my mom thinks she's an angel, but she doesn't know she is always taking my stuff and taking over the whole house just to make me miserable. any help?
2007-02-26 04:09:42 · 12 answers · asked by LC6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The more you let it visibly bother you, the more she's going to do it. Find other things to occupy your time - read a book, do a puzzle, etc. If she sees that she's not bothering you, she will most likely try harder to bother you, but if you keep ignoring it, she will eventually stop because it's no longer fun.
She's from "out of town" and she WILL eventually go home - hang in there ...
Good Luck! :-)
2007-02-26 04:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by ~April~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...I hate people like that!!! I hate people touching my stuff, taking my stuff and being rude for no good reson. So I know how you feel! So, treat this as a learning experience...cos you know what? You will be meeting people like that throughout your life so you better learn how to deal with them sooner or later (and it is best to do it sooner than later)! So, first you have to realize: family or no, you don't have to be nice to her just cos she is a blood relative. Second, you have to decide how mean you want to be to her or what you are prepared to do (cos obviously talking to her won't do much pr telling your parents about the mean things she does won't help either-so realize that you are on your own on this one). Third thing you need to do is devise a plan how you are going to teach her a lesson. My advice: depending on how rude you want to be (and how pissed off you are with her) I would take some laxatives (something non-prescription that you can pick up for cheap in CVS), brake the pills into powder and slip them in her drink when she is not looking (I take no responsibility for the consequences...just make sure you don't give her more than the prescribed dose...and ONLY if it doesn't work ONLY then you can give her a double dose)! (and if you want to be really rude and scare the living hell out of her) take pictures of her sitting on the toilet and tell her that if she ever takes anything from you, you will publish the photos on the internet (or just call some boys over to laugh at her)...and of course deny everything when she tells your parents...so you have to be sneaky about it...take photos, dave them on a CD and then erase them immidiately!!!Either way, even without photos, her weekend will be spoiled! Or you can put some itchy stuff (skin irritants-research on internet) on her clothes so she gets all red...that's what I would do.and make sure you devise your plan so you don't get caught (that's very important)! Most importantly, do NOT let her upset you! No matter what she does, don't get upset (cos for her that's what messing with you is all about )! If she takes something of yours, don't react and take it back when she is not looking..then take something of hers and tear it up or hide it...let her know that it is not a good idea to joke with you...be though!!! Good luck!
2007-02-26 12:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is only there for a short time then deal with it and be as pleasant as you can, if it is a long term thing then have your mother mediate a conversation between the two of you where some ground rules can be set up. And try and think of what you can do, sometimes if we adjust our behavior other people will change, remember you get more bees with sugar then vinegar.
2007-02-26 12:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Phillip P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can put your stuff away, so she can not get hold of them. If you want to teach her a lesson, take away her stuff to see how she feels. Then you two can trade in stuff.
I bet she will not stay very long at your house. If you really can not put up with her, you should let your mom know how you feel.
2007-02-26 12:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...pack up your personal belongings and put a lock on it....put itching powder in her underwear...and try to make yourself invisible as much as possible...then you have no choice but to wait it out...
Or...you could actually try and befriend her...and maybe it would make the stay more tolerable for everone. Good luck.
2007-02-26 12:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a male, one day stand naked in front of her as if accidentally. Then onwards she will avoid you. If you are a married female, talk about about your husband, your jewellary etc. She will never meet you again. If you are an unmarried female, ask about something she lacs. She will never call on yu again.
2007-02-26 12:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by pootee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have storage, for starters?
Put your best stuff AWAY away, in the garage, attic, whatever.
Then, grin and bear it.
One day, you just never know what'll happen and how much you will need her.
2007-02-26 12:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just deal with it. It's not like their going to be around for long.
2007-02-26 12:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a friends house. or go do something out of her reach
2007-02-26 12:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can lock your room and also try to stay away from her.
2007-02-26 12:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋