People at my highschool are extremely mean to me, and pretty much hate me in my opionon. Today it cause so bad i started to shake and controled myself, but i thought i was going to punch someone.. They are really really mean. I have told my parents about this, but they seem to think i should be able to get through this, and im just too sensitive. Well i've have numerous people threaton my life. So i went to my first class today, and walked three miles in the snow home, i skipped. My parents are going to be furious, but im sick and tired of being treated like sh8it so. I need help; how can i explain this to my parents? I would like to go to highschool where i use to live, about 30 mins. away from here, i've asked my parents about it, and they have said no, ive asked them about homeschooling, they said no. I believe my old habits that i use to have are coming back, which isn't good, and its because of all this stress and drama. Does anyone have any ideas of what to do?!
2007-02-26
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2007-02-26 06:14:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Have you tried a counselor at your current school? Or have you tried a teacher that you feel comfortable talking to? I'm sorry you have to be going through all this crap and unfortunately it doesn't stop in the "Real World" either, people are cruel so naturally children are gonna be cruel. Anyhow, be strong and keep your head up, don't return to old habits but instead keep on a positive road so you can have a great and successful future. Do you or have you read the bible? Why I ask is because I am a spiritual person who believe that Elohim is always with me, so therefore when people mistreat me, I know you reap what you sew. I would definitely try again to talk to your parents and give them actual events and facts on who and what is making your life so miserable, I don't think you are too emotional if it is effecting you this badly then you need to do something about it, soon, actually now! I hope I have been some help to you...
2007-02-26 13:54:33
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answered by livlovelaugh 2
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You know just like you I am very sensitive and people at my school use to treat me like crap too. They called me a witch and said I did witchcratft but I'm a christian and was then too. The only reason they do this is because they are jealous. You mentioned that your parents won't listen. Well do you have anyone else you can talk to such as if you are religious a church member, a older sibling, an aunt or uncle, or a cousin maybe. If not try talking to the school guidance counselor. Remember nobody is allowed to judge you and that no matter what anyone says you are special and you just have to ignore them. I know it can be tough but suicide is not the way out. If you ever need someone to talk to contact me okay.
2007-02-26 14:31:41
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answered by Ashley 3
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In every school today there should be an "anti Bullying" policy. Please talk to your school guidance counsellor about this. And to talk to your parents you need to be mature. Sit down beforehand and write down EVERYTHING that is being done to you and by whom. Ask your parents to sit down at the kitchen table with you before dinner or after, no phone calls, no tv, nothing else, just you and them. Ask them to let you have your say before they interrupt. Tell them it has become unbearable in your opinion (and your perception of this situation is the one that counts). You may need to talk to a therapist to help you deal with it, but the school can step in and control the situation also. My 10 year old daughter is going thru the same thing and I spoke to the principal on Friday and now that the school is aware of it they are keeping an eye on the situation. I also thought the situation was minor until a friend of mine who is an lunchroom aide at the school told me Thursday night of a very specific incident on Thursday afternnon (I started to cry when she was telling me how they tormented my child). The good news is that high school doesn't last forever and you will eventually graduate and move forward with your life and be able to choose the people who you let into your inner circle and not bother with those you don't want. Please talk to your parents and the school guidance counselor as soon as possible. Good luck to you and God Bless.
2007-02-26 13:55:20
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answered by tersey562 6
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You are treated like this because you are not strong enough to face the people who are doing this to you and by changing the school you are just running away from the problem. Don't let other people control your life and by changing the school you will give your life's control to other people. Just remember that this is the beginning of your life and you will have to face much more harsh things and if you run away now you will be running for the rest of your life. Don't give up and face those mean people. And start respecting yourself and people around you will just follow.
2007-02-26 13:57:35
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answered by rocker2007 2
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go to your guidance counselor at school explain your problem and ask them to help you tell your parents, if you don't feel good with that how about writing a letter to your parents and mail it and in the letter explain everything you feel and also express that you feel that they are not there for you when you need them and that you feel like things are out of control if they still do not get it then call a teen hot line and talk to someone that can make it happen and if this does not work then call the child abuse hot line and let them know you need help and your parents are not being responsive and you feel like you want to do old habits and you don't want that. don't stop trying to get help . and if you have to ditch to feel safe then your parents really needs help .
2007-02-26 13:56:25
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answered by sexyswells42 4
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I would talk with the principal of your school, the school counselor and your teachers. I have a 13 year old son and if he told me something like that, I would do some serious bitching at the school and then if that didn't change, i would move him to another school. Sorry that you have to go through all of this. If they are making death threats.. take that up with the cops and let them know how scared and worried you are.
2007-02-26 13:52:13
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answered by Anonymous
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calm down now, these kids are just jealous of you and are playing with your emotions.
Dont give in to any of them, just smile and ignore them, saying something nice back to them really changes folks like this attitude.
Love yourself and these kids that are mean just want your attention cause they are not getting the attention at home.
Here is a secret, open the holy bible in your house and remember a bible verse and when u are at school tomorrow and these kids act mean, just repeat that verse in your head, it works and the kids will back off.
these mean kids have evil forces in them and are trying to mess with ya, dont let em.
that is the power of God in full force.
Now, u got to tell your Ma, u left school early cause u were feeling sick and need a note for tomorrow.
Hang in there and think positive, dont let any mean kid keep u from your education.
2007-02-26 13:53:00
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answered by sunflare63 7
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You might consider talking to an outside source such as a counselor. I would definitely get a handle on this situation before you do something bad. A school counselor or community counselor would be able to talk to you confidentially.
2007-02-26 13:51:47
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answered by Anonymous
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talk to your school counselor... if some one is threatening to harm you, then an athority figure needs to know about it. Take a small tape recorder and put it in your backpack, then, turn it on when you get to school, when you come home play it back for your parents. That will show them you're serious about whats going on with you being threatened...Good Luck.
2007-02-26 13:51:09
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answered by LittleLady 5
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