Ok this is about my co-sister.I notice that she keeps repeating whatever I do be it food,dressing,house decoration,etc.I enjoy being well dressed.Ok so if I happen to wear some sort of a nice dress one day, she wears exactly like the same one I wore the other day and dies to show it to me.When I say that I cooked some dish she simply says that its not a big deal and makes me feel sad.But then the next day she does the same dish and dies for me to know about it.I should also say that her mom fought with me on her wedding and from day the relationship is not so healthy between us.So we just talk for formality.But this makes me really frustrating.I dont know if something is wrong with me.In general whatever I do she simply tells thats its not a big deal but she simply copies exactly what I do,what I wear and wanted me to know about it.She wont tell it to me directly but tells to my hubby in front of me.She never even greets me when I go to her house but says hello to my hubby alone.
2007-02-26 05:23:48 · 8 answers · asked by Satin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This girl wants to be you! She thinks you are so wonderful that she has to copy everything you do and at the same time she wants to put you down because she feels so inadequate next to you. Be careful because not only does she want your wardrobe and you house and your food... but she's after your man! She is trying to become you and take what is yours. Watch her and tell your hubby about this!
2007-02-26 05:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is really jealous of you and wants to be you and have what you have.I don't think there is anything wrong with you cause you find it wrong.I would too.She is not playing with a full deck and obviously has some issues.
I say next time you go buy a ugly dress and let her see you in it and let her go buy it.When she wears it you should say,boy that looks kinda ratty and out of style.When she says you have the same dress, say no you must be mistaken, I don't have anything like that. Mess with her a little, maybe after a while she will get the hint.If not, back her in a corner when no one else is around and tell her to get her own life and personality and to stop mocking yours or next time you will beat the crap out of her if she wears or does the same as you.Sometimes in life you have to stand up for yourself to people in order to earn their respect.Who cares if she hates you.She don't sound like anyone you should want as a friend anyway.Stop being so peaceful with someone like that.Her mom is probably just as whacked as her and you shouldn't take any of there crap.Its your man and your life, protect it when need be or expect to deal with this from them forever.
Good Luck!
2007-02-26 13:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to her and telling her how she is making you feel? Sometimes that is the best thing to do. And no, there is nothing wrong with you, plenty of people get frustrated by others actions ... for one reason or another!
2007-02-26 13:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Barbi and Justin 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this relationship is consuming you so much, you need to let it go. You are powerless over other peoples behaviors but you don't have to participate in them. Confrontation and Contempt are wasted on a person like her, so just let it go and enjoy YOUR life.
2007-02-26 13:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is trying to take your husband. If she only says hi to him, and shows him things that you did a few days before. Then maybe she want to take him from you. I don't know, just a thought.
2007-02-26 13:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by TheRaven_poe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imitation is one of the greatest forms of flattery, but it is also one of the creepiest, if you ask me.
2007-02-26 13:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by mark my words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy people look up to you....
2007-02-26 13:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by questions472837163587 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like she looks up to you or something, idk. Maybe she just wants you to think she is cool or something. Idk, it depends on how old she is too.
2007-02-26 13:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Stacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋