Family - February 2007

I am very sad recently while celebrating Chinese New Year,finally l realized l have a scary mom,a selfish and stubborn lady who never care of her daughter's feeling.....l am sad.....we can have a happy family still even though my dad left us when l was 5,but because of my mom's character,l lost family.Now l understand why my dad left,l have been suffering for so many years,l really dont know how to accept her as my mom.....how？

2007-02-26 03:27:49 · 12 answers · asked by flyflyfly 1

hey every one i just wanted know everyones opinion on teenage motherhood and if the teen mother does not no where the father is or much about him.

please respond back

2007-02-26 03:26:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex has been sleeping with the local bike and now she says she is pregnant. Am i wrong to say i dont wont my 5 year old to ever find out about it or have any contact with this child? I know for a fact this women sleeps about, in my eyes it may not even be his.

2007-02-26 03:25:16 · 18 answers · asked by sm80 3

i need help im 18 and pregnant should i tell my parents

2007-02-26 03:21:54 · 38 answers · asked by Hannah H 1

Can it really mess a person up emotionally if they were molested as a child by their uncle, and the first person they told (their aunt) told them not to tell anyone because he will go to jail and the child will get in trouble? What kind of problems do you think that person will have now?

2007-02-26 03:16:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found online a place to buy anthrax online im not sure how powerful anthrax is but i figure it would make a good prank! Maybe put it in my teachers food or coffee........or just throw it in someones face with water!

2007-02-26 03:13:31 · 9 answers · asked by Terrorist! 1

I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been friends for almost 2 years and have been together for 8 months. We want to and plan on getting married and having a family. I plan on moving in with him and his family this summer after I graduate high school. My parents expect a lot out of me and expect me to live with them for a long time. I get along better with my boyfriends family, then I do my own. I feel more love from his family, then my own. So, my question is what is the best way to tell my parents I plan on moving out without a huge freak out from them, because if you knew my mom, she would defiantly throw a fit...even though she married my father a week after she turned 18.

2007-02-26 03:11:19 · 13 answers · asked by andys_mcr_chick 1

ok my son just came in from school and asked to go in for friend round the corner.ive said yes and im sitting here wondering if he,s ok!! he,s only started going out on his own and knows the boundarys and i have to say sticking to them .so why is it i feel sick every time he,s out on his own?be back by 5 god i wish it was 5 ....does this feeling go away?.

2007-02-26 03:09:01 · 14 answers · asked by smiler 4

I don't like confrontation. I don't want people to be angry with me. I don't want to annoy anyone. I look at the way other people act and try to avoid doing the things that annoy or bother me--asking 5 times if I'm supposed to do something when I've been told 6. The problem is that I feel like a doormat. I express my wishes about little things--don't cut my daughter's hair without my permission. They are ignored. I am told to "get off my high horse." I know that they are only little things, but it hurts my feelings. I feel like I'm constantly going out of my way to make everyone else happy and comfortable. I want to keep doing that. I like caring for others. I enjoy making others happy. But it seems that when I stand up for myself--asking why someone deliberately went against my wishes--I'm chastised and told that I'm too impatient and to demanding. It seems that I say, "Just forget about it" to myself every day about something. And it's making my heart hurt.

2007-02-26 03:08:47 · 9 answers · asked by wowee 1

how do i let my parents know i hate living where i moved when i know it would hurt them since theyre kinda sick of me making fun of this place, this is where they grew up, and pretty much had no choice but to move here? how do i let them know im homesick...i miss my friends who live across the country now? how do i let them know im so unhappy with everything now?how do i let my mom know shes putting way too much stress on me right now, and i have a lot of stress that i cant even begin to tell her since we have such a bad relationship?
help!

2007-02-26 02:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by teenagegraffiti 2

I need some advice. My wife has a twin sis and they are from another country. I just got married and her sis just got divorced. My former bro in law gave my wife's sister $1000 and a plane ticket and sent her to my house! I have had her here 2 wks, found her a room-mate (she moves today), bot her a bed, fed her and entertained her for 2 weeks. Her ex is very selfish, thinks I shud let her stay here 6 mos to save money etc. I work from home and its hard just with my wife here (who can't work now).
My sis-in-law is 23, she's an adult, but she has done little to find work in 2 weeks-she drinks all my coffee and sleeps til10am. She didnt contest the divorce, and got no settlement. Am I doing anything wrong by standing up for myself and making her move on? I dont have a bedrm for her as my spare is a gym. I think her cheapo ex just dumped her on me and I should never have agreed to house her. Isnt this his problem? She has never had a job before and I fear this is going to get worse.

2007-02-26 02:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by Chico 3

Reason being is that I am one of 3 children, and I seem to be the only one that feels like I do not have to travel or always be out and about to have fun. I seem to enjoy my time at home with quietness or working around the house. I have no desire to travel or go out to eat all the time. Everyone in my family seems to enjoy goign out of town to have fun and they all enjoy eating out a lot. I am just the opposite. I enjoy cooking and I enjoy working on projects at the house or just sitting on my rear. Please don't get me wrong, I enjoy going out to eat and going out of town every once in a while but it seems like everyone in my family this week have to do this every week or month to enjoy life, and that is just not me. I know we all must find ourselves and our own ways but how often does only one person from the family be like this. I feel like I fell way far from the tree.

2007-02-26 02:46:00 · 8 answers · asked by Wonderboy 1

okay yesterday i went to my cousins house right i found out that my sister has been sexually active and on drugs sense she was 10 yrs old and was stealing cigarrettes from my dad she is a bad influence and yet all the attention is always on me i get in trouble alot now and she is the one they should care about more because i am only a few months away from 18 yr old and she is only 16 I DON'T know what to do its hard to talk to her or even look at her she doesn't know that know see her differently now but how do i cope with the new her

2007-02-26 02:44:36 · 9 answers · asked by web gurl 1

I am a 23 year old man and my grandfather is 87. I have been helping him since his illness in november, and for 4 months ive been walking to his house everyday and bringing him groceries, newspaper, medicine when he needs it, and spending about an hour with him everyday. i am not doing this for money but to help my grandfather. However, I do not have a job, and I could really use some money. I would like it if i could ask him for some money, either $100 weekly, or a lump sum of $5,000. He owns many stocks, and has about $500,000. Am I out of line, or should i be comfortable asking him for the money? If I can ask him, how should I go about doing it ? What should I say ? Thanks.

2007-02-26 02:31:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you look at men with contempt do you hate men , maybe you were raped which is not right but to hate men in general is not right or for men to hate women remember if it wasnt for men planeting the seed in the field it would just be dirt so dont sit there looking at your girl friend telling you her dreams and problems get a guy and stop hating , if you love men say it loud i love women i am very respectfull i may mispell words but im probaly smarter than you

2007-02-26 02:30:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father passed away suddenly on February 10th after battling with stroke for 7 years. I brought my father up from the state where we lived for 12 years because I wanted him to be closer to me, his only daughter. My family wasn't going to visit him check on him or anything. He had been living in an assisted living facility with no visits for almost 3 years when I went down to get him to bring him up here closer to where I live so that I could visit with him several times a week. His death has hurt me very much but I am happy that we did get to spend the last 8 months of his life together.
Now my relatives back home are being critical of the way I handled his final arrangements. There was no life insurance policy so I had to take out a $4000 persoanl loan. I wanted to have him buried in NY beside my mother but was financially unable to afford this. So in the end I wound up buring him here in the state where I live now. Was I wrong for the way I handled it? Serious advice!

2007-02-26 02:29:30 · 21 answers · asked by joyce 5

My family has three computers, three TV sets, two gameboy DS, a laptop, three DVD (one portable), and cellphones.

Then why Am I feeling not that happ all the time?

2007-02-26 02:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by MHal Ed 2

I have 3 actully 4 sisters. They are a pain in the butt. Please help me!

2007-02-26 01:58:51 · 6 answers · asked by www.kelly_white 1

My daughter is 16 months old. I have been looking forward to taking her to get her first haircut since she was born. I thought about doing all these mother-daughter things even before she was born. My wishes were very clearly expressed to my family (my own as well as my in-laws) Everyone knew that I planned to take her and that it was very important to me. Here begins the prob! I was sitting with my daughter in my lap and I noticed that she had snips on her bangs. I immediately called my mother (as she had been watching her earlier in the week) and asked her--very calmly and politely if she had cut my daughter's hair. I want to stress here that I was very calm and polite when I asked. My mother snapped back, "No and GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE!" My husband asked his mother and she said there was no way that she had cut her hair because she had gone through this before with her first daughter-in-law and we had had a conversation about this earlier in the week. What do you think?

2007-02-26 01:51:58 · 14 answers · asked by wowee 1

My parents insist that I cannot play any computer games even if I finish all my homework until the holidays come and they expect the best results from me!It is almost i impossible to get top in ur class for evrything,rite?So pls give me ur advice on wat I shld do as I try avoiding secretly palying computer games due to my conscience.And how do I score well?I seem to be lazy and always procastinate.And I always score avergae in quizzes and tests,no mater how much I study.Pls help me!Thx a lot.

2007-02-26 01:46:47 · 10 answers · asked by Blank 3

2007-02-26 01:46:04 · 5 answers · asked by just curious 1

with the exception of reading my 7 yr old seems to get hardly any homework?thinking it was maybe just him forgetting to bring it home i asked a few other parents and they said the same.how much homework does youre child get?( around the same age would be helpful)

2007-02-26 01:42:14 · 6 answers · asked by smiler 4

2007-02-26 01:16:18 · 12 answers · asked by Mama 2

I went to school with this girl for years but then her family and her moved away and sadly we lost contact, so does anyone know a Belinda O' Connor she lives in Dublin Ireland. Ok well she did the last time we spoke,

Any help would be very much appericated.

Thanks

2007-02-26 01:12:33 · 6 answers · asked by Lynda27 3

I have two boys ages 7 and 12 and they are good boys, my fiance has 3 children who are 2 girls ages 12 and 7 and a boy who is 8 they are also great kids. My concern is the 7 year old little girl..my boyfriend referrs to her as a baby and talks baby talk to her and there is a lack of dicsipline with her. She gets away with everything like if you ask her to clean her room that she has trashed she throws a temper tantrum and says she is a princess and everyone else is suppose to clean it for her, and her father will make the older sister clean it. I beleive in kids eating all there dinner if they do they get dessert and if not they dont get it, all the kids will eat so they get there treat if the little girl doesnt eat she throws a fit because she has it in her head she is a princess and her dad gives into her. Her mother and father spoil her so bad and I feel that doesnt teach her anything his excuse is shes a "baby" and needs to get spolied. I am a parent and I disagree.

2007-02-26 01:10:36 · 17 answers · asked by lilshedevil 1

I would like to find my birth mum, does any one know where to start or of any sites that may have any success?
I feel incomlete and this is something i feel i need to do although i also dont want to offend my parents at the same time, they seem they dnt want to talk about it and i cant access any information without them!

2007-02-26 01:04:51 · 9 answers · asked by Leesa 2

Hi ,iam swathi.i have two younger sisters.I finished my B.E.One of my sister is doing her B.E final year and another one B.com final year.while i was working ,i fell in love with one person.He is a business person ie.he is running photo studio and its his own.He is a photographer.HE discontinued his B.com.He is a good person with good values.I am a converted christian and he is hindu.The problem was we both said to our parents .his parents accepted and my parents didnt accepted.my father was A.E in govt.i am confused with whether i have to run away or leave him,becoz of me my parents and my parents should not get suffered.I cant live without him and he too.I have also doubt tat whether i have to leave my christianity.please answer wat to do.i can earn 12000 each month and he can earn 10000.Please suggest me wat to do.

2007-02-26 00:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many people out there got snow this weekend? i did and at my dads house we got about 3 feet of snow and at my moms house we got about 2 feet of snow. and i live in MN.

2007-02-26 00:57:32 · 10 answers · asked by chickie 2

2007-02-26 00:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs Stevo 2

2007-02-26 00:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous