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2007-02-25 12:38:53 · 21 answers · asked by brittany_teixeira 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dont complain just be glad you have her around Someone killed my little sister in 2005 I would give my life just to have her around. I used to feel the same way, I guess you never know what youve got until its gone. Dont let this happen to you tommorrow i never promised.
2007-02-25 12:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Keisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister won't shut up because you ' big sister' she is trying to get your attention! Her constant ways are letting you know that she drawing her love toward you, honestly, please allow me to explain.
Your baby sister has a desire to draw her affection to you. She sees something in you that she wants to be part of. So, much that she is over looking of being closer to you then her mother. What's your sister is doing is the most beautiful act, because she is reaching out to you as an older and trusted best friend. She is waiting for you to deliver the bond that's burning in her.
Let me ask you this question! You want her to be cool, right? Buy her a small gift and card. Write in the card how you appreciate being her sister, and sometimes her behavior is not being a cool little sister. Write it in detail that she can understand it!
When she is asleep put it on her bed, so when she wakes up and see your present. It would put the widest and glorious smile on her face, and be prepare because she is going to come into your room to say thank you.
If she don't have the card with her, request for her to go it! When she return sit her on the bed and read the card with a smile on your face and then express this to her
"Lets make a deal, when I feel like talking we can talk ok?, but if I am busy or tired, we can talk later, alright? I really do love you. You're my baby sister!"
Treat out for some pizza or ice cream that afternoon, and you will see a total different person. The main facts is you have gain a friend, and what's more beautiful it is you're sister! She is waiting for you. I don't know why she is over looking her mom, but she want to be close to you. There is something she sees in you that she trust.
Maybe she watching how you are growing up and she idolized your ways so much your sister values you. If you make every attempt to become friends with her, her instincts about you will be true.
Its not over yet. Spend sometime with her, help her with her homework. When a problem arise at school you'll be the one to accompany your mom to talk to the teacher, and most of all Big Sister you are there to give her advice. When you are with you friends don't belittle her. If you have good friends they will appreciate the closeness of your sister or be jealousy because they don't have their closeness to their little brother or sister. In fact ask about her well being.
"Are you okay?"
When you leave tell her you'll be back and you two play a computer or board game. She may test you again, if she do something ignoring, talk to her about it alone and get her to apologize and excuse whatever happen. Mostly let her know how you emotionally love her.
Believe it or not, the more attention you give her, the more you are building a good positive bond! and the more you can control the entire relationship. She desire to have your attention big sister and she is the only one that knows why. Buy her a child's Bible.
When you two are older, she will remember the juster you had made, You sister will trust your advice!
God Bless
2007-02-25 21:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Britney, calm down, little sisters look up to big sisters.
Be an inspiration to her instead of avoiding her.
One day you may need her in the future.
Be nice and positive is the key rule.
If she acts braty, change the subject and get her on a more
positive level. Give her your old barbies and teach her to draw
and write better.
She loves you and you need to show your love back in a
positive way.
2007-02-26 08:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you're stuck between a rock and a hard spot. Little sisters are placed upon this earth just to annoy you. No joke, I am a little sister. But, now that I've grown and I've realized that if my older sister would've just been a little more polite and just asked me a little more nicely (instead of screaming, calling me names, and sometimes hitting me) I probably would've just shut up and walked away. Just tell your sister that she's really bothering her. But it's also very important you spend time with her too. You should ask her if she'd leave you alone now, if it'll be okay for you to spend time with her later.
Good luck, but don't count on your sister never annoying you. You annoy her too you know. It's part of life and learning to cope with other peoples' differences.
2007-02-25 20:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by eissalc_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what the problem is. Have a heart to heart talk with your sister. Ask her what is going on in her life that makes her behave that way. Something must be up if she is acting a cirtain way. I don't know if you are close to her or not. Maybe have a family meeting, and address the problem, like an intervention. Sometimes family meetings are good, at least it is a chance to express yourself. Set some boundaries. Have everyone have a chance to say what is on their minds and listen to them, no interruptions. Hope this works for you. Good luck.
2007-02-25 20:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Younger siblings tend to be annoying, braty and won't shut up... you cant do anything about it.... that's how they are at that stage, or maybe your just overreacting... you cant stop your sister from being braty.... maybe ignore her... but i know that yelling will definatly not help
2007-02-25 20:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by midnight515 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad always taught us to kill each other.... "with kindess." My older brother used to tell me, you certainly don't act like a young lady, then go on to mind his own business. Sometimes he would say, who would want to be around someone that acts like that. Eventually, I Got It! Mind you I was about 5 or 6, but I realized he was right :)
You have to remember, no-one changes over night. Also, let her know you love her, you just don't like the way she act. Good Luck!
2007-02-25 20:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by MsElainious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should tell your mom and if your mom doesn't believe you have her hide in her room and then go in there and ask her a question and have her be mean to you and have your mom watched! oh and what does she do to be so braty?
2007-02-25 20:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let your parents know! Don't jsut randomly tell them, though, wait until she's actually doing something then let your paretns know how you feel. Ask them to make her go play in her room or something.
And if that doesn't work, try getting out of the house! I annoyed my sister to hell and so now she's just never home, and I don't annoy her!
2007-02-25 20:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Thats what little sis's are suppose to do drive u crazy deal with it and stop being a brat ur self! Ask her what her deal is!
2007-02-25 20:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋