Confused about my mother.?

Question

My mom is always putting me down. Whether she is calling me fat or useless. Its always something. I don't enjoy it. I am not fat. I am 97 lbs. And 5'3''. She makes me so upset. Ill do something wrong and she'll hold a grudge about it for months. I think there is something wrong with her. She can be really nice, but then she can be mean. When we get mad at eachother then she'll always switch things around to make it seem like I was the one who started it all. She never seems to be nice to me. She left my family once. She one time slapped me so hard that I bled just because I asked my friend for a ride to her house. I forgave her for all of that though. But I do something wrong and Its like the world is over. I sometimes really feel hate. I was 9 when she did that. Now I am 13. My parents are back together. I sometimes wish they weren't though. She treats my little sister, who is 8, like a princess. Please help me. Im really confused. Should I talk to my mom, or what?

Answer 1

oh--baby girl..... you go to someone else..... talk to any
one that will listen...... don't you ever let anyone treat you
that way.... stand up for yourself... if your in the grocery
store some-one will hear you hollering..... and don't ever
let her slap you again.....never-- in a lifetime...... stand up
and fight can't be no worse..... sorry, went through the same thing..... just makes me mad....... to see another
precious angel going through that.....

Answer 2

My mom was like that. You need to talk to someone other than your mother. Someone that you trust, a relative, a friend's parent or a teacher. It won't get better. You need to know that it is not your fault. You don't deserve to be treated that way. I'm sorry that you are going through this and your sister is being treated so differently. It seems wrong, but at the same time you would want her to treat your sister the way she treats you either. With me, it was my brother and still is. You need to get help now from someone that you trust, you should not be slapped and verbally and emotionally abused. Please talk to someone right away. You are not a horrible person, you deserve to be loved.

Answer 3

Talk to social services. Abusers always pick one child and they never have cruelty as a motive. She needs parenting classes at the very least, and possibly a custody hearing.

Answer 4

Talk to an adult at your school.. or a close aunt, grandmother..maybe being with them would be better