lately, every time we are having fun and laghuing, she just makes a snotty comment to me. recently, we were looking at pictures and there was 1 of me with a gold, plastic hat that has a paper ring around it reading "Happy New Year". when my mom takes the pic she is all happy and doesnt say any thing and then while looking through the pic and she says, "Are you trying to be a pimp? A black, ugly, pimp?!" and this came from the women who gave me the hat in the first place. this aggravates me that she ALWAYS makes me angry while we are having fun.
2007-02-25 12:26:20 · 15 answers · asked by Kaylee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
to those people that i may have offended by my sayings(ugly black), i am very, very, terribly sorry! :( i did not maen anything(at least i didnt)offending. i am very sorry. :(
2007-03-02 10:30:41 · update #1
That does not mean that your mom hates you. Just ask your mom why she always tries to ruin fun times when yall are having fun. Try to hang out with her like go places with her. If you need anymore help just ask a question on here and I will try to answer it also.
2007-02-25 12:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by -kaide. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo sorry you feel that way. It may seem like that, but really your mom is just upset about something, maybe she upset that her girl is growing up and thinks that if she puts you down it will keep you from growing up.....it might be something else. you will never know, UNLESS.....you CALMLY sit her down and TALK (not yell) about whats happening. If she gets snappy, just say you want to find out what you are doing that makes her so unhappy. and try to meet in the middle. There might be something that you do that makes her mad that you dont realize, it happens..... just be calm, thats the thing......Good Luck and hope i helped :)
Remember: Always smile, cuz you'll never know who will be falling in love with your smile! :^)
2007-02-25 20:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why she would do that. I hate to say this but it seems as if she has sort of a resentment or jealousy towards you. It is hard to tell for sure.
Calling you ugly is somewhat abusive though.
2007-02-25 20:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's jealous of you. I know that might seem sad but why does anyone ever make fun of another??? Because they're jealous of them right. You momma needs help. Or even better pretend that it don't bother you so then she'll go crazy. LOL!
2007-02-25 20:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Destinee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has some serious self esteem issues. I'd just quit playing with her and if she says anything, tell her why you quit.
2007-02-25 20:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a talk to her about it. It sounds like she has an issue. You shouls sort it out before is gets worse
2007-02-25 20:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt hate u maybe shes just doesnt know what to say around u if u wnat to or feel comfortable with it ask sit down and talk to her
2007-02-25 20:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by bbydoll09" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom how you feel she may think she is just being funny so politely voice how this makes you feel.
2007-02-25 20:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just testing your temper, just laugh it off and she will quit this foolishness.
Just have fun and ignore foolish comments .
2007-02-25 20:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you mother can possibly benefit from mental health counseling.
2007-02-25 20:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋