Ok, I have a younger brother and no other siblings(he's not that much younger, so he's perfectly capable of being stronger than me). And of course I'm the stronger one (btw I'm a chick), so my parents r always talking about making him strenghten his muscles or w/e, but the never make him do ANYTHING!! Seriously I have 2 do everything 4 my family, I mean everything they r so lucky I'm a good kid.I cook, clean, do work around the farm, w/e else they want me to do, and on top of all that I've got my homework to do. And they wonder y my grades r slowly but surely dropping. Last year, I was #2 in my class out of 112 and this year it's dropping gradually, most likely b-cuz of all the stress they keep putting on me. They have me do everything and my dad doesn't even trust me he's always hanging over my shoulder and if he knew I had a yahoo account he'd probably rip my head off (literally).Last week I had to do my brothers homework like all week, not even joking. And the week before that his grades had dropped to like C's and D's and I got in trouble for it, and he got detention b-cuz his homework wasn't done so it was my fault, that's y I had to do his homework.I mean come on that is an effing outrage! Yesterday my mom told me she hated me, later she acted like none of that even happened. Just like the other time, she said, "You have no feelings, you have no heart you little witch." and then she didn't even "remember" that she had said that.I'm pretty much invisible to this family unless they need me 2 do something of course. My dad tells me I'm the laziest person in the family and I'm stupid because I can't fricking see the future or w/e. And what's worse is I don't have anyone I can talk to about it, seeing as everyone in this household tells me they hate me. Music is all I have in this world, I'm invisible to the world. I would probably cry myself to sleep every nite if i wasn't so optimistic, instead of crying I have FOB singing me to sleep every nite. It's just not fair, yeah I know life isn't fair blah, blah, blah. But come on.I know there are other people in the world besides me that have to put up with this B.S. Any of those people happen to be any of you guys? Or is there just something wrong with me?
2007-02-25 12:14:49 · 6 answers · asked by key_of_reason 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is nothing wrong with you, since you are the oldest child your family automatically assumes that you can handle all of these things that they are throwing your way which is wrong but they look for you to put function into your dysfunctional family. I myself went through a similar situation the only thing you can do is keep your head up and pray that 18 will come as quick as it can so you can get out of there.
2007-02-25 12:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there...there is an end to it all. I am the oldest of four, raise my little brother for the first three years of his life, ...bla bla The only joy I had in school was being in flag corp in the band and singing in various different groups (when I wasn't restricted from church!). I've been there and done that...but ya know what? I was 18 and moved out, still graduated on time, got a job, was married three years later and life goes on.... My mother and I are still not talking and I'm 41 at present. It's her choice, not mine.
There is nothing wrong with you. Later you will understand that your parents' upbringing has a lot to do with how they are raising you and your siblings. My best to you! Stay strong and look for the bright future you deserve. Cling to the hope of things to come and stay in the best graces of your parents as much as you can before you get out. Good luck honey!
2007-02-25 20:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's soF***ING sad u just need 2 relax may b ur mom has a bad memory i don't feel loved 2 the only people i feel that like me r my niece, my sisters (2) amd my friends my retarded teacher doesn't trust me because i almost got suspended 4 tagging ever since october. i hardly feel ur pain. PEACE OUT.
2007-02-25 20:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by wierd dork = me!!!!!!! yay!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah thats how my mom and her dame boyfriend boyfriend use to be. just stay strong are you could do what i did and beat the shet out of my moms boyfreind
2007-02-25 20:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by saske 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are loved
2007-02-25 20:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋