17 and my family has treated me like an adult for about four years. I do bills, babysit, get other jobs to help out, keep the house clean and I have been very mature for a long time. But now I have my first boyfriend and the rest of the world looks at my mother and says she's not doing her job to keep me from dating an older guy. My mother trusts me because of the way I am but it's not right for ppl to say things to her. Is there any way to get out on my own so people have no right to accuse my mother of anything? That way every decision I make is on me and not her.

2007-02-26 04:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 14 yr old son who takes from me w/out asking,talks back to his mother always,treats family like crap and still thinks he never does anything wrong. Sometimes I get SOOOO fed up.I'm one of those alpha type males also,so this just keeps me boiling!!!I have 2 other boys that act just fine all 3 were raised in the same house.Any advice on how to correct some issues would be very helpful.Is anybody else going through this right now??

2007-02-26 04:54:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're pretty sure she cut her brother's computer power cable with scissors, and she definitely "snitched" her friend's Blue Peter badge during a visit to the friend's house, because we found it hidden in her bedroom later. The scary part is she denies things quite credibly, even suggesting to the friend's father places he could look for it at home! Lecturing her doesn't seem to get through - anyone know what works?

2007-02-26 04:52:27 · 11 answers · asked by drbrkeeping 1

Alright.....well I'm dating thjis older guy and I really am in love with him.....He's absolutly perfect for me in every way possible.....My mom and I get along great, My dad and step dad are doing their best to keep me happy....I have a lot of friends....and I have a pending career in the music business......but there's a problem.....some Bit*h called child services saying that my mom hits me and neglects me...that my boyfriend and I are having a sexual relationship (which we're not, seeing as how much older he is than me) and that my step dad is a coke addict....child services came to my house and questioned me for over an hour....I don't want to be removed because nothing is wrong with my life.......how can I fix this??

2007-02-26 04:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by distortedbeauty2010 2

my mom thinks she's an angel, but she doesn't know she is always taking my stuff and taking over the whole house just to make me miserable. any help?

2007-02-26 04:09:42 · 12 answers · asked by LC6 2

I have a sibling that I feel needs an intervention. However whenever we try to confront this person about their behavior they will become very upset and will storm off. They are very emotional and always feel they are the victim and never at fault for any of their actions. How should we proceed? Suggestions? Their behavior is causing much concern to family. Thanks.

2007-02-26 04:08:56 · 8 answers · asked by Steve P 5

My daughter wants to go live with her father two hours away. Her father is remarried now has a step son, new baby with his new wife. I am a F-T student, working F-T and have 2 other younger children so I will be limited as to when I could see her. I don't doubt that her father can care for her but much of the care will be left up to the wife. My daughter just told me that the new wife was mean and had spanked her before, but this is not changing her decision in leaving. I do not know the new wife very well but felt some anger toward for her for spanking my daughter, and not really making her presence known to me as my childs new step parent. When she comes over she sits in the car, on the phone she is cold and talks through my daughter, they kept my daughter over the summer (her dad was away on business) and the wife left a majority of my childs clothing up to her to pack and did not return most of them. Should I rethink letting my daughter live there since wife will provide most care

2007-02-26 03:57:52 · 14 answers · asked by nene 3