Family - February 2007

Me, mum and my 18 year old brother were in the car and i was just asking him about this song i heard to make conversation and he started to be mean so i left him and didn't talk to him since he's always so mean why should i bother.Half way through when going home he starts trying to talk to me and saying i have jam dounuts for you and starts putting it in my face and hitting me with the bag so i carried on ignoring him. Then after 10 mins of him doing that it got to the point where i was so annoyed i just shoved the dounut bad with my elbow! and then he punched me on my arm. I feel like bashing him but i can't because my mind keeps telling me don't need to stoop down to his level! and if i hit him he will hit me and who knows i might be in hospital. And Now i really want to go to sleep but i can't because he has put his music on so loud i actually feel like crying!! He always hits me and is abusive to my mum also!. It's also effecting my speech problem (stutter) too please help!

2007-02-09 10:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by Pureness =) 3

If yes, then what would you like of having a twin?

2007-02-09 10:20:15 · 3 answers · asked by Lucely P 1

I am 27 years old that has been back home with my parents since being layed off work. Business was slow so I got booted but collecting unemployment. It was hard to be back home and hard being controlled by my mother. My daily routine is talking care of my two year old, do laundry, sweep, clean up when needs, and every night I wash dishes. It's what I should do and my job. The only problem is my boyfriend lives overseas and wants me to come find a job there and be with him and bring my little. My mom is totally against it. She knows that I am serious about him and that he has transferred money when I needed it. My two year old knows him(he does not know his own father.) He is very trust worthy, and we love each other he is my best friend. So with a very controlling mother, domineering mother like mine (remember the moves "Mommie Dearest" and "Post cards from the Edge") How do you break it to her that I am leaving to be with this guy. He is going to take care of me I'm sure.

2007-02-09 09:50:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 09:48:34 · 6 answers · asked by heatherlynn 2

well she has ever scence i was 4 and my dad raised me so should i still have respct four my mom and should i still think of her as a mom.

2007-02-09 09:34:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 09:29:10 · 9 answers · asked by natalie 1

2007-02-09 09:27:20 · 11 answers · asked by natalie 1

to still be living with my parents i'm 23 about to turn 24, but i'm going to school and have a part time job. is that to old to be living at home still?

2007-02-09 09:17:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

its really dumb, and people always say bad things about jesus..i mean get a grip people!


krista

2007-02-09 09:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend got in trouble with his parents because of grades and his attitude. His grades aren't even that bad but I need ideas as to how to improve his attitude towards his parents and be nicer to them. Like things to tell him he should try to do to fix it. I'm already working on the grades but advice on that would be good too. He can't hang out with me until he fixes his grades and has a better attitude. He also got his computer and cell phone taken away so I don't really have any way of talking to him accept at school. IDEAS PLEASE...?
he's a sophomore in high school by the way

2007-02-09 08:59:12 · 4 answers · asked by sportzchic09 2

I had some concerns about my relationship with my brother. We are so different and in many ways I felt bad with the way he joked around about me. I tried saying something over the years and he didn't ever seem to hear me. We are now in our 30's and I finally just emailed him after Christmas and told him that I am getting more upset over the years over something that started out so small. I feel upset and that he is insenitive to me frequently. It has been like this since childhood and so I told him that I don't blame him.. we were raised this way and I just felt that I needed to say something about it. He got very defensive and angry. So I told him that I would no longer put up with feeling bullied, no matter how innocent his intentions. He then emailed me back telling me that I am a very manipulative person and that he will not kiss my a-s-s. Did I do something wrong? I was just trying to ask him to show more respect when talking to me. What happened?????

2007-02-09 08:56:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got gaurdianship of my younger sister and I am having a hard time with her and my own kids and marriage are changing. I think that it is too much for me to handle, what can I do??

2007-02-09 08:43:47 · 2 answers · asked by mommyx3 3

I am a grown women with grown children and one grandchild. My mother is always being negative about everything i do, like i clean my house to much, or spend money on wrong things. She recently started asking If i made my daughters car payment. I found out that she wanted to know so she can change her will. she says she has created a monster in me. alot more, but just like the previous writer i am drained. i am talking to her at all because if has affected me emotionally and physically. and i cant take it anymore. i say she can talk to my younger sister instead of me. what do you think?

2007-02-09 08:42:19 · 6 answers · asked by shelly92555 4

My husband wants to name my child after his dad,which is a very ugly and old name,.what should i do

2007-02-09 08:40:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My one and only father whom is already 50 plus is dating with a young girl around 20-30 plus! Yet my mum is taking all the pressure and when my mum ask him that y is he going out with another women, all he said was "It isn't wrong to go out with another women". If i was his morther....i would slap his face for he has done.

His lust was since i was small, almost getting rape by him and was saved if it wasn't for my mum and my brother. He act godly in front of his friends in the church. but we, the whole family would never trust him.

So wat should i do next? Wait until i grow up and run away or wat?

2007-02-09 08:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I occupy the room next to my sister. Anyway, last night I heard her moaning through the wall. I could barely hear it, but it bothered me. I could not fall asleep. She stopped after about forty-five minutes of it. Was she dreaming of something scary?

2007-02-09 08:34:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes not really very girly either

2007-02-09 08:25:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad and i don't really get along but i still love him.i just came back from school and heard that my dad is really sick.i don't know what to do.

2007-02-09 08:20:00 · 14 answers · asked by sawsan m 1

my brother wont ever leave me alone. he will do anything to make me mad. (and i think he knows what to do to make me mad) i've tried ignoring him but it just doesnt work. i've also tried being really nice to him and i will admit that i'm not always nice to him either but he usually starts it. what can i do to make him stop doing everything to make me mad????

please give me some advise. PLEASE?????????

2007-02-09 08:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3

I need a good way to ask my parents if i can go out with a guy who is older than me. any suggestions?

2007-02-09 08:09:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is recovering from surgery almost 2 weeks ago. It is my childrens weekend to spend with me. Their mother was sick , flu like, earlier this week as well as my daughter. My oldest son is currently ill and will not be coming. My wife is concerned that if my daughter and other 2 sons come they will bring the flu. They have no symtoms and are not sick in anyway. I'm irritated at canceling my weekend with them on the off chance that they might bring the flu. Shes irritated that its even a question with me about them coming down. What do you think ?

2007-02-09 07:59:01 · 11 answers · asked by EGOman 5

It feels like nobody really listens to me, nor does anybody really think I have feelings about anything, and they just act like I am not in the room with them. They assume that I feel like this and they don't really care for what I really think and they don't bother ask if I am okay with everything happening in my life.
Also, it seems like nobody ever comes to visit me, or atleast nobody really thinks that I would want someone to visit me every so often. Atleast they could ask me if I want to go to a movie or go out and eat somewhere.
Does anyone have any kinds of opinions on what I should do?

2007-02-09 07:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Roxas of Organization 13 7

2007-02-09 07:50:47 · 16 answers · asked by ymisitnhere 1

when I get any other money, she demands an answer for what I did with my money. I'm 23 yrs. old with a college degree & my own apartment. When I was 18, this woman took my Social Security backpay check of $3,946 & my trust fund money from my biological dad which was $5499, & with my savings account, I didn't know her name was on the account, & the bank tellers are telling me that it's her right to take it because according to them, it's HER money. How is that if the checks say MY name on them & not hers? She won't even tell me what she did with my money, but then she demands an answer for how much money I have in my bank account & stuff like that, but she's so cheeky that she won't even tell me where MY money is & what she did with it. I was told it's too late to take her to court.

& with a little of the money, she took me shopping, & I was 18, going on 19, & she wouldn't let me pick out my own clothes & shoes, & then got embarrassed when I got mad. Wouldn't you be upset too?

2007-02-09 07:46:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My foster sister tried to tell me that my biological brother has better sense than to deal with our mentally ill biological mother, & she's ignorant because what she doesn't know is that he hangs with our real mom more than any of my siblings. I'm 23 yrs. old & grown with my own house & a college degree. Who is my former foster family to tell me I can't talk to my biological family? I mean, my foster sister deals with her biological mother (my foster mother) on a daily basis. Why isn't she stupid? But what's funny is @ the same time, the foster family don't want any dealings with me while they don't want me contacting my family. They kept me away from my biological family all my childhood life, & that's not fair-just jecause they were feuding, & the foster mom lied & said that it was court ordered that we stay away from our biological family, & come to find out, that's not true.

2007-02-09 07:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he loves the Heavy equipment like CAT that his daddy drives since Daddy works for the street department we want to do like street workers or construction themed. I need ideas for keeping kids ages 2-13 busy without a lot of money being spent.

2007-02-09 07:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by mommyoftwo 2

My dad is a drunk man and i havent seen him in abt 5 or 6 monthes and he is making me go this weekend but i have a birthday party 4 my friend sat night i want to go to the party but not with my dad.I HATE my dad...should i go to my friends house b4 he picks me up that way im not home when he picks up my sister or should i stay home and tell him i dont want to go with him then he will yell at me possibly hit me or just go wit him and get it over wit???? This has happened b4 and he called the cops...PLZ help me!!!!!!!!♥

2007-02-09 07:24:56 · 17 answers · asked by pancake 1

since a young age i lived with my mother, she ended up moving in with her new man, and i ended up going to live with my dad. im a sinlge child, and me and my mom are not as close.

i worry about him all the time. thinking the worst may happen even when hes at work, or out on the weekends. we have never had the daughter father relationship where i tell him i love him, or have a hug just simply because i need one.

iv recently moved from home, and i miss having him around. i feel guilty that iv left him at home (with his wife and his daughter). im close to moving back home just to hear him screaming at me for leaving the door open, or just to hear him singing!!

as you never now whats going to happen around the corner, im so scared of loosing him.

is this normal? surely im wasting time worrying about him now, and i should just make the most of him actually being around?

2007-02-09 07:12:43 · 13 answers · asked by geminially 2

Do I have to have my son's permission to register his phone with a tracking agency

2007-02-09 07:11:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 07:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by cutie 1