My sis & I are both in our 30's. Since we were teens she would hit on my BF's. She slept w/pretty much all of them after we broke up & then she would rub it in my face. Years ago, in our 20's, we were drinking & I passed out. Her neighbor came in my room & raped me.I begged him to get off me but he wouldn't. I was so ashamed. Years later my friends daughter, who was there that nite(she was 8 then & friends w/my sis' daughter)cried while she told me that she heard my sis tell him to go into my room, when she heard me crying she begged my sis to make him stop, but my sis told her that we were having fun. How sick is that? After I confronted her, she begged my forgiveness. She said that she was jealous but that she changed. In 1995 I married a wonderful man. He died last year:( Shortly after his death, my sis & I had an argument. She told me that she slept w/him. I'm devastated. I'll never forgive her, but why does she hate me & want to destroy me & hurt me??
2007-02-25 14:35:02 · 12 answers · asked by SUN1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What your sister did was horrible. You should stop seeing her and keep her out of your life. Once she is out of your life, you need to heal yourself. Go away on vacation, find new friends, and be grateful for good things that you do have. Try and forget the past and start a new life. You need to treat yourself well.
Stop watching the news and reading newspapers - there's only negativity. Watch comedy only. You need to laugh to heal yourself.
And watch this online movie - it's very inspirational and uplifting.
http://thesecret.tv/secret-to-you/
Begin your NEW life NOW. You can do it.
2007-02-25 15:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because we can't choose our families doesn't mean we have to put up with them, dearheart. Your sister sounds absolutely sociopathic, and no amount of jealousy or resentment justifies what she's done to you. It's rough that she's your sister, but real siblings should always have each others back - even if they can't get along with each other. Your sister is just a vampire, and you don't need that in your life.It sucks, but if this is the way it's always been, then this is the way it'll always be - cut her out.
And about her sleeping with her husband? She didn't - it's just one more shot she was taking at you by saying it - don't let her ruin your memories of him, after everything else she's done.
2007-02-25 14:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 00:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by coriolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She maybe just telling you that to hurt you so don't listen to her she is very jealous of you if i were you i would move far away from her and cut off any ties with her cause she acts like a real bit**
2007-02-25 14:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like your sister has some real mental problems, id say and i hate the thought of breaking up families, but she cant be trusted at all, i wouldn't trust her in my house or around my kids, she is really ill, be very careful if you decide to hang around her, id even watch my money and things, she sounds like she's really jealous of you and your life and she wants you to feel like her, please be very careful and make sure boyfriends and if you have kids that they know shes sick and to stay away from her, protect yourself, try to find help for her if you really want to do something
2007-02-25 15:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not your sister. The second she put you in danger by rape on purpose is not something a family member would do. I know this sounds harsh but if she keeps doing it to you I think you should tell her she is not welcome in your life.
Someone who takes advantage of you like this over and over does not deserve to have you in their life. It is a hard decision but I think you need to make it.
2007-02-25 14:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by cvhuntaylor 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let me say I am sorry for your loss. Regarding your sister, I would never introduce her to any guy you date. If you meet a guy and decide to marry him, Don't invite her to the wedding. If you are asked why you kept her away, tell the person to ask her.
Good luck
2007-02-25 14:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im sorry but thats pretty crappy that she told a guy to rape you a said you was having a little fun. You should tell her to get her own man and CUT HER OUTTA YOUR LIFE p.s Shes probably jelouse that you can get a guy
2007-02-25 14:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by *~*Aliizzle*~* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry! It sounds like she was very jealous of you for some reason. If I were you, I would seriously consider writing her out of life forever.
2007-02-25 14:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to hear that but u need to keep ur personal life away fr her
2007-02-25 15:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋