Nobody is Listening?

Question

It feels like nobody really listens to me, nor does anybody really think I have feelings about anything, and they just act like I am not in the room with them. They assume that I feel like this and they don't really care for what I really think and they don't bother ask if I am okay with everything happening in my life.
Also, it seems like nobody ever comes to visit me, or atleast nobody really thinks that I would want someone to visit me every so often. Atleast they could ask me if I want to go to a movie or go out and eat somewhere.
Does anyone have any kinds of opinions on what I should do?

Answer 1

I think that maybe you should try taking the initiative in this situation. You should ask them if they want to go to the movies or go out to eat. I myself am a bit shy, so it took me about a week or two to adjust to the city I moved to during high school. In about an hour I am going to meet some people that are friends of a friend. What is strange is that they wanted me to come even though I have never met a single one of them. So that will be out of my comfort zone completely (the friend I know is a girl, and I'm a guy). So go try something new and stop waiting for people that aren't waiting for you. The worst thing they can say is no, and what are the chances that everyone you know will say no? Well hope it all works out.

Answer 2

You feel that people are not listening to you, is that understood? If you want other people to respect you, your ideas, and your feelings, you must reciprocate the favor. You must restrain yourself from criticizing others. "A gentle answer turneth away wrath". People used to make fun of me and I would say nasty things to them. Now I don't hang around with people that are cruel to me and I find something nice to say to my enemies. If you compliment people with a sincere attitude when you are around them, they will like you and enjoy your company. If people enjoy your company, they will listen to you and pay attention to your feelings. Also maintain a positive attitude. If you are whining or bitching, that is unpleasant to be around and people will purposefully ignore you. Find positive things to say and pretty soon everyone will be listening.

Answer 3

Since people don't seem to want to talk to you, keep coming to Yahoo answers and I'll see what I can do to listen to your problems.

You should tell the people who do this, "Hey, can I talk to you?" If they say yes, then go somewhere where they won't be distracted. Tell them that it is bugging you that no one seems to listen to you. It should work; I've tried it and it worked for me.

Answer 4

Find new friends who will listen and do the things you like to do. Also confront your old ones and if they seem not to care then you know they really don't care and its time to move on.

Answer 5

let them know that u exist if they don't ask u , u give ur answer without bein asked..u should have some friends.. why dont u take them to some movie with ur self sometimes... ?

Answer 6

i know how you feel im going thourgth something like that also but i have a loud month and when no one hears me i yell cause i sat down and talk with my mom about her and my family not listening to me or how i feel about things and she just said if i have anything to say just to yell til eveyone is is listening to me maybe you can sit down with someone in your family and tell them that you get no say-so in what they talk about and you want the respect that you need or you can just wait til everyone is not busy and sit them down and tell them that you need to talk with them and tell them how you feel cause it is not good to keep feelings inside but if you need to talk about anything im here just messagae me or im

Answer 7

quit your b!tchin and grow a pair

Answer 8

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